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Is my desire from my ego, or is it a divine desire? Manifesting Fail-proofing

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Is my desire from my ego, or is it a divine desire? Manifesting Fail-proofing

This trips people up sometimes, I can see that, a second-guessing of desires. “Do I have a right to want this for myself”, is what is usually at the root of this. Well, of course you do, but let me explain why.

We learn to feel unworthy in many ways, and early in life is the most common time to get an “unworthy” message. Others get through childhood just fine, and feel very worthy, but later bump into a relationship that is toxic or abusive, and suddenly find that your previous feeling of value has disappeared.  That you were the cause for the bad treatment. Small children are extremely sensitive to the messages from the mirror of their parents, and I am observing my grandbabies social engagement system develop as we speak, she is two months old, and ever since she was born, she has been seeking for happiness in other peoples faces. I also remember when my youngest was a small child, whenever she arrived somewhere she would announce it like a very happy occasion. “I am here!!” Just so sure that this was going to get the party started. 

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The opposite development happens easier than we realize, people often ask what they did to deserve their bad childhood, and the answer is nothing, no one deserves bad treatment at any age, but children are like sponges and they absorb the messages from the mirror very fast. Let me show an awful video of what happens to a baby that does not receive a value message:

Trigger warning.

Some people receive a value message, only as an “asset” to the parent, their value comes from making the parent look good, they are over praised, but for things that have nothing to do with their core value. Their core value is unseen, and this could cause someone to develop what is labeled  narcissists.  In the Law of Assumption, psychological labels don’t really exist or help, so I won’t use them much. 

A label like that, for our purposes, is only important in a couple of ways. 

One is that the people who feel unworthy usually worry that they will be “like that”, that they will be selfish or narcissistic if they give more space to their hearts desires, they feel that they don’t deserve money in the same amounts, or love that is easy, satisfying and fulfilling. They are overly conscientious and don’t want to be seen as selfish. You will not be. Don’t worry, you will 100% NOT become a narcissist because you follow your heart, but rather, you will contribute the beautiful gift of being yourself to a world that sorely needs leaders like that.

Second, Other times when the narcissist label could be a little helpful, is for the narcissist themselves, since the inability to show vulnerability might stand in their way to move towards their happiness. Acceptance of self, is different from self aggrandizing, and one involves validating your heart’s desire in the face of potential rejection. The message is the same for you as for anyone else. DARE to dream your dream.

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If you are one of the people who are wondering if you are worthy of your desires, you most likely belong in the first category. Both categories feel unworthy, but only the first is usually aware of this pervasive sense of  unworthiness.

Let me walk you through who you truly are, and why your desires are all God-given, and I’ll also tell you a personal manifestation that is so out there, that it is hard to believe. You know I don’t share a whole lot of personal stuff, because I don’t want to use my loved ones as marketing tools, but this one manifestation that happened two or three years ago is very out there, and she won’t mind me sharing.

But first let’s make it perfectly clear that there is not one thing here in the world that survives death, nothing that you can achieve or accomplish will follow you into death, so all things belong here, in the material experience. There is not one thing that is somehow more “holy” over another thing, except for…that one thing that survives death… and that of course is your consciousness. AND In consciousness, lies the operating factor of the material experience, and that is intent. YOUR intent. Have you heard  the saying “it’s the intention that matters”? Well that ends up being way more true than we expected. It IS our intention that matters! It is ONLY our intention that matters. 

SoHOW is it that our experience of having desires is God given, how is it that YOUR desire for a loving relationship that checks all the boxes is divine in origin? How could it POSSIBLY be that your vision of a mega corporation with a hundred thousand employees is divine in origin? Why on earth would your desire for beauty that brings all the boys to the yard be GOD GIVEN? You gotta be kidding right? 

Nope, I am not kidding, and I am about to explain, so that you will stop holding yourself back.

Abraham Hicks, by the way,  tries to point the way, every day, in so many ways,  tirelessly, and still many people worry that it is inherently selfish to want, and that going for your dream is not realistic, and maybe other people can live their dreams but maybe their karma has positioned them to have a better life?

Yes we are handed a prepackaged set of lack of self worth sometimes, but in addition to that, so  much of our self judgment comes from a longstanding tradition of MISTAKEN  religion, (any religion, I am not specifically picking on one). Even  Eastern traditions are included here BECAUSE, they  have a reputation for being more spiritual. For example,  Christianity and  Islam, being more dogmatic,is easy to see that there is guilt handed down through generations, but Eastern spiritual traditions have a history of throwing away the human experience entirely, in favor of meditating on a mountaintop. They simply overcame the problem of “desires cause suffering” by obliterating the Ego fully and totally, and that is just as dogmatic as say the Abrahamic religions, and ultimately, it is not a solution that is open to the vast majority of people living on the planet.

Raise your hand if you are ready to spend your life meditating, instead of pursuing friendships, relationships, building and strategizing a career, feeling satisfaction and accomplishment over your creative expressions and so on. 

I know I am  most certainly not, and even less so when I was younger and heading into life, with a fresh and hopeful  outlook on life! No, I wanted to LIVE, to experience, to fall in love, to explore my dreams.  NONE of my dreams involved a solitary monastic experience…. None. I wanted to kiss a man, and feel what it feels like to fall deeply in love. I wanted to write poetry and express my inner thoughts on paper. I wanted to be seen as lovely, I wanted to travel and see the world. This thing called life, it calls to us, in a way that makes our hearts sing, and quite frankly,  yanking the ego from out under our feet, so that our “desires never cause any suffering” , is A LAME SOLUTION.   It is the solution of a coward, and yet, a whole entire wellness industry is built around it. Is it any wonder why you ask yourself if your desires are selfish or God given?

Let me give you a wholly new perspective, the perspective of LOA, and of the TRUE ancient teachings.

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Now that you can see how pervasive this judgment culture is every day, (for example the other day, someone left a comment under my video on Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras chapter Three, the chapter that is exclusively dedicated to manifesting, the chapter that most spiritual Gurus breeze by as if it doesn’t even exist, and this die hard person claimed that those are NOT the right Sutra’s.)  … Well, actually, thay ARE the right sutra’s. The eastern spirituality go- to authority, Patanjali, dedicated a full quarter of his book to

manifesting powers. Interesting….

We are  God’s creation

  • God is consciousness, eternal, infinite, omnipresent, God is the observer
  • The observer is still, constant, bliss, eternal, infinite and omnipotent
  • You can NOT see the observer, because your eyes point outward, all you can see is a projection on a screen of space, this is what is your material experience.
  • God, the observer, is like a lightbulb installed into a projector, and the projector is your body, the lens of the projector is your eye, and the screen that the movie is showing on is your life. 
  • The lightbulb is forever just a lightbulb.
  • Sometimes there is a horror movie showing, sometimes a romcom, but the light bulb is always a lightbulb.
  • You can not see the lightbulb, it is impossible.

But you can become aware of its existence by noticing the way that there is a movie showing on the screen, and you can deduce that there is a light bulb somewhere, in the back of you, the projector.

This is a simplification, obviously, but let’s imagine for a second that you are a lineman, a person, drawn on a piece of paper, like Linus the lineman. I used to watch this guy on TV when I was little, Linus på linjen, was his name in Sweden. 

Imagine that you are him, Linus, and all that you are,  is a line that moves across a line, your eye are no longer three dimensional, but rather one or two dimensional, so that when you look out on your world, your line world, all you can see are lines, or slices of lines. Your world consists of lines or slices of lines. Dots. Everything that happens to you, if there is a curve in your line, is completely mysterious to you, there is a chaotic randomness to the way the line dips and curves.  If I draw in an apple tree in front of you and you bump into it, you don’t see an apple tree, you just see a line, and you don’t know how that tree was suddenly in front of you.  Maybe you draw conclusions of a “punishing God”,  to explain why you bumped into that line, but the truth is that I just drew it in there, and that all you are is a line on a piece of paper, so you  search for ways to explain the mysteries of your line world using the limitations of that line world, and that you will never be able to see me as I am, or my pen.

I explain this so that you can understand that there is a physical impossibility of the human eye to detect certain dimensions. Not only is the human eye, and its operating system; the brain, incapable of seeing the next dimension “up” (which is a fourth dimension),  but  it is also incapable of picking up vibrations that are outside of a certain spectrum

A quick bit of quantum physics, to explain that ALL is vibration. There is no actual matter in the universe, everything is vibration, the double slit experiment shows us that until we observe a particle it is vibration. It appears to be a particle when we observe it. Look up videos on the double slit experiment. 

Bottom line here is this:  We deduce things based on how they appear to our eyes, but it is an inaccurate version of the universe. 

Imagine a few hundred years ago when people thought that earth was flat, their inability to imagine another dimension was even more restricted, we evolved, and we also happen to have something called “the third eye” that sees vibration, and is able to detect what for example the fourth dimension looks like. 

Why does this matter?

Because we can’t see who we truly are, and we CANNOT see the universe as it truly is, so we believe ourselves to be living in a random and chaotic world, where if we walk into an apple tree, I might attribute the cause to be “God’s wrath” or something like that.

People attribute the wrong cause to effects every day and all day due to the inability to see who we truly are.

 We are told that we are “Created in “God’s image.” 

God, we are told, is eternal, bliss, awareness, infinite, all, consciousness etc

This means that we are: An out-pictured mirror image of consciousness. 

We are an image of God, and our world is an image of us. 

Why does THIS matter in terms of our desires being GOD given, or divine in origin?

Consciousness is BLISS, love, eternal, etc etc. Consciousness is NOT equal to striving, fear, judgment, anger, greed, envy, wrath, or apathy and so on.  IConsionsess is: Sat Chit Ananda, (awareness, bliss and consciousness. Don’t skip over the bliss part please, a lot of people do. Bliss is the same as an insane and amazing love unlike any other. 

What consciousness, or God, is not, are all the things that are felt as negative emotions. 

Whatever is NOT Bliss and omnipotent consciousness, is NOT God.  

Okay.

Awakening to consciousness is an experience of utter bliss, utter perfection, and an empowered sense of oneness.

Our desires are generated by this source consciousness, which has no other way of experiencing pleasure and joy other than through us.  “It” has no ability to have any experience, other than by way of our experience, so whatever you are experiencing you are also experiencing on behalf of God, the observer, the consciousness in you.  

When you rob yourself of the fulfillment of your dreams, you rob God of his/her/its  only way of experiencing this pleasure.

Florence Scovel Shinn says: 

One’s ships come in over a calm sea. So long as man resists a situation, he will have it with him. If he runs away from it, it will run after him.  

This is just another way of expressing the law of nonresistance. Nonresistance simply means that you are not adding in ideas and concepts of evil, lack, unfairness, or unhappiness. “A calm sea” is your alignment with divinity. Divinity is calm, or zen

Now…

God/consciousness has no material acting power beyond the intent to give us life. When you think of God as an external force that acts with vengeance upon your life, as unwanted events occur, you are just being like Linus the lineman who is unable to see the cause of the effect. 

The effect is something beyond your ability to see it, but it is not random, it is not chaotic, and it is not God’s punishment, it was a direct effect caused by a wrong intent.

Consciousness has only intent in its toolbelt. Your intent manifests, and so everything that you THINK that you are not manifesting because you think of it with a judgemental mind, manifests, because your intent is to show how righteous you are, and immediately, its opposite has to be created. 

The material world is dual, and if there is a cold end of your thermometer, there is also a hot end. If there is small, there is large. If you manifest being righteous, you are simultaneously manifesting unrighteousness. The intention has to take the plug out of that socket entirely for you to have the divine experience. The thought of good desire vs bad desire has to be removed from your consciousness, or else you will always manifest the experience of both in your own life. “There is no good or bad, only thinking makes it so” means this. It materializes, or manifests as matter in YOUR world, as soon as you think it “matters’, pun intended. If it doesn’t matter, it will not “matter” in your world. (Never mind other people’s world. Just keep focus on yours.) The polar opposites HAVE to manifest, but they are always dependent on one another, being the SAME. That is cold, and will never have an opposite of “hate”. And “love” will never have an opposite of “heavy”. The dualities are the same. Love and hate are the same, they are emotion. Hot and cold are the same, it is “temperature”, light and heavy are the same. If you manifest one, you manifest the potential for the other. Always.

The same thing happens when you manifest competition, if you want to be a “winner” over others, you simultaneously manifest the existence of “loser” in your world. There is no duality in the divine mind. There is only what? Bliss, awareness, and consciousness.  Remove the competition awareness from your own mind, align with the divine mind, and experience the bliss of your win being everyone else’s good simultaneously. The dog eat dog world is unreal and you are not obligated to believe in it. You are forever free to label your good the same and equal to everyone else’s good as well, this aligns you with the divine mind.

Abraham Hicks calls this allowing your cork to float.

Everything that you can think of doing instead of manifesting polarity, instantly aligns you with your divine core consciousness. Bliss, love power. 

Every time that you want to assign a goodness or a badness to your one desire, remember the divine mind. Remember that you are also given freewill to forget your divine origin, and  to  unplug from your divine experience and replug into the illusion, and to fall for duality. 

The habit of unnecessary judgment, in the case of this video, self-judgment,  keeps the thing being judged alive, and conversely,  removing judgment from your mind, takes its lifeforce away, and it will no longer  be sustained IN YOUR WORLD. We are meant to have a garden of Eden experience, and as soon as you learn to say yes to that experience you will have it. 

Remember that God can only have this experience through us, and if you want God to have a good experience you have to give “him” that,  the good experience has to come through you. 

BUT if’ like in the Eastern spiritual tradition, we just pull the plug on our desires, and go straight for the meditative bliss on a mountain top, in other words, you throw away  desire to live, love, travel, laugh, and to build and create, and evolve and grow, you take the experience away from God. 

Essentially. 

God can only give

We can only receive.

I see some of the most spiritual people that I know, (including in my weekly group), pass judgment or be self deprecating, so that is how pervasive this programming of blocking our natural growth is.

Divinity and the human is a dynamic creative duo, it is a true symbiotic relationship.

Allowing your cork to float means that you diffuse the resistance, it means to create a space of acceptance and allowance.  It means to align with the divine mind,  as opposed to the dual mind.  

If you have a desire, rather than to say to yourself that it is selfish, say that it is God’s way of speaking through you, and HIS desire to have this experience via your vessel.  

There is a method of making Gods’ desire your desire, and then he makes your desire into his desire, and basically, this is just a mind trick around our judgemental nature, because your desire is already one and the same as your divinity. 

The human body, can not create anything, can not give anything at all to consciousness, and consciousness can only give, but can not receive, in any other way, except through us. It is a true symbiotic relationship. 

Shiva and Shakti. 

Abraham and Sarah. 

Hippos and birds…

A perfect pair.

Consciousness and our human nature.

Florence Scovel Shinn says: 

“God sees man perfect, “created in his own image,” (imagination) and given “power and dominion.” This is the perfect idea of man, registered in Divine Mind, awaiting man’s recognition; for man can only be what he sees himself to be, and only attain what he sees himself attaining. “Nothing ever happens without an on-looker” is an ancient saying. Man sees first his failure or success, his joy or sorrow, before it swings into visibility from the scenes set in his own imagination. We have observed this in the mother picturing disease for her child, or a woman seeing success for her husband. 

Jesus Christ said, “And ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.”

So, we see freedom (from all unhappy conditions) comes through knowledge—a knowledge of Spiritual Law. Obedience precedes authority, and the law obeys man when he obeys the law. 

The law of electricity must be obeyed before it becomes man’s servant. When handled ignorantly, it becomes man’s deadly foe. 

So with the laws of Mind! “

Divinity and the human is a dynamic creative duo, it is a true symbiotic relationship.

In the truly symbiotic relationship, both parties gain an advantage by sticking together.  This is “love thy neighbor as thyself in action” There is no “one against another” There IS NO ZERO SUM GAME. There is no ‘manifest your own good at the expense of another” UNLESS WE CREATE THAT. All negativity is a polarity that is manifested by mental belief in it. 

We are ALL instantly manifesting everything, and most people have absolutely no clue that they are instant manifesting, so they make no effort to control their intent. They think that their intent is hidden, but actually it is perfectly visible in your world around you. There are no secrets here, everything about you is on full display.

Does everyone you love leave you eventually?

That is your self rejection on display, and so on. 

Your intent is your creative force, your intent is all that consciousness has at its disposal. Your intent is your ONLY creative force, and no action is in fact creative in the truest sense.

Florence Scovel Shinn puts it like this:

“Many passages in the Bible state that the battle is God’s not man’s and that man is always to “stand still” and see the Salvation of the Lord. This indicates that the superconscious mind (or Christ within) is the department which fights man’s battle and relieves him of burdens. We see, therefore, that man violates law if he carries a burden, and a burden is an adverse thought or condition, and this thought or condition has its root in the subconscious. It seems almost impossible to make any headway directing the subconscious from the conscious, or reasoning mind, as the reasoning mind (the intellect) is limited in its conceptions, and filled with doubts and fears. How scientific it then is, to cast the burden upon the superconscious mind (or Christ within) where it is “made light,” or dissolved into its “native nothingness.” 

For example: A woman in urgent need of money, “made light” upon the Christ within, the superconscious, with the statement, “I cast this burden of lack on the Christ (within) and I go free to have plenty!” The belief in lack was her burden, and as she cast it upon the Superconscious with its belief of plenty, an avalanche of supply was the result.”

(She calls our divine mind “superconscious”.)

Now, there is a supply chain, that can only be followed in the correct order, and it goes as follows: 

Consciousness (superconsciousness, God, Divine mind) feeds your creative soul, and when it is unhampered, you get to live out your perfect dream regardless of what it is. 

As an example: Apparently Henry Ford , who was a middle aged man by the time  when he had his dream of seeing the car being mass produced and put into every man’s household, received A LOT of criticism. His own dad thought that he was an absolute fool and Henry could have talked himself out of his dream. But he “cast his burden on the Christ within”, he let his divine mind fuel his dream, and if he hadn’t, we could have been a horse and buggy society still. 

Don’t hamper your dream, let God’s pleasure run through you. 

Elon Musk is receiving an equal amount  of criticism as Henry Ford, and if you look around your world today, our cancel culture, and so on,  you can easily see just how brainwashed we are into believing in powerlessness and judgment.  The subconscious program seems real and true to the vast majority of people, still, even with the abundance of these teachings available. As religious guilt trips are removed they are swiftly replaced, at a rapid rate, with political cults, and with an equal or greater measure of judgment. But we can easily change our thinking if we want to.

This program is hard to overcome, because we believe that this is how we become good people. 

That, by complying to the judgment of society’s  current demands, we become good, but actually this is our own mirror reflecting our programmed thoughts back to us. 

Realizing WHO you are, you suddenly  understand, you feel and embody that you are one with your desire, one and the same, like one breathing moving body. This is why it is divinely given. The end result is a realization that we are ALL one, all 8 billion, the whole entire universe, but the path there begins at home in your heart. With realizing oneness with your desire, and that can be anything. 

There IS no judgment, if your desire is for wealth, then the realization that you are one with your wealth is your process, and if it is a specific person, it is the embodiment of them inside of you, in your heart, in your mind. It is realizing that THIS desire is alive in you, and that it is NOT separate from you. It IS God. This desire is  God within, and you are already one. 

The more we allow ourselves to follow this guiding light the closer we come to realizing total oneness, with all. It is the path. And this is why the path of killing off your desires as is done in Buddhism, is a side path that does not really work for most. 

For example, I am manifesting my desire to share my message with you guys, and I have to overcome a baseline personality of shyness. I manifested becoming healthier and a coach, starting in 2007, and in 2016 becoming a licensed acupuncturist, and connecting with clients at trauma centers, and addiction centers, and I had to overcome all these ideas of “that is not possible” on the path. 

But every day I wake up, and my desire leads me back to writing another blog post or video, or connecting with a client, and helping them overcome whatever insecurities that they have. 

I have walked this path myself,  I am walking it daily, so I know the path, I know it can look scary, difficult or even impossible, but I want you to know that if you have the dream it is not only possible, it is Divinely inspired, it is your path, already forged for you. “I go before you and make the crooked places straight”- Jesus

You can not change your desire, or your dreams, you can only refine your mental state. What you accomplish by trying to kill off your inner dreams is more and more apathy, and God’s wish will no longer be fulfilled through you. Your apathetic state will manifest all around you in dreary surroundings. 

You give your own creative power away when you judge your desires.

Florence Scovel Shinn says:

“Nothing on earth can resist an absolutely nonresistant person. The Chinese say that water is the most powerful element, because it is perfectly nonresistant. It can wear away a rock, and sweep all before it. Jesus Christ said, “Resist not evil,” for He knew in reality, there is no evil, therefore nothing to resist. 

Evil has come of man’s “vain imagination,” or a belief in two powers, good and evil. There is an old legend, that Adam and Eve ate of “Maya the Tree of Illusion,” and saw two powers instead of one power, God. Therefore, evil is a false law man has made for himself, through psychoma or soul sleep”

Now for my strange manifestation success.

I moved from my home country thirty years ago,  when I married. I have had family here, but over time, I have lost my in-laws and so on, through their passing. I started to wish for family here, just because it is such a good feeling to have family nearby.

Two or three years ago, in the most bizarre way, it turns out that an acquaintance that I have had since I moved, for almost thirty years, is sort of a cousin, her family, is my family on my dad’s side. It changed the quality of our acquaintance completely, and we both were completely speechless for a good long time. For SO LONG, we had no idea, and it wasn’t revealed until I started to manifest being closer to family!

The fact that you have a desire is proof that it can manifest for you, because it is divine in origin, and there are no limitations in the divine mind.

You are one with your desires.

You are one with your desires.

Make your will like God’s will and God will make his will like your will

Our purpose here, is to be like God

Many people are seeking for their purpose, and wondering why they are here perhaps, and whatever your direction your desire is calling you,  to do it it is in the direction of your purpose. 

Ultimately, everyone’s purpose is to “be like god” that is God’s intention, we are told that we are created in the image of God, who is all powerful, and all loving, and so on,  we are not created in the image of animals who operate on a system of instinct and survival, not on a system of desire.

You are created as one with your desire, your dreams and visions for yourself,  You are also  one with your INTERPRETATION of the desire, because you become according to your own interpretations. Your assumptions about yourself.  Your purpose is always to realize your divinity, that is everyone’s purpose, Know that the animals are created with survival instincts, and you are created with desires, hopes, and dreams.

Sometimes people hear that you “shouldn’t have any desires”  by way of Buddhism, a thoroughly misunderstood concept, with the misunderstanding dating as far back as the equally misunderstood concepts of the Bible, the birth of Christianity.   This adds an interpretation of guilt for having desires, on top of already feeling separate.  Adding guilt on top of our nature, is the opposite of manifesting in a sense, because manifesting is about adding love on top of everything, including offenses. Love covers all transgressions as they say. The reason for that saying is because that is the direction of realizing our divinity. Love covers all transgressions is the path to becoming like God.

The thing is, whether you should or shouldn’t have desire is irrelevant, because we all have different things that we want, that we hope for or dream of.

You have desires.

 End of story. 

 Everyone does. 

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We have desires for a reason, and that reason is to coax ourselves back to harmonious oneness.  We were created in the image of God not in the image of animals.  Some people call the harmonious realization of oneness,  enlightenment,  but I want to steer away from that term for our purposes, because people start chasing enlightenment as if it was just an experience to have, or a drug trip, and it is not.  

How are you already one with your desire and how is it equal to your purpose here? I want you to start thinking exactly like this: 

The root of this understanding is once again, oneness, and if oneness is all, then your desire can not be separate from you. If it is, then oneness does not exist. The idea of not desiring comes from the shift from before you have, to after you have, that is all.   Example:  First you are hungry, then you eat, after you eat you are not hungry. The unstruck sound concept is this, it is after the desire (of self realization) has been met.   After fulfillment there is a momentary satisfaction.  The reason why it is momentary is of course because we quickly desire something else. If you desire a career move after you have it you will develop another desire for yet something else.  An experience, more freedom, greater joy, or love in your life and so on.  It is our path forward in life, and our way of separating ourselves from our basic biological nature.  Our desires are an anchoring point, that connects us with our conscious awareness, it is like a light that is shining through, into our hearts and minds. Think, from now on,  of your desires as simultaneously your purpose, and as one with you

Neville Goddard’s teachings is the ”light” version of  esoteric, scientific, and spiritual teachings that date back thousands of years, and this  boiled down version that he teaches omits many things,  but the essence of one consciousness is there front and center.  

“The awareness of being as God is stated hundreds of times in the New Testament. To name but a few: “I AM the shepherd, I AM the door; I AM the resurrection and the life; I AM the way; I AM the Alpha and Omega; I AM the beginning and the end”; and again, “Whom do you say that I AM?” It is not stated, “I, Jesus, is the door. I, Jesus, is the way,” not is it said, “Whom do you say that I, Jesus, am? It is clearly stated, “I AM the way.”  The awareness of being is the door through which the manifestations of life pass into the world of form. Consciousness is the resurrecting power – resurrecting that which man is conscious of being.  Man is ever out-picturing that which he is conscious of being.  This is the truth that makes man free, for man is always self-imprisoned or self-freed. If you, the reader, will give up all of your former beliefs in a God apart from yourself, and claim God as your awareness of being – as Jesus and the prophets did – you will transform your world with the realization that,  “I and my father are one.” This statement,  “I and my father are one, but my father is greater than I, “ seems very confusing  but if interpreted in the light of what we have just said concerning the identity of God, you will find it very revealing.  Consciousness, being God, is as ‘father.’ The thing that you are conscious of being is the ‘son’ bearing witness of his ‘father.’ It is like the conceiver and its conceptions. The conceiver is ever greater than his conceptions yet ever remains one with his conception. For instance, before you are conscious of being man, you are first conscious of being.  Then you become conscious of being man.  Yet you remain as conceiver, greater than your conception – man.” 

– Neville Goddard, At Your Command

In the Bible,  we are told that we are ALL SONS OF GOD, so we can know that we are on equal footing with Jesus, and here Neville explains that we are also one and the same as “the father”, that in fact, the father is our own consciousness. 

One consciousness can be expressed as I AM God.  

This means that the entirety of creation exists potentially only, in  our consciousness, and then the question becomes, what do you WANT to express as part of your own experience. If all that is, is your mind expressing your consciousness and what you are conscious of being, why don’t you just choose to be conscious of being exactly what you want?  It is true that there are a lot of experiences  out there in the world, including  that which  we don’t desire,  and so why are those experiences happening? 

Because we accept them as true. 

We don’t have to accept anything as true that we are not fully happy with. Imagine that right now there are regimes in the world that you don’t live under, like communism, or fascism. These things are real, and yet you understand that you are not obligated to participate in that experience. This sifting and sorting of experiences that we like and don’t like is part of how we approve or deny our own world of circumstances.  Our free will gives us everything that we need to have in order  to deny unwanted life experiences, but they seem so real that we fall for the illusion.  Neville Goddard says to accept only what is “lovely”, meaning, give your attention only to what you desire, and put blinders on for everything else.

There is actually no other way for us to return to “the garden of eden”, meaning to live out an experience that is purely happy, pleasurable and easy. 

This sounds wrong to people who are taught to physically go out there and fight for justice, to change the world through action,  but the fight for justice goes nowhere if  we don’t change the contents of our conscious experience, if we don’t possess the knowledge of these spiritual/scientific concepts. We produce the conscious awareness of having to fight just the same as we possess the conscious awareness of being at peace. We are the ones who have the conscious awareness of being chosen, loved, adored and the happy star of your own life, just as much as we are the ones who have the conscious awareness of not being good enough, never chosen, and not worthy. 

An assumption that there is something that we are up against manifests circumstances that we have to fight.  A personality plays a huge role in this, and an ability to resist the temptation to fix everything will help, if you have this “fix the world” or “fix other people” or fix your specific person” personality.  Begin with putin on blinders to faults, and create an assumption that everything works out perfectly without your interference.  Think instead, that everytime you let things work out on their own, it fixes itself much faster.

In one way we are just a hologram out pictured by the one consciousness, and without that one consciousness we don’t even exist. Consciousness exists always, in undiminished form, and sometimes we interpret “becoming” more aware, or achieving greater levels of consciousness as something that is a distance away from us, or some time into the future. Like, if I meditate for 5 years, THEN I might stand a chance at higher consciousness but in actuality, it is always present in unchanging measure. There is one thing, one thing only that changes, and that is how our physical senses receive the light of this projector, or say, how we pick up on the sound of this  radio tower.  It is like consciousness is blowing air into a wooden flute, and we are the notes that emerge from the holes. We are inseparable from this air, this prana, and can not exist without it. We don’t exactly “become” enlightened” we already are, but our receivers (our senses) are filtering most of the content.  We are created this way to function as three dimensional beings, but other beings are created to function entirely differently, still, they too are sustained by the exact same consiousness. The third eye has the capacity to transmit a greater amount of this consciousness, but most people use their other senses so they don’t notice this. 

The light of consciousness shines on everyone alike, but our density of form varies, so we don’t all have the ability to notice this.  A human’s ability to experience consciousness is different from a tree, or a rock, or an angel, if you believe in those, but consciousness does not change.  Either way, the way a human being can become more aware is to follow their bliss. This does not require any particular understanding, it just means to follow your joy, follow your heart. Your heart’s desire. 

To follow your joy, you cannot simultaneously follow our urges to fix everything broken. 

The reason why people who don’t even try, get things that you drive so hard for, is that everything is already ours and the harder we try, we put a block into the natural flow. Sometimes when people are “manifesting” they are just creating delays. It is better to let go entirely. The intention technique works best for people who try too hard. Just exclaim your intention, and then fully let go.

“You cannot serve two masters or opposing states of consciousness at the same time.

Taking your attention from one state and placing it upon the other, you die to the one from which you have taken it and you live and express the one with which you are united.

Man cannot see how it would be possible to express that which he desires to be by so simple a law as acquiring the consciousness of the thing desired.” -Neville Goddaadr

How do you bridge this gap of continuously falling for the illusion, to experiencing the bliss, power, love and clarity of oneness?  You actually have an unbreakable  core bond with God, with this oneness, even if you are not able to experience this oneness at this time, and that core bond reveals itself in the form of your desires. It is the light of consciousness shining through, grab on to that light, it will take you there.  The light is shining on your joy, your relief, your acceptance or whatever emotion is a little bit better than where you are at the moment, it is like road signs have been put up for you to follow.

So in summary, you do NOT have to raise your consciousness, it is already raised. You just have to move in the direction of feeling better. 

You can have a lot of material luxury or physical wealth, if you can have nothing, it has absolutely nothing to do with how the light of consciousness is expressed through you.  Your greatest joy is a rope in the darkness.  The fact that your greatest joy is your transcendence. There is no amount of negativity in you, no amount of anxiety or fear that can block out the light of consciousness, it is still penetrating to every cell, every neuron, and every fiber of your being. If we were totally open to this light immediately from the place where you are standing it might feel like an electric shock or an epileptic seizure. 

In the Bible Abraham is symbolizing the light of consciousness, and his wife Sarah symbolizes the concentration of the physical form that receives the light.The two coexist, always. 

 Years ago, I was listening to my pastor give a sermon and he told a story of the monkey and the jar trap. He illustrated what he saw that people  experienced when he was working in addiction treatment facilities, but he also explained that this is what happens when we can’t  “let go and let God”, as the saying goes. This is the story:

THE MONKEY JAR TRAP

 In Southeast Asia many years ago someone developed an ingenious method to catch monkeys alive and unharmed. The “Monkey Trap” they developed was very simple. The hunter would take a pot with a wide bottom and narrow opening and bury the pot in the ground to where the opening of the jar was just above the ground. In the jar the hunter would place a piece of fruit or nuts, and curiosity or hunger would attract the monkey to reach inside. The monkey reaches down into the narrow opening of the jar to grab hold of the treat, and as the monkey attempts to extract the treat from the jar, he finds that his fist full of food will not fit through the narrow opening! The monkey, excited and frustrated, may scream out as he continues to hold on to his food… but he will refuse to let go of it. The monkey sees the hunter approaching but instead of letting go of the food the monkey holds on tighter and tries harder to dislodge its arm and fist of food from the jar. Would you believe that sometimes people act just like those monkeys? People behave this way too, when we don’t believe that we are worthy of our desires, we hold on tightly when letting go would save us.   The freedom is already true for the monkey, but he holds onto the thing that will keep him trapped. We are the same, we hold on to what keeps us trapped in separation, all the while, freedom is right there.

Holding on tightly to our beliefs in potential loss, prevents our desires if from willingly entering our life, because the identity of the version of you that has the desire, is different from the identity of the version of you that thinks that you don’t have it so you have to chase it, or  hunt it down,  and put your foot on the neck of your desire and so on.  You don’t need to do anything, except consider it natural and normal that you should have what you now desire.  The energy of chasing or holding on is very opposite of the energy of simply  receiving or having.

You are the star of this show

You came here for the sole purpose of creating your best experience, one that pleases you to no end. You are not here to pay a debt, to suffer or to pay your karma, all of that is nonsense taught by people who misunderstand spirituality. You are here to overcome all that. Karma is nothing other than what we call subconscious programming, and overcoming our autopilot program is exactly what LOA is. Using our free will to create, rather than unconsciously creating as if on  autopilot.  

Whatever unconscious program we operate on before we learn about LOA is like a tunnel, and we have tunnel vision, we can see nothing else, but whether that tunnel is the tunnel of a villain or a hero, or the tunnel of a pacifist or a dictator is irrelevant from the perspective of oneness, because we are here to overcome false beliefs, regardless of what the false beliefs are.   

Every breath that you take is supporting the life your own body, not somebody else’s body, every beat of your heart is  just for you,  if your identity is that of a person who has to pay some mysterious debt until you are good enough and worthy it is as if you believed that your breath and your heartbeats supports somebody else’s body, like your neighbors.

You are here for your own experience, and there isn’t a single thing that you have to do to become worthy, because you already are worthy. You don’t have to pay a karmic debt for your breath to be absorbed by your lungs, or for your heart to beat. Rather, you have to overcome the tunnel vision of beliefs that keep you in a state of separation.  The idea of unworthiness is as flawed as if I told you that you have to pay before your heart will beat its next beat. 

The reason why it seems like there is something that you have to do before you get your desires is because you have taken on an identity of someone who is not worthy, or chosen, or good enough and the matching vibration is an experience that reveals that life experience of rejection. 

Tunnelvision. Whatever reality tunnel you live in, it is not truth, as one consciousness, it is an artificial reality that creates further belief in separateness. 

If you want to become one with your desire you have to decide that you are the most important person in your life, that is a given, from the fact that you are here living and breathing. By definition, nothing about you sustains the life of another, let’s say your neighbor, your kidney is not cleaning the body of your neighbor, just you. You are the one who is producing this show, nobody else. 

If you are struggling with a pervasive sense of unworthiness, think about your life and notice areas where you are chosen. If you have friends, nobody is forcing them to be your friend, if you had a boyfriend or girlfriend before, nobody forced them to be with you, they woke up every day of your relationship, and chose you again, and if you have a job, that employer chose you, nobody forced them to choose you. Find examples of where you are chosen, and feel the relief of noticing that these people and situations chose you, out of their free will. 

 Think of your breath, your breath is choosing you every moment. It chooses you, you don’t choose it. You might have got chosen by a pet, if you adopted a stray or went to the pound. You are actually chosen to have every one of your desires, and you just have to say yes to a desire.

 Like the adopted pet, you just have to say yes for you to take it home with you, or the friend.  .All your desires are just one yes away, and you don’t have to force the desire into your life, it is already yours, if you say yes.

You are created by a perfectionist, God, he did not make any mistakes when you were made, and you are a perfect match for your desired career, or for the love that you are dreaming of. Whatever it is, you are already a perfect match for your desire, and it is just you who can push it away for as long as you think that you have to wrestle it to the ground for some reason. Be still and become magnetic to  what is already meant for you.

Your desires ARE specifically yours

There is a story in the Bible of Isaac,  and of how his wife was manifested, a specific wife, not just any wife. She had to fulfill many  important requirements, and why not, we all have our own specifics that we feel are essential.  She would have to leave her own home country, and join him in his, and  more, she had to be  a distant relative of Isaac’s, this sounds weird to us, but this was to keep the Jewish lineage intact, so she had to be a relative, but distant enough that it wasn’t a problem, and so she had to be from a specific country, but couldn’t genetically be from that country, and she had to leave and live with him, so, to find the perfect wife, a highly-trusted servant was  sent  to travel all the way to the specific country, to their distant relatives, and find a wife there for Isaac.  I’m not going to read the story to you,  this chapter is the longest in the book of Genesis,  and is devoted to a description of the process of finding Isaac’s wife, a specific person. Clearly, being specific is important.  Furthermore, the request was that the servant should recognize the right person by way of divine signs. 

You can throw in anything that is right for you into your manifestation, after all, this is your life we are talking about, why would you NOT make your manifestations tailor made for you, and why would you not make the direction of your desires specifically and easily recognizable as yours when you find them?   I only wish all people were taught that this is inherently our birthright, to live as authentically as we can, and to not doubt in our hearts desire.  

Some things take a long time to manifest

It is easy to get discouraged when things take a long time, especially if you have watched a lot of videos that tell you that everything should manifest instantly or something is wrong with you. Everything has its own appointed hour, and there is no reason to get discouraged if you have manifested time delay.

The story of Joseph and his dreams and destiny  illustrate how  time delays, and the bridge of events is of no importance.

In this case Joseph had prophetic dreams at night, one example of his dreams were as follows:   

We (Him and his brothers who hated him out of jealousy) were binding sheaves of grain out in the field when suddenly my sheaf rose and stood upright, while your sheaves gathered around mine and bowed down to it.” 

 Now, for our purposes,  night dreams have the same meaning as the desires within you, namely, whatever interpretation you give it.  This  story about Joseph and his jealous brothers also explains how a “mirror maker”  functions in our life.

A mirror maker is anyone outside of us who we choose to believe in, it could be our circumstances or it could be a psychic or a religious leader, basically anything that we allow to shape our reality outside of ourselves.  In Joseph’s case it was his jealous brothers that helped to create the meanings for  Joseph.

Joseph’s brothers were crazy jealous of him, and every time Joseph told them of his dreams they got more and more jealous, since they interpreted the dreams to mean that Joseph would rule over them.  

In reality we have a choice of how to interpret and declare meaning, we have the power to declare any meaning we want both to dreams that we have at night, and to the dreams that are our hearts desire. We can accept or deny anything outside of ourselves.

The meaning-making rests in the hands of our own minds

When Joseph told them about his dream they were jealous and scared that he would rule over them as a king, they created this reality both for themselves, and for Joseph. Eventually they sold him to Egyptians who were traveling through, and then told their father that Joseph had been attacked and eaten by an animal. Eventually,  Joseph was sold again, this time to Potiphar, one of the Pharaoh’s officials, the captain of the guard.  Long story short, Potiphar’s wife tried unsuccessfully to seduce Joseph, and after false accusations were leveled at Joseph he was imprisoned.  Things just seem to get WORSE AND WORSE for Joseph. 

But, due to his ability to interpret Pharaoh’s dream he was made governor of Egypt, and he wisely rationed the country’s produce in preparation for a time of famine. In other words, the whole country did not starve to death because of him. During the famine his brothers  came to Egypt to plead with Joseph for supplies. They did not recognise him but after he was satisfied that they had changed their ways,  he revealed who he was to them, and then Joseph invited his father and brothers to come and settle in Egypt. 

Throughout this whole drama, Joseph is unfazed and completely aligned with his power, his love, and his clarity.  Everyone else is freaking out or reacting to circumstance, Joseph is the only one who is in his power. Chances are you will never face circumstances on that level of this story, but regardless, the ability to stay calm, cool and collected through a particularly dark seeming bridge of events separates the wheat from the chaff. 

How long did it take for Joseph to rule? At least a decade, maybe more. If it is your desire, it is worth it.

A couple more important points are revealed in the above story:

  1. Universe  is always at work to produce the fulfillment of your heart’s desire, your purpose, it is ALWAYS at work, even when it seems the opposite, and if you trust it even through the worst bridge of events, it comes as a pretty straight forward path, should you choose to rise above every circumstance with an attitude of gratitude. Love covers all transgressions.
  1. Even if other people seem to intend your demise, it will still work out perfectly for you, for your benefit, don’t get hung up on the details or the ill will of circumstances, it is STILL meant for your success. It might look like an evil plan, but it is leading you straight to your greatest good.
  1. God’s desire for us is identical to our own dream, because we are one consciousness, and even if we are totally unconscious or unawakened, we have access to our divinity by way of the dream we have for our life.  It is an unstoppable dream, which will be manifested by  grace, independent of circumstances, unless of course, we choose to become apathetic to our own dream. Make God’s will your will, and God will make your will his will, because it is one and the same, you are God.

I am God

This statement is part and parcel of the Law of Assumption, but it is not always so easy to grasp, and if you can’t don’t worry,  it is a process, and you don’t have to understand this for “it” to work. You might not know exactly how your microwave oven works, but you still can put cold food in there and turn the dial and get hot food to come out, and the Law works the same. It works even if you don’t understand it, and you are one with your desire even if you don’t understand how. 

 Our MINDS can’t always understand everything. We make the mistake of thinking that it can figure everything out, and that it is relevant to our manifestation, but it isn’t. Even the most brilliant mind can’t MAKE a miracle. Creation, at its most minute detail is an atomic fusion, and THIS we don’t have to do.   The mind is dual, it is a function of the biological body, and as such it is not capable of fully understanding the final piece of the puzzle anymore, say, an eye can see itself. AND  it doesn’t have to.

The ONE consciousness is the observer in you, and it is also the observer of the universe. It is THE ONE observer, in all, there is ONLY one consciousness.

“All things, when they are admitted, are made manifest by the light: for everything that is made manifest is light. [Ephesians 5:13] THE “LIGHT” is consciousness. Consciousness is one, manifesting in legions of forms or levels of consciousness.” – Neville Goddard

“Causes do not put the nature into motion, only the removal of obstacles takes place through them.” – Swami Veda Bharati

This means that there is nothing that you, yourself, can truly do, except for removing the obstacles that your mind creates. It is like preparatory work.  Once that is done, consciousness flows.  THE “LIGHT” is consciousness. Consciousness is one, manifesting in legions of forms or levels of consciousness.” as Nevlle said… Understand that it isn’t   you who have to flow the consciousness, it is already flowing, our disbelief is the obstacle, our doubts are the obstacle, our ruminating thoughts are the obstacle, our problem solving is even the obstacle. And why is that? Because there is no problem, and insisting on solving the problem puts the obstacle there. The problem was already solved. I express this as “doersip”, let go of doership.

  • Suppose that there is one.
  • One creator.
  • One consciousness.
  • And that is you.

We misjudge the divinity of all things that we think of as bad, as if some things were excluded from this law of one, and so this judgment upholds the existence of exactly everything that we judge. Remove your judgment, give a blessing and gratitude, and watch the so-called problem dissolve.

When we judge our desires as bad, or when we accept others’ judgment of us and our desires, or  we judge others’ desires as lesser than ours, or too  materialistic, or too shallow, or even evil, we uphold the manifestation of exactly that.

Blessing everything that we judge or fear is a big step for most  humans,  it seems counterintuitive, but eventually, a step that everyone will learn how to  take.   For example,  If Joseph’s brothers had not acted the way they did, then Joseph’s dream would not have come true, or it would have found a different roundabout way of fulfilling itself. Joseph continued to bless his brothers and to give gratitude throughout his decades-long drama.   When so-called evil happens to you,  do you thank the creator/God/Consciousness/Universe for advancing you towards your dream or do you curse the events, do you go into an immediate state of anxiety or anger?

Our desires are part and parcel of THE ONE CONSCIOUSNESS.

Neville Goddard talks about the realization of the Christ Within, which he calls the human imagination.   

“Jesus Christ is not a man! He is not a person, but God’s plan of redemption which must be discovered and understood. To enter this world one must wear a body of flesh and blood; yet we are told that flesh and blood cannot enter the kingdom of heaven. It takes a spiritual body to enter that kingdom and my words are spirit! If I tell you a story that many in this audience have experienced, and you accept it, you too will experience the truth that will set you free. No man can set you free. This man called Neville is simply an agent expressing truth. It is not good enough for you to just understand it. You must believe – not in Neville – but in the truth he is expressing from this platform and his books. If I lie and you believe what I say then you can’t prove it and will remain a slave. And oh, the pain that is promised to the teacher who dares to lie and mislead those who trust him. (Read it in the Book of James.)

I am telling you what I have experienced, so I can’t lie. Jesus Christ, God’s story of salvation, has been fulfilled in me. I have experienced the birth; the discovery of God 

The majority of the people of the world will not accept my story, for they want a person on the outside as their personal savior. “ – Neville Goddard

“To know yourself is the only thing that you need to manifest anything. “To attempt to change circumstances before you change your imaginal activity, is to struggle against the very nature of things. There can be no outer change until there is first an imaginal change. Everything you do, unaccompanied by an imaginal change, is but futile readjustment of surfaces.” – Neville Goddard  

The only thing that differs between us all, between our particular desires,  is really just the level of awareness, or our amount of self-understanding that we have reached.  In reality, that is the only thing that varies; Our level of conscious awareness, and to what degree we understand ourselves. 

Our imaginal activity is generated by our interpretations of our desires. If you want love, but your interpretation of this is negative, that you are not good enough right now because you are overweight for example, then you are automatically imagining that you won’t get what you desire. An inner readjustment of your interpretation is the fastest way to open up the floodgates of your desires. 

Every individual  has the capacity to see the “return of the Christ.   Can you realize your own Christ within? The path is toward your desire, and away from duality of the mind, a continuous self correction. Your mind throws in doubt, and you self correct. 

We are created in God’s image, so we are distinctly different from other species, we are  not created in the image of animals.  We are like God, and our will happens to be identical to God’s will, but initially we identify as one of the animals, that is, a biological creature, just flesh and blood.  We are created in the image of God but  before we act like God and not like an animal,  we have to learn how to  identify as divine, and not as a mere biological being.

Becoming GOD

The way we become God, is by using our free will to align our will with God’s will, (to align with our consciousness)  This is easy, but we are not taught about this,  before we hear about this this   we are more or less aligned with biology, and are driven by our animalistic desires.  We also strongly identify with our bodies and our  minds, and we believe that we can do things on our own. 

The day that we begin to dentify with the observing consciousness within, we understand that there is not one single thing that we CAN do, that all things are done by God, by THE ONE CONSCIOUSNESS, and our only accomplishments when we try to interfere is a delay in God’s work. In short, we push miracles away the more we try to do on our own. 

Every time you inhale, oxygen molecules enter your lungs, and every oxygen molecule reaches the walls of the lungs, and gets picked up by four  iron atoms in the blood vessels, and forms hemoglobin molecules.  This  is the breath, the prana, it is your life. The molecular exchange gives you life a little bit longer.  Do you think that you have to MAKE this happen?  CAN you make this happen?  Just like you can do nothing to make this happen, there is not a single thing in this universe that you can make happen, on a molecular level.   WE are not the doers, and  we are not here to be problem solvers,  we are not the molecule exchangers and we can just relax and let the next breath come.  We  can just focus on the solution, because the problems are already solved. We are here to learn how to  trust that the problems are solved and to dwell in pleasure of the fulfillment of our dreams.   You do not have to be anxious, fearful or judgemental of the oxygen uptake of your blood, and you don’t have to be anxious about the perfect wellbeing of your life.

In so many ways, all ancient scriptures, and newer ones too, try to tell us to leave our cares to God, (and feel free to give the name to God that works for you, like consciousness or the universe.)  The trouble is that we don’t let go of trying to solve our problems, so we don’t let the solution come in,   we try, but most often we don’t, not fully let go, and as long as we keep on trying God can not work his miracle.

Imagine that you are a little child and you have a desire for something, and your mother knows, because she knows you and she is going to give you what you want, because she loves you. You desire ice cream, and there is one waiting for you in the freezer. Your mom has planned all along to give you the ice cream, after you are done with your dinner, this is why she bought the ice cream in the first place, but you are trying in all your childish ways to get the ice cream, you are begging her please please please, and you are even trying to sneak to the freezer on your own, to to take it. In your childish ways you are just hampering your mothers work. She is cooking your dinner, but now she is interrupted with your constant begging, and then she has to prevent you from getting into the freezer on your own. All of your actions are simply delaying your ice cream. She was going to give you your desire all along, and you will still get it, but now it’s taking a little bit longer, all because of your actions.   God is waiting to give you everything that you came here for, but you are out there on your own, thinking that you have to get your desires by hard work, or steal it like a thief in the night.   It is yours, and it was always yours, if you can chill and let God deliver it, you will be not only fulfilled, but also comforted that you are so safe, in God’s loving care.   Imagine yourself as a little toddler who has accepted that his mothers loves him through and through, and that he can comfortably wait for the ice cream, and that he can eat his dinner, and BE SURE that ice cream comes. 

Trust. 

Trust and surrender. 

When you are finally able to put absolute blind trust in God, you will be given everything because You are one with your desires. Make your will like God’s will and God will make his will like your will.

Make your will like your mothers will and you will have the ice cream. Her will is identical to your will, because she loves you.

When you childishly have to have things in the way that you want, you delay God’s work, you delay your manifestation. He will do it in his way, and it is alway the perfect way. 

Or imagine that you are sick and you go to the doctor, but once you are there you tell the doctor what you want your cure to be

You have to choose, either you do the path your way, or you do the path God’s way. Your will is God’s will and God’s will is your will, because you are one and the same, but God’s way is the best path there.  Don’t be anxious and fearful, the only one who doesn’t know the how is you.  The ONE CONSCIOUSNESS has a perfect path already, but you  have to chose to close your eyes to your own path and TRUST AND SURRENDER.  BLINDLY.   If you are trusting in your human power, or worse, in other people, yes, you can fail and fail again, but let go, and trust, God’s path can not fail. Remember that you don’t have to finagle the molecule exchange in your lung walls, you blindly trust that it will happen.

Not a single thinker or philosopher has ever created a miracle, there is no mind that is so brilliant that it can create the grace that is equal to receiving what you are not worthy of, only God/universe  can do this.  You can try to figure things out,  and to manipulate and finagle things into place, but all you can accomplish is the cause and effect of the natural world, only God can cause Grace. This is an undeserved gift of love, and we are all undeserving, but that means nothing.   When you let yourself create your dream in your heart and mind, and  you blindly trust that the way there is already created, you can finally abandon your anxious plotting behind, and just open your eyes to the God given path as it opens up for you. Walk that path, this is a path that Neville calls the bridge of events. YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT THIS LOOKS LIKE. It can look like the wrong path to you. Walk with confidence and keep thanking God for fulfilling your desires.

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Grace

Neville talks about this undeserved gift of the fulfillment of our desires in his Grace vs Law lecture:

“[And these three parts mark the great gift], called in the Bible “grace,” an unearned, unmerited gift. No one in this world is good enough to earn it; therefore, all will get it. God actually expresses to man a mercy with which man is incapable with his conscience of ever judging himself as worthy of redeeming. No man in this world with conscience and memory could ever judge himself as merciful as God does” – Neville Goddard 

The time that you have spent judging yourself or feeling unworthy can end here and now, because you manifest regardless. If you are feeling unworthy, you can just accept that and say to yourself that manifestation is above that, and it will in no way affect anything, and that on a large scale we are all unworthy anyway.

Neville also talks about the delay that we cause when we choose to put our trust in our own abilities rather than praying, or placing our trust in being in God, or universe remembering that it delivers every time:

“Now we are told that we could delay it. That’s why I find it difficult to believe that. But still it’s scripture; the 4th chapter of the Book of Hebrews, “And the good news preached unto us was also preached unto them; but it did not benefit them, because it was not mixed with faith in the hearer.” Now tonight some of you could reject it, and that may appear on the surface to delay your call and it may—I do not know. I have no assurance that you could delay it. But it would appear that rejection on the part of one because he heard it but did not accept it because it didn’t make sense to him, therefore, he rejected it. And I tell you, those who reject it—and maybe by your rejection, you delay your call—eventually you’re going to be called. Because he’ll put you through all the paces of the world until finally you have no power to reject the story when you hear it.” – Neville Goddard

Remember the example of the mother, who always intended to give her child exactly what he wanted, he just put her through extra work before she is able to give it to him, and he did this by his own doubt that his mother was already planning on giving him ice cream. 

When you are able to say no to the illusion.  When you are able to reject your own doubt and place your trust in the ONE CONSCIOUSNESS it is like you unlock another level of a video game.  Your flow opens up, and you are immediately leveled, or  up elevated to a new consciousness level, and this light of consciousness is revealed to you in a greater way. More trust is received by you, and new desires form, now they are a little more altruistic than before, you might have started to see others as yourself, or close to it. Everytime you trust in the love of the creator, you level up. This is equal to what people call a quantum jump. But at now time are you so far removed from the light of the ONE CONSCIOUSNESS that you can not see a little tiny sparkle of light shining through in the form of a desire, a wish, a hope, or a dream.  

“Divine imagining and human imagining are not two powers at all, rather one. The valid distinction which exists between the seeming two lies not in the substance with which they operate but in the degree of intensity of the operant power itself.” – Neville Goddard

You understand this when you have shifted states at least once, and gone from one version of yourself and your world to another. The trust increases every time, and the intensity with which you dare to dream without casting doubts increases.  Creating the imaginal scene, completely free of doubts or questions of how this could possibly come to pass, without any fear of disappointment increases every time you have a success story of your own.

“Everything in the world owes its character to imagination on one of its various levels. “Objective reality”, writes Fichte, “is solely produced through imagination”. Objects seem so independent of our perception of them that we [tend]  to forget that they owe their origin to imagination.” – Neville Goddard

You are one with your desire, your dreams and your visions of yourself, and you are one with your INTERPRETATION of your desires.   Your purpose is to realize your divinity, so also your oneness with all, and we accomplish this by daring to believe in our dream.

The little kid who causes trouble before he gets his ice cream is imagining all the ways in which he can get the ice cream, he imagines if he cries and begs he might get it, he imagines if he sneaks to the freezer he’ll get it. He imagines that he has to take it or he won’t get it.  At the end of the day, he was creating out of his imagination but he also put the obstacles into place just as much as the ice cream itself.  The ice cream was his true desire, but he also imagined all the trouble he could go through to get it.  This is how we are with our GOD GIVEN desires. We imagine that we are not worthy, we imagine less than what we actually desire just because we are afraid to commit to our real desire.  

We want a career that is satisfying, fulfilling, rewarding and pays well for less hours worked, BUT instead we imagine how we can make the next buck, so rather than imagining the fulfillment of our desire we  imagine going to endless interviews, or we imagine NOT EVEN getting the interviews.  Sound familiar? And we do this for jobs we don’t even want! 

Imagination creates, but your desire is already a given.   Skip imagining the trouble.   Go straight to deliberately imagining nothing but the fulfillment of your desire, because there is not one single thing that you can do to become deserving or worthy.   Like Neville said, we are all unworthy but in God’s eyes he just loves to give to us ANYWAY.  

“Imagining the wish fulfilled brings about a union with that state, and during that union you behave in keeping with your imaginal change. This shows you that an imaginal change will result in a change of behavior.”

“However, your ordinary imaginal alterations as you pass from one state to another are not transformations because each of them is so rapidly succeeded by another in the reverse direction. But whenever one state grows so stable as to become your constant mood, your habitual attitude, then that habitual state defines your character and is a true transformation.

How do you do it? Self-abandonment! That is the secret. You must abandon yourself mentally to your wish fulfilled in your love for that state, and in so doing, live in the new state and no more in the old state.

You can’t commit yourself to what you do not love, so the secret of self-commission is faith — plus love.” – Neville Goddard

Our journey through the manifest world of desires towards  more spiritual desires is natural. Even when the Buddha left his wife and new born son to go and find enlightenment it he did so because of a desire, nothing else, no other reason. Our desires take us all the way to union with our consciousness. Without this drive we would not be born.  Everytime we release resistance, another level of consciousness is  revealed.  

Imagine better than the best you know.” – Neville Goddard

All that there is, is generated from consciousness, so if you look out into the world, or you flip through the news, and you wonder how the world can be in such a state, look no further than your own imagination.

 Isaac manifested his specific wife, and the Buddha his enlightenment, all desires are equal.

You are every word within yourself. 

We  create separation, loss and victimization within our minds, and  putting an end to this can only begin with our own self realization, and observing how our desires are made and fulfilled is part of our divine process, it is the very first paragraph of The Tao, to understand how we are one with our own creation, and how to detach from the dependence on the creation.   

The projection of our minds,  makes up the illusory world, and then we believe it to be real.  There is no out there that is separate from their own creation, it is all produced from the inside of us. Our job is to make the outside like the inside, to become like God.

Blessing brings blessings, and judgment keeps blessings away. 

You are one with the creator and the creation, the struggle is made up in our imagination. 

Still, surrendering is mysterious and many people don’t know how to actually go about this final step, and blind trust in the miracles of God is the way.    

TRUST AND SURRENDER. 

 BLINDLY.  

 If you are trusting in your human power, yes of course,  you can fail  but let go, and trust, God’s path can not fail.  

Remember that you don’t have to finagle the molecule exchange in your lung walls, you blindly trust that it will happen. 

Surrender is blindly trusting.

 No desire is exempt from this law. It is yours, there is nothing you  can do to have or to prevent it, you can only delay by your own efforts.

Let’s get real with the “Velveteen Rabbit” | Manifest True Love with a storybook | LOA

Let’s get real with the “Velveteen Rabbit” | Manifest True Love with a storybook | LOA

“Real isn’t how you are made,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.’

‘Does it hurt?’ asked the Rabbit.

‘Sometimes,’ said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. ‘When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.’

‘Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,’ he asked, ‘or bit by bit?’

‘It doesn’t happen all at once,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.”


― Margery Williams Bianco, The Velveteen Rabbit

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Manifesting deeper love by USING OPPOSITE circumstances | Specific Person |

Ignore 3D like THIS! Manifest your specific person | You put your obstacles there by yourself

Let’s get serious about this specific person LOA stuff, there are so many different ideas floating around, but everything boils down to the simple law of assumption. 

If you have been practicing a vibration of irritation, or boredom, or jealousy, or or heart ache, or anything other than love, then this is what is showing up for you, not the other way around.

It is like Wayne Dyer said, “You’ll see it when you believe it” sort of, but the truth is that you don’t even have to believe, you just have to stop practicing the vibration of disbelief! But when this is applied toward love then there is ONLY one thing that is complete love, and that is unconditional love. We don’t love that way, at least it is extremely rare, nor do we have to. But because we don’t  know how to love, we create obstacles.

We experience the opposite of love here in this physical body because this an experience of duality, and without opposites there is no duality, there is unity, oneness.  There is no way to experience life without duality so without the opposite of love there is no love it is natural.  

Life is also natural, that is, it is of the natural world, consciousness in unity and it is undivided. Oneness. But natural life builds towards unity by using duality, and this is also how you can practice devotion to one God and still gain closeness to consciousness-god-I-Am.  There are increasing steps of getting a little closer and a little closer to oneness, and understanding that the obstacles that you face are not a problem will help you manifest greater love everytime there is a problem.

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I have said before that we place our own obstacles in our own way for our own benefit, but not so that we can learn a lesson, but rather so that we get closer to ourselves. This is more true in love than most other areas, because we go into relationships absolutely unequipped for love. We are not ready for the criticism, the anger, the fights, the rejections and all these areas where we are not set up to handle love we ruin it. Everything negative is meant to be overcome with love, but we don’t know how to practice this. We truly hardly know how to choose the right partner, so it is not surprising that once we are in a relationship we destroy what was originally a wonderful romance. 

We also think that our problems are caused by the faults of the other person, but actually the faults of the other person is our manifestation and it is also our own call for ourselves to generate love from within rather than demanding it from our shadow world, or mirror world.  If you have picked a partner who is able to work through difficulties with you, great, but if you have not, then you can manifest greater love just by your own understanding of how to transcend circumstances and overcome fights. 

Circumstances are not bad, and fights are not bad. This belief that something has gone wrong just because something seems opposite is just causing unnecessary anxiety, or even panic if you ask me because this is how I  have felt in the past. Panic, because there was a fight, panic because they did something that i couldn’t predict, or that  made me feel insecure, or even jealous.  This is just an indication that we are, obviously not, practicing unconditional love yet, and why would we be, it takes a great deal of understanding of the law of assumption to even begin to understand the REASON for practicing unconditional love. If you are new to LOA it might sound like I am telling you to be a doormat, and I am not, I am showing you the path to practicing the corrected vibration.  If you experience any negativity, it is because you have practiced feeling a vibration that is its match, and so somehow, this shows up in life, and very commonly in our relationships. Congratulations because now you can see it, and now you can practice what real love feels like. Does it feel scary?  Don’t worry, this practice can’t hurt you.

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The goal in love can not be to not have any issues, if it is then you are preventing your partner from being themselves, and vice versa. So loving each other through fights is just perfect practice to becoming more loving.  

Even after you have a stabilized relationship without much fighting, you still need to continue to use the growth of the relationship to hone in on your unconditional love skill, and this is a  practice of scheduling in the planned fights and this is what keeps the spark alive.

You know how great make up sex is, well, you don’t have to have a fight or a break up to have great make up sex, but you do have to keep rising above your irritation, or your jealousy,  your criticism, your anger and so on. Remember NOTHING has gone wrong just because you hit a snag, rather, everything has gone right soo rejoice instead of laying on the couch crying! You have all the manifestational power in your life, so don’t suddenly fall for the reflection, and start believing that the reflection has the power. 

Remember again, this is not the same as being a doormat.

 To continue to deepen and strengthen your relationship with your sp, your differences can’t just go fully ignored, like all  peace, love and happiness, in fact the most spiritually evolved couples on the planet might not even be fully able to do that without suppressing their emotions. Suppressing emotions creates enormous resistance and resistance  creates excess energy that causes chaos, but scheduling in your disagreements for a specific time every week creates stability and a peaceful playing field for both people to grow. Suppressing emotions is basically just a way to gaslight yourself, and you might be prone to doing that already, a lot of people are, but don’t misunderstand the basic goal of transcending circumstances. You are not going to  do this with an ulterior motive, and you are not doing this to keep the peace, this is the exact opposite. You will actually address every problem that you perceive as a problem, but in a very different way, the way that nobody taught us. The way that generates more and more closeness, and a greater and greater capacity for real love.

Keep all fights on a schedule, and don’t indulge in spontaneous spur of the moment arguments, that leads to chaos and resentment, and when you do have your scheduled fight, it is a reasonable civil fight, and when time is up, then time is up, and you have to go back to being peacekeepers again. If you don’t do this and you try to force that immense infatuation feeling to be the only feeling that is fostered in the relationship, you will eventually have swung that pendulum as far as it can go, and it will swing back by itself, without you being prepared for it. You will see people who teach or coach this kind of love relationship, often experience some backsliding. The backsliding is fine, it is not an indication that anything has gone wrong, like I already said, everything has gone right but it is an unnecessary instability. Most people don’t want that level of instability in their relationships, so schedule your fights even if you believe that you are perfect at unconditional love, because I bet you, unless you are the Buddha, Paramahansa Yogananda or Guru Ma or someone, you are not loving as unconditionally as you think, and that is normal. That is nature’s way. 

Some people kill off their emotions and live utterly apathetic, in order to keep the peace, but this is definitely not what is meant by transcending circumstances. I think that it is an easy misconception to make, but you know in your heart if you have built a wall around it to keep it safe. The scheduled fights would help an apathetic person to come out of their safe shell again.

We are utterly unprepared for the feelings that come up in love, because we believe that it is SUPPOSED to be only love and nothing else, but now you know, it is supposed to be everything else too. If it came up, it was meant to be for you.

Some day, we will all be Buddhas, and at that point we will have learned to transcend even the worst of the worst, just like Buddha, just like Jesus, but for now, let’s focus on the smaller offenses that we are currently capable of transcending. Oh and don’t let people on the spiritual path guilt trip you into peace, love and understanding without giving space to your emotions. This is spiritual gaslighting, and that is not equal to manifesting love. 

Your vibrational alignment happens when you stop fighting within yourself, when you stop denying yourself and when you release resistance that comes from not accepting the emotions that you have. 

The magic is  to keep a balanced opposite in the world of manifestation, or it will swing back on its own. People who experience a happy relationship for life all know how to do this innately, but everyone else thinks that everything has gone wrong when you suddenly come upon a natural feeling of all the opposites of love. 

Let’s look at what some couples who were married for decades had to say about the secret ingredient, but before we get into what you should do in your relationship, let’s take a look at what people who are serial divorcers  all say not to do:

Don’t ever be with someone because someone else pressured you to. I got married the first time because I was raised Catholic and that’s what you were supposed to do. Wrong. I got married the second time because I was miserable and lonely and thought having a loving wife would fix everything for me. Also wrong. Took me three tries to figure out what should have been obvious from the beginning, the only reason you should ever be with the person you’re with is because you simply love being around them. It really is that simple.

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Basically the most common reason for why someone felt that they were with the wrong person and their marriage failed was  “being with the person for the wrong reasons.”

Some of these wrong reasons included:

  1. Pressure from friends and family
  2. Feeling like a “loser” because they were single and settling for the first person that came along 
  3. Being together for image—because the relationship looked good on paper (or in photos), not because the two people actually admired each other. (shallow)
  4. Being young and naive and hopelessly in love and thinking that love would solve everything.
  5.  Being in a relationship to “fix” yourself. This desire to use the love of someone else to soothe your own emotional problems inevitably leads to codependency

So what do people say who were happily married for a long time:

You are absolutely not going to be gaga over each other every single day for the rest of your lives, and all this ‘happily ever after’ bullshit is just setting people up for failure. They go into relationships with these unrealistic expectations. Then, the instant they realize they aren’t ‘gaga’ anymore, they think the relationship is broken and over, and they need to get out. No! There will be days, or weeks, or maybe even longer, when you aren’t all mushy-gushy in-love. You’re even going to wake up some morning and think, “Ugh, you’re still here….” That’s normal! And more importantly, sticking it out is totally worth it, because  . . . in a day, or a week, or maybe even longer, you’ll look at that person and a giant wave of love will inundate you, and you’ll love them so much you think your heart can’t possibly hold it all and is going to burst. Because a love that’s alive is also constantly evolving. It expands and contracts and mellows and deepens. It’s not going to be the way it used to be, or the way it will be, and it shouldn’t be. I think if more couples understood that, they’d be less inclined to panic and rush to break up or divorce.

Your vibrational alignment happens when you stop fighting within yourself, when you stop denying yourself and when you release resistance that comes from not accepting the emotions that you have. 

Another happily married person says:

Happily Ever After doesn’t exist. Every day you wake up and decide to love your partner and your life—the good, the bad and the ugly. Some days it’s a struggle and some days you feel like the luckiest person in the world.

Most people will never experience deep and utterly  unconditional love precisely because they think that the “in love” emotions, the infatuation is the love and inevitably, that runs out, and when “it” runs out, so do they. The unconditional love that you long for is waiting for you, on the other side of the negative feelings you were taught do not belong in a relationship. How do you get there?

You schedule your fights, and that way you remove the chaos of the swing of the energy structure, or pendulum, as reality transurfing calls it. You fight on Thursdays, between 5 and 6, and the rest of the time you practice rising above.  For example, But do fight fair, no abuse and no low blows. Fight the way adults should fight, bring up your expectations of them, and hear them out on their expectations. Make your demand, and accept their demands. 

Why do you have to tell them your demands and expectations and listen to theirs? Because it teaches you both respect. One person who is succeeding at marriage says:

My husband and I have been together 15 years. I’ve thought a lot about what seems to be keeping us together, while marriages around us crumble (seriously, it’s everywhere . . . we seem to be at that age). The one word that I keep coming back to is “respect.” Of course, this means showing respect, but that is too superficial. Just showing it isn’t enough. You have to feel it deep within you. I deeply and genuinely respect [my husband] for his work ethic, his patience, his creativity, his intelligence, and his core values. From this respect comes everything else—trust, patience, perseverance (because sometimes life is really hard and you both just have to persevere). I want to hear what he has to say (even if I don’t agree with him) because I respect his opinion. I want to enable him to have some free time within our insanely busy lives because I respect how he spends his time and who he spends time with. And, really, what this mutual respect means is that we feel safe sharing our deepest, most intimate selves with each other.

How do you suppose you ever get to this level of respect if you are afraid to tell them what you want, and if you are afraid to hear them out about what they want?

Another man who has been happily married for decades says:

Respect yourself and your wife. Never talk badly to or about her. If you don’t respect your wife, you don’t respect yourself. You chose her—live up to that choice.

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Now, for everyone who have lost themselves in the circumstances, and simply can’t find the way to rise above:

Let’s recreate the first moment you fell in love, or create for the first time, if you have never fallen in love, and let’s create love at first sight.

This is the magic, but REMEMBER,  it has to keep a balanced opposite in the world of manifestation, or it will swing back on its own.

 You find excuses to be together all the time,

You finish each other’s sentences, you  feel so  safe, so grounded and secure.

You think of your sp often and you think things like “Oh, he would love this” or “I think I’ll get this for her“.

You feel like warm sunshine on bare skin, you feel like the freshness of the air is enlivening, you notice birds when they chirp, people seem so happy to you and when you see a couple holding hands you get warm inside and think of your sp,

Being in love is emboldening, and you know how to express your feelings of adoration with confidence.

Being in love feels like you want to give all of yourself to your specific person.

It feels like you’re a more whole version of yourself, not because you weren’t whole before, but because now you’ve met someone who reminds you, constantly, through their actions, words, and energy, that you are worthy of love, this is your person and you know it. 

Being  in love feels like you have a better understanding of yourself and of the world. 

You know that your specific person will guide you closer to your purpose, and  support you in your endeavors.

Being in love is  equal giving and receiving of acts of kindness, of generosity, of your very best self, you don’t hold back your respect or admiration or adoration, and you receive the same in full measure. 

Being in love is calming and satisfying it is thrilling, a little scary, and exciting.

It is unknown and  you feel  vulnerable.

You can’t wait to see the person, and they are  feeling the same thing back.

You can see that their eyes light up with joy from seeing you.

When you meet them the first time there is an instant stirring in your soul, it is an instant knowing on a  soul level, and you think to yourself, “Here he is!“, or “here she is”.

It’s fun, it’s funny, it’s sensual, it is sexual and it’s a magical, it is sweet and it is tender, and it is a  sacred connection no other soul can ignite within you.

You know that everything could go wrong, but here you are, being vulnerable and falling in love anyway. Loving in spite of it all. You are brave and take steps you wouldn’t do for anyone else.

Falling in love feels like  a bubble around you, and it protects you from the regularness of life, inside the bubble, magic takes place. 

Basics of manifesting | Neville Goddard | Changing the quality of desire to an intention and a choice

TURN YOUR DESIRE INTO A CHOICE

How you manifest one thing Is how you manifest all things, I know this has been debated, but I will show you what I mean, so that you can bring home ALL your desires.

How you manifest one thing is how you manifest all things
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To better understand you have to know first of all that YOUR self image tells the story of how you see yourself AND how you see yourself informs you of what choices you are allowed to make.

I will give you an example:

if you are 600 pounds and can not get out of bed your story and self image will inform you of what you are allowed to choose in life, and only if you,

a. conform to your preprogrammed beliefs that can you make different choices

b. change your preprogramming and decide that the programming world of pendulums will conform to you, that you can make different choices.

It might seem to you that you are trapped in that body of beliefs, but that is not the case, if you are unable to manifest chances are that you have not allowed yourself to make the choice to have yet 

How you see yourself is how you act

it is propelled by invisible motivators

Most people have absolutely no clue of what their motivators are.

One example i narcissists that are propelled by fame and recognition

some people with other labels and letter are propelled by the one true love

others with yet other label are driven by solitude and safety

Some people are propelled by honor.

You might not  know what your motivating propeller is and that  is okay, that is not my point, because  you can bridge this gap anyway, but if you do know, you can replicate this motivator by superimposing it on your desire.

How you see yourself self-generates your internal visions of your future, and these subconscious visions determine how you act. This is our autopilot imaginal scenes so to speak.

Psychology will have you believe these labels, and that “society creates you” but manifesting is not bound to a single earthly thing, so you are free to transcend all of this with a simple decision to have. That every human is a product of suffering and reward, and as an adult that reward behavior is still your propeller, BUT this is exactly the programming that you are free to reprogram. If we chose NOT to, we are in fact nothing but a product of upbringing. You have free will, and it si to be used for the purpose of blazing your own trail.

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One of the biggest problem areas in making a decision to have,  that I see, is with SP, but it can happen in any area, for anyone, and the example of the 600 pound person is perfect because you will finally understand the difference between desire and making a choice.

If you want to lose weight, and you go on various diets, you try a cabbage diet, or you try the keto, and then after a week or thirty days you give up, and then you try a different method then you have not made the choice yet. It is a half assed decision, but that is called indecision, and indecision is a handbrake on manifesting. YOu have to let the handbrake up, to go forward, you have to make the choice. Once you make the choice that you want to be healthy FOR LIFE, the weight starts to come off. You have suddenly decided to be a different person, a healthy person, someone who sees the self differently, and this lifestyle change is what the people who manifest sps donät do. You might even be asking questions like “how do I DO self love so that I can get….” this is not a one hundred percent commitment to yourself, this is a half commitment, it is indecision, and it is NOT a choice. It is what we do when we have NOT decided yet. Oh I’ll try this fad for a minute and then I’ll see. NO it has to become a choice for you. I love this person, there are no other feelings allowed in me, no other options exist, it is a turning point, and a 100 percent commitment, and this is called a life choice,not a fad. Nothing that you do until you “get” them and then stop. This is a new you. 

“And Elijah came near to all the people and said, “How long will you go limping between two different opinions? If the Lord is God, follow him.”

 “But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.”

I used to treat patients for pain, and I would often assign them a one year practice with yoga if the situation warranted, and then after that,  a ten year practice, and why would I do that? It  is because most people try yoga one or two or three  times and then say that it didn’t work. 

IT didn’t work.

Sound familiar?

Have YOU said that about your manifesting.

There is NO IT that works, it is YOU that works. Either you make a design or you are in indecision. One or the other, and as soon as the design is made, your whole mindset shifts, you fear and worry disappears and your mind frees up and aligns with who you are, and suddenly the hunches start to flow. Suddenly you are ALLOWED to take the right actions.

It is a change that you make for life. A new life. How you see yourself informs you of the choices that you CAN make in life. CAN you choose to be with the one you love? If not, why is that? Because you feel guilt or shame, and that you are not worthy.

  1. We get what we choose, not what we wish.
  2. We make the choice by intention, not by desiring.
  3. You have to choose to not be your own enemy, by declaring yourself to be the chosen one.

How do you change the quality of your beliefs, so that your desire becomes your choice?

The whole universe is pure vibration, and particles and matter do not exist, in its truest sense. Only vibrations are real, even a seemingly solid object like a mountain can be examined on a vibrational level, and this is how quantum entanglement works. Our mental states are also vibrational, and we align with certain “states” energetically.

The energy of desiring is different from the energy of having made a choice, a decision, or an intention.  

AND Each soul has its own individual paths of unique truth and alignment  (the path of complete self-realization). 

To get there, you need to stop your attempts of being like someone else, stop attempts of repeating another person’s scenario, and to recognize the magnificence of your own individuality. You have to be daring to turn your mind to your unique soul. Do not be afraid to break stereotypes of pendulums that scream: “do as I do” and “be like everyone else.”

Changing a desire to a choice is as much a renunciation of who you are NOT, as it is a decision to have.  False modesty, guilt and shame and inferiority complexes keep us from making the decision to have because we have fallen for criticism by manipulators that we have to “pay” for what we desire. The only payment that we actually have to make, is with an equal energy, so if you are resisting making the intent to have, and staying in the desire and in th  wish unfulfilled, you will pay accordingly with an equal energy of unworthiness or  punishment. Only you can choose that you are worthy, and that you don’t have to pay for any imaginary crimes, and for you to stop paying you have to make the decision to have.

I want to give you a personal story to illustrate the shift from wishes to choice. I used to live in a different town, and I liked it fine there, but in 2015 a massive increase in homelessness hit, and a skid row was built in just two short months. Boxes, tents, tarps lined the sidewalks, and drugs and protitution and deaths increased. Initially I sort of wanted to fix the problem, I wanted to be active in my community in solving this, but one day, I just woke up and realized that sometimes these problems never get solved and then I would spend my whole life surrounded by a dangerous, ugly and depressing skid row. I decided to move.

I thought about where to go, and I decided where I wanted to live, and it was in one of the most expensive and popular zip codes. It was out of my price range, but the decision was made, and my mental energy shifted from problem solving, and wishing things were better, to a choice. The skid row did not bother me anymore, my sight was set higher, and I got what I wanted. This is the difference. The freeing up of the mental energy that is misguided while you are desiring, wishing and hoping, makes the manifestation fall in your lap. This happens because now you are suddenly aligned with YOUR truth. This whole time, I had never truly enjoyed the city where I lived, not an outright dislike perhaps, until the skid row popped up, but after I decided to move, I made the decision to love where I lived, and this choice changed my vague indecisiveness into an intention.

The soul of each and every person has a unique individual set of attributes that characterize it, and your uniqueness is also your purpose. Your purpose is NOT to play small. Decide now that you are worthy.

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Imagine the story about David and Goliath, how little David is up against a giant. You might be up against a giant, and if you are, you have to decide now, that you are able. That God supplies what you are lacking. David was too small to win, but he won nonetheless, and this is the result of a choice. I will go and fight the giant, in spite of what your circumstances are telling you, you have what it takes to achieve your desire, this is built into us. The desire and its fulfillment is buried in the same seed and our job is merely to accept that the desire belongs to us, and that we are worthy. 

Imagine eons ago, when humanity were cavemen, or even before that. We existed on a level of consciousness similar to animals, on instinct mostly. Imagine now if we had questioned and second guessed every desire, every pang of hunger and every lust for sex, we would have died out. The same is still true today, our desire drives evolution forward and continues our existence, but beyond that, it also drives us closer and closer to realizing our true identity as godself. Without desire, we don’t go through the natural human steps of evolution, and we go extinct. We are here for a simple reason, to receive. Decide NOW that you are worthy.

Imagine that the stories of the Bible are actually telling you to go big or go home, and try to see these stories  in a new light. Imagine for example that the story of Joseph in the well is a story about a bridge of events, towards his purpose, becoming king.  This is the most epic bridge of events ever, and throughout, Joseph never questions the rightness of his path. He is betrayed by his envious brother, thrown in a well, sold as a slave, betrayed again by whats her name, and on and on the story goes, but one day, he is made King, and one day, he gets to host his brothers who now need him. He remains calm and unattached to both guilt, shame, pride, ego and everything else that is an energetic deviance from the INTENT TO RECEIVE. Be like Joseph,  when someone tries to make you feel guilt. Be like Joseph when your own mind tries to make you feel guilt. Your desire is put into your heart, don’t talk yourself out of it, keep speaking validation to your heart. Declare now that your desire is a decision. A choice and an intent. This releases the miracle into your life, it belongs in your life, but our fear and manipulations, and our false belief that there is some kind of hoop you have to jump through to become deserving reduces this miracle to a mere magic trick. The fruit of your decision to have, is good, and the fruit of your indecision is lack.

Are you holding yourself back from your desires because your “you are up against a giant” or  “your 12 older brothers have told you that you are insignificant?”  Are you  stuck in the well right now, or a slave to the Pharao

What is enslaving your mind?

 And what imaginary crimes are you feeling guilty about? This guilt is stopping you from making the decision of turning a desire into an intent.  Into a choice.

In james 4 it says:

You do not have because you do not ask God. 

When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives

The wrong motive is for example, “the fad diet” that I used in the beginning to illustrate, it is a fake choice, a noncommittal choice

You need to make a 100 percent choice that THIS is what I want, this is my choice, and let go of manipulation, let go of half choices, let go of  “i’ll do it for a day and if it doesn’t work it means this doesn’t work”

It only works  when you decide that this is your choice.

In Taoism, manifesting is called “ effortless effort” but it only becomes effortless once you free up your mental energy by making the choice, because the mental energy that it takes to argue for your limitations is enormous. It eats up most of your energy.

The world might tell you that you are a byproduct of the situation you are in,  but don’t buy into it, you are not, you are a product of your own imagination. 

Free your imagination from its prison by making the choice to have.

Are you just asking for a little bit better than the misery that you are in? 

Are you tempering your heart’s desires so that you can shrink it down,  so that you CAN  “believe”?  This is a mental adjustment of the true desire, which comes from the heart. Keep your mental limitations away from your heart space.   Our minds are not capable of figuring out the inner workings of how desires are ultimately fulfilled, so all the mind  does is put resistance and time in the way.  This is how we create our own obstacles.  Of course there are no actual obstacles, only what we created from our disbelief.

This mental tempering of desire is NOT why you are here, your purpose, or multitude of purposes, has nothing to do with what is or isn’t possible, but only with what “sparks joy”.  Simply put, you are here to BE YOU, all out, not ashamed to ask. We are told; ASK, and you shall receive, but then we don’t ask…You have not because you ask not.  Instead we stack all the reasons against ourselves for why we should not have what we clearly know that we are wishing, hoping and dreaming for.   Does the wish disappear because you are afraid to go for it?  No.   If anything it gets even stronger.   You do NOT have to drop everything and throw yourself head first into a potentially failing endeavor, no, again we are told ASK. Ask, and it is given. So ask already. This implies absolutely NO ACTION on your part, just an intent to receive.   We love to play it small, it suits our ego’s, strangely enough. “Oh I could never” …. “I am so much more humble and unassuming than that”.  Playing it small is the opposite of humble, and it is caused by an original feeling of guilt. This guilt is false, and you are worthy. Decide now that you are worthy.

When negative events happen we tend to “run and hide”  immediately, so quick to believe that something “isn’t meant to be”, but remember Joseph then, in those times when you seem to fail, when you have made your choice, and you run into difficulties.  The difficulty is part of your path, decide now that it is there to create a new skill in you, overcome it and stay on your path.

My stepdad comes to my  mind. It was  in the late 80s I think.   He came home from work one day, he was an engineer, he had a great job, with a great salary.  Little did I know that he had harbored a greater dream inside of him, a vision of something a little different…He came home one afternoon, with the news that he had been laid off. A great silence immediately settled as we stared at him with serious faces. To our surprise,  instead of disappointment, he shouted for joy, and he did one of those cartoon jump kicks that showed us clearly that this is actually  what he wanted.  I thought he might have a psychotic break for a moment, but it quickly became obvious that he had bigger plans for life and this was the opportunity he had been waiting for, and what followed was his path to business ownership and making six figures, and then seven figures. A perfect bridge of events. The work that he put into growing his business was significant, and he did it with an energy that I didn’t know he had.

Have faith the size of a mustard seed and you will bring this home.

 “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. “ -Jesus

Do you believe that you have to script, that you have to do affirmations? That if you miss a day of doing your methods “it” will fail? It doesn matter if you fail every day in your methods there is NOT ONE SINGLE THING that you can DO.  You do not DO, you make the choice, the choice is the faith the size of the mustard seed. You do not know the way, you do not know the how, this is embedded into your choice the same way that the mustard plant is embedded into the seed. It does not matter if you can’t see what you should do next, because soon enough your path unfolds before you, and that is when you know the next step. If the next step seems wrong to you, the giant is to big, or your twelve brothers to mean, then YOU are the one who is stopping your own manifestation. Make the choice to have, and then go. Whatever comes your way next is part of your path so don’t cave in just because it LOOKS to you like a failure.

The mustard seed has to break when it sprouts, maybe the seed believes momentarily that it has failed. Maybe it hurts to break. Maybe it fears that it is over, and it will never become anything after all.   Moments later it sprouts, but the seed did not know that, this is the path that it would take. Your choice will put you on the path of your new timeline, and don’t be afraid of your new timeline.

Feeling is the secret

“Be careful of your moods and feelings, for there is an unbroken connection between your feelings and your visible world.”

— Neville Goddard

This quote breaks the stereotypes that many try to perpetuate about Neville’s teachings. Clearly he recognizes the importance of feelings and emotions, he states in no uncertain terms. What you allow yourself to indulge in, is essentially “what you think matters” and if you think it matters the transformation into your world is a fact.

How do you react to the events in your life? 

Correct yourself if you have been a drama queen until now. How do you react when you are in a storm, small or big?

Experiment by taking the tiger by the tail, using a conceptual idea of  “you and your world”.

Because YOU are both the image and the reflection, you can use your reflection to your advantage, by using an idea of “Me and my world are …..” 

For example, “me and my world are going to make this video”, or “me and my world are going to get ready for work”, “me and my world are going to get on the subway:” begin to  use this concept throughout the day,  every day for one week. 

Even go so far to put it on the calendar so that you don’t forget. Put reminders for yourself throughout the day so that whatever you are doing when the reminder goes off, you can take inventory, “me and my world are preparing for this meeting”.   I  want you to get used to being in control  of your creation, understand where you begin and end, understand that you are bigger than just your body.   After this  routine  starts to become a habit,  incorporate your intentions into it, that is, your choices.   Your manifestations.  If you desire to be a famous rockstar, then “ me and my world are becoming a famous rockstar”  or  if you are manifesting a new house “ Me and my world are buying a house”.   You can do both the end result, and the process there, it is fine to interchangeably say “are” and “becoming”.  “Me and my world are getting married” and  “Me and my world are happily married”  can both be used.

This is informing your nervous system of a definite qualitative change within you.  You know that you create your world, so you are comfortably commanding it.  Furthermore, your desire is no longer a mere hope, wish, or daydream, it is now a decision.   As a decision,  for you, the CEO of your life,  it will happen because that is how decisions  play out.  A decision is an obvious step towards fulfillment. A decision HAS to be made, no matter how small.  A decision if it will be chicken or burgers for dinner HAS to be made, otherwise there will be no dinner. I decided to eat taquitos for dinner. That means sometime today I’ll pick up some salsa and some guacamole from the store, so that I have everything I need to make dinner. This is a decision, a choice, and as such it will happen. You don’t need to maintain or persist in the feeling of desire, it will come and go naturally, maybe as you think about dinner you get a little hungry and you look forward to it, but you don’t force this. This type of desre has changed energetic quality, and this brings it home, it is aligned with anticipation, not hopeless daydreaming. You don’t have to worry about the traditional  LOA conundrums such as DO I DROP IT OR DO I PERSIST??  You have made a decision.   A decision comes to pass.

THIS simple shift will make a BIG difference for you.

Neville Goddard Says:

“Determined imagination is the beginning of all successful operation. The imagination, alone, is the means of fulfilling the intention.”

-Neville Goddard

This determination that he is talking about  is the choice, and then the intent to have. It is that simple. It doesn’t matter what you think or do in between, you don’t have to be viding high, you don’t have to be exclusively positive, you just go about everything during your days naturally, because it comes to you through an avenue that is perfectly natural. Everything lines up, and you just make sure to take actions that are unrelated, whatever your day presents to you, count on it being for the benefit of your choice, regardless of how “opposite” it looks. It is never the opposite, it is always correct. Be relaxed in this. You decided already for taquitos for dinner, and it doesn’t matter if there is a crisis at work, deal with life as it comes, it has nothing to do with anything. Everything is lined up in your favor, and we don’t see the whole picture, so sometimes it looks opposite, but know that it is not, it is for you, and it is going in the right direction. Your heart never lies to you, it is incapable of deceit, so going towards your heart’s desire is ALWAYS safe.

“If you will assume your desire and live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact.”

-Neville Goddard

There is more than one reason for this but the most important one that most people completely forget is that your desire happens to be intrinsically linked with your gifts, and your unique abilities. Copying someone else’s abilities and  desires, or trying to be someone you’re not makes you path very difficult,  and it makes us feel unfulfilled regardless of how much wealth it seems to be to someone else. I wish I could convey to you how often people have achieved absolute success, but on someone else’s terms, and they are deeply unhappy. You were equipped with your desires for a reason. Let your personality shine, and decide today that you are worthy. Nobody can be you like you can be you. This kick starts a blessing, a chain of events, or a bridge of events as Neville Goddard calls it, that can not be stopped by any seeming outer force. You can think of it as if it is mean to be even. You are not accidentally given your desires, you have those desires to fulfill your own unique truth, call it lifepath. Your lifepath is waiting for you, already made, just waiting for you to step onto it.

 “Believe that you are what you want to be.”

-Neville Goddard

This quote sums up the belief that you are worthy. What is the reason for us being so quick to talk ourselves out of what we actually CAN have what we want?   Imagine if we do that to our friends or loved ones? What if you were as negative to your friends as you are to yourself, if they tell you that they hope for something. Will you tell them that they can never have that, they are too fat, too broke, too ugly or too stupid? No? Well, we do sneaky little versions of this to ourselves ALL THE TIME. It is time for you to celebrate yourself, maybe you are too ub=gly and too stupid but so what? Do you know how many ugly people think that they are God’s gift to mankind? I’m not saying to be arrogant, of course, but I am saying, accept your own greatness by noticing your strengths, and by knowing that you are worthy, just because you are here. Whatever flaws you have that you have used as reasons stacked against yourself are not at all flaws, they are part of you and other people might wish that they were just like you.

“The world is yourself pushed out.  Ask yourself what you want and then give it to yourself! Do not question how it will come about; just go your way knowing that the evidence of what you have done must appear, and it will.”

-Neville goddard

“A change of feeling is [the same as] a change of destiny.”

— Neville Goddard

“Assume the feeling of your wish [having been] fulfilled and observe the route that your attention follows.”

— Neville Goddard

“You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it.”

— Neville Goddard

“Your assumption, to be effective, cannot be a single isolated act, it must be a maintained attitude of the wish fulfilled.”

— Neville Goddard

 “It is not what you want that you attract, you attract what you believe to be true.”

— Neville Goddard

 “Man’s chief delusion is his conviction that there are causes other than his own state of consciousness.”

— Neville Goddard

To accomplish the task of creating a dwelling place, the state of the “wish fulfilled”, one would need to “take the material world and elevate and connect it to God.” This means that whatever you see around you that you don’t like, transform the quality of this in your imagination until it becomes like the fulfilled desire, and this is the same as “elevating and connecting it to God”.

Claim what is yours with the will to have. The intention is the power, and it has to be neutral and free of resistance, not unlike going to the grocery store and picking out items. It is a simple choice and an intent. Imagine if you went to the store for groceries, and when there, you started to  think that you have to ‘have a strong desire” to buy oranges, and that you had to persist in your affirmations…  This is how many approach manifesting. 

Getting stuck in this useless energy wasting resistance mode, drop importance and approach it like a more mundane activity.  Don’t be afraid that it won’t come, have a different plan laid out in case it doesn’t work so that you are not plagued with fear, that creates even more resistance. Make peace with potential failure, and then go ahead and act in the way that most naturally follows next. DO NOT WAIT, you need to take some type of action, towards something, otherwise you create EVEN MORE resistance. Don’t take “false” action, that is don’t manipulate or finagle the outcome, rather take any natural action based on your current moment. 

Dwelling in the state of the wish fulfilled, is the same as the sort of indifferent state of having basically anything that you currently have, in other words, there is no desire there. Think of something that you now have that you previously desired, and how you rarely if ever even give it any thought at all.

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Resolve your blocks, the heart knows the way! Manifesting, Neville Goddard and the Tao

Resolve your blocks, the heart knows the way

You don’t need a reading!

I get questions about doing readings for people,and I understand where you are coming from, I used to think that a reading can give me the answers that I need too, but once you understand how to make practical applications of the law of assumption, you will never want another reading again, because you will know how you create your own future. Just like you understand that physical actions lead to certain results, for example if I get in my car, I start it, and I press the gas pedal and drive towards the post office, I will eventually arrive at the post office. This is predictable, and you understand that no reading is necessary to know where you are going. The law of assumption should give the same exact certainty. Will you get your desires? The moment you change the quality of your desire into a choice, an intention and a decision, and use your inner state of mind, you will know where you are headed and you don’t need to ask anyone.

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1. States, spirits, and pendulums. YOU are greater, stop fearing the world.

Secret knowledge has been clouded in so much esoteric mumbo jumbo for so long, so obscure, and so mysterious, but everything you need to know has ALSO been documented, in black and white, thousands of years ago, and there is nothing mysterious about it, there is nothing secret about it anymore than gravity is a secret knowledge, there is nothing complicated about using and understanding the law of assumption to achieve goals, nothing particularly difficult is required to “use” this law, in fact you are always using it, just like you are “using” gravity to stand on the ground. 

Neville Goddard talks about states of mind, this is taken  from his lecture “Infinite states” “As a son of the Most High you can, in the twinkle of an eye, move into any state, but the chances are you will not remain there, for a state is made up of a body of beliefs! If you spend the day thinking from a certain base, a certain body of beliefs, the chances are you will fall asleep that night in the same belief. Knowing you can move into another state, another body of beliefs, you may try to move, but you must persist in staying in the new state until it becomes natural.” 

Vadim Zeland calls the same thing a “pendulum”, and the Bible calls this a “spirit.

The problem with naming the state that you are in, is really only related to the sense of powerlessness  that it can cause. A state of mind has no power over you, and it is gone the moment you decide to leave it mentally. Thinking that your state of mind is subject to the whims of pendulums,  or the delusion of spirits is disempowering.  The metaphors of the Bible are meant to be empowering, but we have to understand that it is not literal. The “spirits” are not an outer force, but are rather a mood, a state of mind that has a hold on you, and that is internally generated, sustained and maintained.  If you have understood Vadim Zeland correctly, you know that you are in control of whether you get hooked by a “pendulum” or not. Vadim Zeland describes cultures, wars, political and religious movements, charities, activism, teenage peer pressure and other outer circumstances as pendulums, literally everything is a pendulum, but just like a state of mind and a spirit, the actual experience is our reaction to the circumstance. It is consciousness plus an object, and the meaning that we attribute to that object and experience.  Although it sounds like something external it is not. A spirit is nothing other than a state of mind, and a pendulum is also just a state of mind, and you are the only one who can give life to a state. Nothing else and no one else. This is what we mean by circumstances don’t matter, in a nutshell. YOU have to make the circumstances not matter, otherwise they turn to matter. 

The change of states is the step you need in order to expand your experience to include the fulfillment of your desire, otherwise you stay stuck in longing for your desire, or hoping, wishing, and dreaming of it. The change of state has to be to the completion, the desire changes quality, and becomes an intent, a choice, and you find that you are mentally now at a point in time after you have been fulfilled, where longing and desire is already gone and forgotten, your intent to receive is an indication that you are on your way now. 

2. Stay out of pendulum swings, mind gets corrupted, human OS gets hijacked. Don’t get hooked.

Realizing what you truly are, divinity made manifest, or as Neville Goddard just expressed it above, “the son (or daughter) of the most high” and discovering that if you are determined to stay in your desired state,  you can move into it, and nothing can keep you our, unless you give your power away.   The is no state of mind that is outside of  yourself, every single state is 100% dependent on you to stay alive, there is not one single pendulum, no matter how important, looming, or scary it seems, that has any power over you, your choice is completely in your hands, or in your mind, an you can choose to see only your desired “home state” of mind. There is no Biblical spirit that is greater than you, no state of fear that can not be dispelled by a simple remembrance  that you have the choice to redirect your own mind right here and now. 

You are operating on consciousness alone, and this experience, produced by illusion, expressed and made manifest at your direction, is powerless when held against the light of consciousness.

It is true that all circumstances exist, however, you are not obligated to experience negative circumstances just because they exist. 

“This is what is meant by creation and the statement that creation is finished means that nothing is ever to be created, it is only to be manifested. What is called creativeness is only becoming aware of what already is. You simply become aware of increasing portions of that which already exists. The fact that you can never be anything that you are not already or experience anything not already existing explains the experience of having an acute feeling of having heard before what is being said, or having met before the person being met for the first time, or having seen before a place or thing being seen for the first time.”

Neville, The Power of Awareness

Knowing that all things already exist, your only job then becomes to identify what you desire to experience, and to choose.

3.  Listen to your heart. 

The mind is not capable of communicating your inner hopes and dreams to you, the mind creates problems out of thin air, it thinks of confrontations that have never happened it ruminates on all the things that can go wrong, and it comes up with plans for revenge, and egoistic ways to show off, but it dances around the true desires fully incapable of accessing them, and the reason for this is that the brain-mind is created  out of reactions to our environment. The brain-mind consists of mostly reactions, but also in great part the ego, or the identifying mechanism, that says “I am this” I am that” “I am John the man who struggles with poverty, and can’t handle wealth for fear of no knowing how to manage it” for example, and the mind also houses our intellect,  but this is a very underdeveloped part of the brain mind that develops if you are actively working on developing it, otherwise it is mostly dormant in most humans.

The heart-mind, called the Shen in Taoism. Taoism is the only teaching that explains that the true mind is in our hearts, figuratively speaking. And “Shen” is the numen/spirit of  Heart. Even the word for heart, in Chinese,  Xin, is sometimes translated as mind.  The spirit of the heart is just one such governing spirit, there are several such numens, or governing spirits, each representing a different aspect of the mind, and I’ll get to more of those later, because we need this to manifest effortlessly.

Shen Mind Heart Numen Spirit

Daoism  is the only teaching that goes this deep with the description of the division from the nondual state of mind, Daoism recognizes the different  paths that we take to create direct access with our Godself, and so we can derive a lot of understanding from Daoism as it applies to the law of assumption. 

The different aspects of mind are like a river delta that joins at the sea. 

The Dao IS manifestation.  The Dao is also unmanifest. 

The Shen of the heart  means mind, or consciousness, so The mind and consciousness is located in the heart, not the brain. The Chinese character for “Shen” is composed of two characters that give the deeper meaning of the word (as well as the pronunciation) It roughly translates to: Influence from heaven, expressed (or extended). Another  way of expressing this meaning is:  From consciousness, made manifest.

Just by understanding this little tiny bit of Taoism, so much confusion and weirdness advised by the law of attraction and new age religion can be dismissed. Your heart is the hub. Your heart is the human call center. Let your heart guide the way.

Taoist  teachings already have an advantage because of this simple fact.  

The heart, which we now know  is your mind, knows the most intricate details of your desires, your heart knows what makes you smile and what gives you butterflies, your heart knows how to make you feel blissed out and in excastay, your heart knows what makes you feel zen.

Your brain-mind created all the circumstances around you as it sank into the illusion of separation, then the brain-mind continues to  react to the same circumstances, and then it tries to create solutions using the same faulty mind that created the problems to begin with.

A Christian sometimes very easily gets around this problem of overcoming circumstances, because as they say: God created the solution to the problems long before you were born, so trust him to solve them. This way of thinking instantly reduces the chaos that the brain creates when it reacts to problems. Evangelical Christians create and manifest miracles regularly thanks to this belief system. The problem with not receiving prayers only happens to all those people who believe that God;s will is different from their own will, which unfortunately is the vast majority of believers. For everyone else, a Taoist way of saying the same exact thing is that the heart (shen-mind) knows the answer. Your heart is innocent of the nonsense that your brain can think up, it is an undiluted truthful doorway to your own fulfilled desires.

Imagine your perfect fulfillment, your desire complete, and create a relationship to that experience inside your mind, play with this image, feel into it, touch with your fingers what you will touch when your intention has come true, and look through the eyes of fulfillment,and inhale, what would you smell, how does it feel inside? The heart-mind calls for you to feel only good and natural, not over the top, not uncomfortable, and not afraid that you can’t handle what you have imagined. John, who is used to poverty might feel uncomfortable as he fears that he will lose all the money because he doesn’t know how to handle it. The heart reveals your blocks to you instantly.   Mary who is used to childhood abuse, and has seen her parents’ marriage end in violence and divorce, and then a series of bad relationships with stepparents, who is manifesting a marriage might reveal her fear of repeating the same mistake as her parents. The heart knows exactly what and how far you can take your manifestation, before you build problems into your desired outcome

The brain-mind has no clue, John’s mind might be obsessed with wealth, and Mary’s brain might be obsessed with a specific person. The mind seeks to solve this problem in all the wrong ways, and continues to manifest the obsession, and Mary tries to figure out what is wrong with him, and John tries to solve the world’s problems of inequality,  but all the while, the heart knows that it isn’t quite ready yet. There is your time delay. The heart knows the way, the heart knows your fears, and the heart knows your next comfortable landing page, the heart knows the pace you can go at. Trust your heart.

If up until now, you have insisted on manifesting from your brain only, without diving into the true desires of your heart, you might find that as your manifestations come through, you don’t feel satisfied, or you feel out of place, or even depressed, then you can start to explore what your heart actually wants. Either you are completely off course, or you have gone too fast,or you have manifested things that you have no actual desire for.  Either way is no big deal, just notice.  An example would be trying to “get love”  from becoming famous, the mind thinks it wants fame, but the heart didn’t want that, it wanted love. (I’m not saying that wanting fame is not your true desire, it is different for all people, but I have treated enough people in that exact position, that either sought after fame or financial success,  and they tied that in with love and appreciation). 

The brain-mind is capable of an infinite number of delusions.  Course correct by inviting your real desres into your creation. If you discover that you have gone off down a path that was not what you actually wanted, don’t place any importance on this, just remember that any success has many failures behind it and it is better to make a mistake than to not try anything at all. Continue to go towards the imaginal scene of your fulfilled desires, and continue to develop the experience of it in your heart a  little more, and then a little more.

The mind is in the heart, so seek for the heart’s agreement, always, when you are manifesting, and you will  know for sure if you are on the right path, or if you need to slow down, or if you need to shift focus, or if you need to segment intend your way towards your goal.  

Your desire might take you way out of your comfort zone, because your comfort zone is part and parcel of your current dwelling  state, it is  part of the “pendulum that you are currently hooked into”, it is part of a “spirit that you are infatuated by”.   Just like you are currently bound by the laws of gravity, and you are using the law of gravity all the time, whether you want it or not, whether you like it or not, whether you believe in it or not. However, if you want to travel into outer space you will need a spaceship to propel you out of the atmosphere, and a space suit and maybe heavy moon boots to keep you down. 

Maybe changing states for you it’s so far out of your comfort zone. It is like moving to a different part of the universe, where the laws of gravity are completely different when you have to travel through no gravity zones to get there. The laws that you are bound by, are specific to the state that you are in specific to your personal set of beliefs, if you aren’t ready right now, for a big change in your life,  you’ll have to find a way to operate on a different belief system, and that  is a bit like traveling to different part of the universe in a spacesuit and a rocket.

When the fulfillment of the desire is far outside of your current mind-matrix, you need stability and courage to continue believing in yourself, so that you can stay confident  even when things start to shift and change. The bridge of events has to be crossed. The bridge takes you from your current state to the new state, and whatever you have to do to cross it will be revealed as you go, but the whole path might not be revealed, perhaps only step by step. You have to dare to take the steps.

Remember that your brain is going to want to create solutions to problems, the problems it itself has caused, and don’t let your brain in on this, don’t let it create chaos, don’t let it talk you out of the fulfillment of your desire, your heart already know the answer, it knows and feels the experience of the fulfillment of your desire. God already created all the solutions long before you were born so just relax and let the problems solve themselves as you honor your heart.

4. Reconnect human OS

Inspiration plus consciousness made manifest.

For this there are two more aspects of the mind that you have to receive, and it is inspiration and willpower.

The aspect of the mind, a Godmind, inspiration,  is called Hun in Taoism, and it is a free spirit kind of mind.  

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The Hun mind  goes off in the night when we dream,  it is completely unbound by rational and logical thinking, it is direct inspiration from “thin air”, and all you can do is to  allow and receive this, because the Hun-mind can not be forced or coerced, it needs freedom to roam, but it also needs to be anchored in the heart- mind. It is a relationship of authentic desires (heart-shen= consciousness made manifest)  and inspired thought.  

Your heart is the anchor that expresses the inspiration, and these two “minds” need to be in a healthy relationship. The heart is the human OS, the human operating system, and it needs to be online, hooked up and connected to wifi, the Hun.  

The Heart is connected to inspiration through intuition, planning, hopes and dreams, ideas, and artistic inspiration. The Hun-mind, inspiration is equal to  movement, it is always moving, always searching and exploring ideas and nurturing those  life dreams.  Without the input of the Hun-inspiration-mind  the heart-Shen-mind  would be an inert and unchanging  consciousness. Inspiration  and heartmind are inseparably linked and together they form our consciousness. Inspiration provides movement in the following ways:

1) movement of the soul out of the body as in dreaming, and out of body experiences.

2) movement out of one’s everyday life, or state of mind,  as in life dreams and ideas.

3) movement towards the other people, as  in human relationships

4) movement in terms of plans, projects, visions.

5) Movement in terms of artistic creativity, that is: inspiration.

The Hun is not only important for the inspired insights, but also the movement inward and outward, it gives us the  capacity of insight and introspection,  as well as the ability to project outwards and relate to other people. The intentional outward projection is essential for your manifestation. Manifestation is in part The law of assumption, you assume your state of mind and your identity, and then you deliberately project that onto the screen of space: Inspiration plus consciousness made manifest.

Irritability, anger and rage are direct blocks to inspiration, intuition and movement towards your own goal.

5.  Willpower that wills itself

Zhi is the numen/spirit in Taoism, .that is responsible for will power, and if healthy, it is a that wills itself.

If Hun is inspisation that inspires itself, then  Zhi is willpower that wills itself, that is why you need to learn to  receive. 

Willpower  and desire needs to communicate.

This is the same as  mind and heart being connected and  online.  

When willpower is imbalanced, the result can be one of two.  Either you experience a  lack of drive, or you experience a hyper overdrive. A natural flow state is steady and strong and  calm.  The willpower that will itself feels like it is divinely powered and propelled , and you can accomplish seemingly impossible feats.

If this part of the mind is not at its best, you  can experience indifference, or passivity, weakness, withdrawal or even  despair, or on the opposite end of the spectrum you might  become restless, agitated, and hyperactivite and hyper-determine or stubborn. You might not know if you are in a healthy state of flow, or if you are imbalanced, but look for signs of excessive efforting, or signs of listlessness.

Other willpower imbalances are forgetfulness and memory lapses, or the overuse of stimulants, like coffee,  to provide false fuel for activity, and be on the lookout for addictive patterns or insomnia.  When this aspect of the mind is allowed to be in balance,you move forward without seemingly any effort, as if you are propelled by an  invisible force. 

This is what manifesting taps into. It is an easy and effortless state. This is a going with the flow, and a complete trust in the next step and the next. 

Willpower is affected by experiences, so if it has memory of negative experiences, those have to be overcome or recreated. Shock for example negatively affects willpower, and repetition of a new and desired habit positively affects willpower.

Some ideas to nurture, foster, cultivate and strengthen a healthy Zhi – the willpower aspect of the mind, and for practicing  staying stable in a chosen state are: 

  1. Doing something you’ve never done before
  2. Doing something for five minutes longer when you would rather stop
  3. Doing something very very slowly
  4. Doing something no one would expect you to do
  5. Postponing  an action you want to do now
  6. Doing something now that you would prefer to postpone
  7. Doing a practice every day for a month

Earlier I mentioned the unease that you might experience when you leave your current dwelling state, what Neville Goddard and the Bible calls “the old man, and this aspect of your mind, Zhi, willpower that wills itself will usher you out of your comfort zone in a way that you might not be able to do on your own. Zhi allows you to accomplish the impossible, and if you can dream it you can experience it, but just like the Hun or inspiration part of the mind, you can not force it, you have to learn how to receive it.  Try being mindful of the seven steps I just mentioned daily, so that you develop your receptivity of effortless willpower. 

Fear and shock are direct blocks to your effortless movement towards your own goals.

“When will and imagination are in conflict, imagination invariably wins.”

Neville Goddard, Be What You Wish

志 will willpower numen

Summary.

Everything said in this blog/video, is meant to guide you towards your life’s purpose, and your own unique set of abilities, and your own hopes and dreams. If you get tired and drained on your path, then you might be headed in a direction away from your heart’s desire, but if you find that doors that were previously closed to you are now opening, and you find an effortless energy, and an invisible force propelling you forward, you know that you have tapped into your own personal life purpose. Nothing and no one can stop you when you tap into this, life becomes a vacation, even the work that you do feels like a holiday, no obstacle is too big

Remember these things the next time you panic and want to get a “reading”, Take a moment to pause and remember that fear is a direct block to your willpower, use the movement of your inspiration to introspect. Feel into your heart and really feel into your dream, and experience the fulfillment of your desire, then again use the movement of the inspiration aspect of mind to project your imaginal scene onto the screen of space, and watch calmly as doors open and close before you..Walk through the open doors. Completely ignore pendulums and unwanted states of mine as you continue letting yourself be guided forward by your willpower that wills itself.

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Do bad thoughts manifest?

Do bad thoughts manifest?

I saw this question in a facebook group, and it is a perfect question because it highlights the most common misunderstandings in the law of assumption, and also, this shows why reading your own source material can help you avoid misunderstandings like this. Only learning from YouTubers and coaches can make you more confused, because the law of attraction teaches something completely different from the law of attraction. 

I recommend reading or listening to Neville Goddard a few times through.

The question, or comment, on Facebook generated hundreds of answers. The original poster liked the comments that supported her, and generally disliked the comments that held the answer. This shows how the state we’re in is like “misery loves company”. It is not only misery that loves company, but all states that we fall into like to keep company that supports its thoughts and opinions. If you are angry, you like to be supported and justified in your anger and so on. While working at a trauma healing center, I noticed that the biggest hurdle to healing is often just that, a sense  of justification of the state that the client was in, even if that was a victimized state. The state wants to perpetuate itself.

This was the question:

I think I am going to have to stop trying to manifest stuff, coz when I follow LOA teachers,  (I’m guessing law of attraction, not law of assumption) they always say that your bad thoughts will manifest too… saying not to think about bad things is EXACTLY like telling someone to not think of a pink elephant and you are stuck thinking about a pink elephant… bad thoughts plus fear of bad thoughts equals more bad thoughts “(notice that her state of needing justification for continuing the bad thoughts is asking the group to confirm that it is too hard to stop thinking bad thoughts, she is stuck in this state)

 “I feel like I can’t get out of this pit and I’m going to have to try and let my mind rest… saying that the tiniest bit of doubt screws up your manifesting, to me that means that manifesting is impossible… coz it’s impossible not to feel doubt that a thing that doesn’t exist EXISTS… I mean I’m having bad thoughts that turn into a pain symptom in my body almost instantly… so i’m just going to have to leave it all alone until I can get my mind back to normal… unless y’all have some good suggestions other than ‘don’t think that way’.. Thanks!

This state that, she wants support for, “the impossible task of not thinking bad thoughts”, is only a state, it isn’t a personality trait and it isn’t even in need of therapy. I don’t know the quality of her bad thoughts, but it sounds like anxiety. She has noticed that her bad thoughts turn into physical pain, and this is exactly what happens at the tail end of prolonged structural dissociation. The body says no. First her mind was saying no, and eventually her body said no.  This mind-body language is the communication of our physical self to our spiritual self. Her spiritual self, her core of conscious self does not agree with the negativity of her mind, it is communicating something different, but until she lives on the edge of her comfort zone, until she decides to leave the “misery loves company state”, this anxiety and physical pain will continue. 

(Treating pain syndromes like this without addressing  the state of misery, is pointless, the pain comes back in a few days. )

The law of assumption generally does not bother with over focusing on affirmations, or “not thinking bad thoughts” though, this comes from the law of attraction, a field of information that can be ripe with misinformation. This is where you hear about things like the 555 method, the 369 method or the water method, and other methods that are more or less like spell casting. The law of assumption has no overlap with the law of attraction in that regard. (Just the LOA acronym) The law of assumption is based on nondual principles. There is nothing to attract in a nondual consciousness…

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We all experience a unique world of circumstances, this includes everything from different difficulties, different qualities of relationships, and we also experience a unique set of financial health or instability, differences in health and strengths and so on. Whatever we entertain in our consciousness is like water for a seed of circumstances.

What we entertain in our state of mind is the soil, the water, the sunlight and the sustenance for our own circumstances. 

I have a way of being drawn to true crime shows for example, and when I have spent a lot of time on my inner state, on building my inner divine connection I feel averse to true crime, but as soon as I expense a little  bit of actual stress in life I feel drawn to watching true crime again, this is how the state that we are in creates our thoughts, and our desires.

Choosing a desire and pursuing it from the mindset of law of attraction can keep us in a loop like this, stuck in a state. A state that contains the whole universe of our own unique experience. This includes good and bad experiences. But all the circumstances are within the comfort zone of the state. 

When we have decided to shift state, the mind has to dare to dwell on the fulfillment and completion of the desires. Yes the desires are also sometimes generated from that old state, but it is like a lighthouse guiding you forward, on into greater states. Neville Goddard talks about  “buying the pearl”  (and selling our contradictory beliefs.) It is taken from a Bible verse, like all of Neville’s teachings:

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it.”

The pearl represents what you want, and selling everything that he has represents every last contradictory belief that you have, the reasons that you have stacked against yourself.

Neville puts it this way:

“If you think for one moment you can hold on to one little thing in the event this doesn’t work, you can’t buy the pearl. And so when I buy the pearl, I go all out and live by it. And there is no other being in this world, just this pearl, and I live by it.  This pearl is your own wonderful human Imagination.” – Neville Goddard

Let’s come back to the original posters’ concern over bad thoughts.  Does everything manifest, every tiny little thought? Yes it contributes to your overall state, and the state manifests. It isn’t like the thought goes into a 3d printer and you get an identical experience, that cannot happen because of hundreds of thousands conflicting thoughts. ALL thoughts go into the 3d printer, and what comes out is a blend of everything. Like a cake that had all the ingredients mixed together, it comes out of the oven as a cake, not as each individual ingredient that went in. 

Just like I described with my true crime addiction, so our negative thoughts are addictive, and all negative things that belong to your state, are all addictive. They are designed by yourself for yourself so that you can alert yourself to the state that you are in and the path that you can take to level up out of that state, so that you too can experience a quantum jump, a shift into a completely different reality and THAT is what you want. That is what everyone ultimately wants. An easier and more pleasant life. For that to happen we have to learn how to use our own circumstances to level up, and not use them to keep ourselves stuck in the addictive patterns of seeking more and more misery. The desire that you are manifesting is demanding a different version of you. A version that has “sold all belongings and bought the pearl”. Luckily different versions of ourselves are just states of mind, and a state has no actual power over us. You are free to leave a state behind at any moment, it is completely lifeless without you, and you won’t remember those bad thoughts that you were so attached to before. Just like I don’t remember that I want to watch true crime when I am in a completely different state, and if I try to watch it I feel that it is too dark and I dislike it. 

Now, some real talk about negative thoughts….

I manifested a lump sum of a hundred grand once, I did an imaginal scene, and I created a meditative trance-like state when I did it. It took two years for that money to actually come in, but number one, I thought MANY bad thoughts in those two years, and furthermore, I did not believe. I actually didn’t think about it again at all, but I was a very negative person in many ways back then. I often took inventory of what was bad in my life, and I liked to talk about it with my friends too. I mention this because I want to show proof that thinking bad thoughts does not stop a manifestation, it just colors the quality of your life.I have made videos already explaining that you don’t have to believe either.

Thoughts and beliefs are generated by the state that you are in, and your manifestation will come to you  in accordance with your state. So the manifestation comes, but how does it come? It comes in a way that you can believe according to your state. You don’t have to change your thoughts or your beliefs to get your manifestation, but if you want to change state, your thoughts and beliefs will change along with the state.

I didn’t doubt either because I didn’t believe it. I had two years worth of negative thoughts in between lol! I have manifested so many things with a mountain of negativity still in me,including my amazing beach apartment, in the most amazing neighborhood,  but I am very GLAD that I cleaned that up, for my own sake ha!

Listen. Let’s explain this from a nondual perspective.

All you do is manifest, there is nothing else happening, but you, here, made manifest by your consciousness, there is literally nothing but us, manifesting, so why bother being so anxious about bad thoughts? Does it matter if you thought a “bad” thought and it threw a wrench in the machinery for a second?  This is the spice of life that we are a bit addicted to. That is why we like scary movies and the thrill of fast roller coasters.  Becoming more and more zen is a gradual process, and you get to choose your own path there, and your own pace there. If you like to think negative thoughts, then yes, it contributes to your overall life experience, but they do NOT prevent your manifestations.

Everything manifests there is nothing else. What thoughts do is contribute to the state that you are in, but you can choose not to worry about them and let them go, or you can choose to think only about the pain of bad thoughts, it is a choice. All that good or bad thoughts do is  they contribute to the “cake batter” of your state, that you are mixing, the “cake” is your state.  Your state  is a manifestation of its own, the state is a parallel reality, in an endless universe of parallel realities. 

 The state is a universe of its own where you think certain thoughts and feel different feelings and experience different circumstances and people. All of life, every last thing is nothing but consciousness, from our waking sensing experiences to our sleep, it is all consciousness. Different experiences, sure, but still all experiences are just consciousness. Consciousness, plus an object, is experience. Object without consciousness equals no experience.  The objects change, but the consciousness is the same. 

Changing objects equals different experiences. No matter what the object is, it is an object in your awareness, in your consciousness, even a mountain is still in your consciousness,  the whole universe is just an object in your consciousness. Now, The mind is also an object. The brain is an object and the mind is an object, and as such it arises from your consciousness. The thoughts without consciousness equals no experience. It is YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS that is like a projector light shining on the object, which reflects onto the screen of space that is your circumstances.  Change the object (thoughts) and a different experience will project out. That is how it works. There is no other way.

In summary:

Your state manifests the thoughts, not the other way around. Your thoughts can help you shift state if you understand this.

Law of assumption means that your assumed sense of self manifests, and the law of attraction…well…. I don’t know that it is anything to even think about, I don’t.  Pretend it is like this:

Step 1. You assume

Step 2. Your assumption projects out and becomes your world

Step 3. You attract or repel whatever you have projected out.

Currently, you are living in your assumed reality, and you are playing with your own projection, and you are sorting, attracting and repelling the stuff of your own projection. 

You CAN manipulate the projection by deciding consciously what you will assume, but you can also relinquish all of your power and just go along the way everyone else does too. It doesn’t mean that you “stopped manifesting” it just means that you are not conscious of your own projection.

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Remove a third party | Law of Assumption | Neville Goddard

The third party.

Because the third party is you pushed out it will help you manifest your specific person! 

It sounds crazy, but this is actually a good thing, because a third party is just like triggers, that help you figure out where the wound is so that you can heal, so do ALL unwanted circumstances help you correct the inner projection, your beliefs about yourself, once and for all. If you haven’t watched my video on how to use negative circumstances to level up your manifesting, it will explain why bad things are actually good things in disguise if you understand how to use it to quantum jump.

The way to manifest love is to focus your imagination on how happy you are together, this means that  there is no thought at all of another person, and no jealousy or insecurity and of course the way to remove a third party is by completely ignoring them.  Maybe you have already imagined your happy end, and instead here you are with a third party, and you definitely didn’t want this. However, This is the path that you had to take to reach your end, and that is why it is a good thing.

Just like all unwanted circumstances, the third party is NOT the problem, you don’t have to do anything at all about the third party. It is a creation from yourself, by yourself, FOR your own benefit. So that is good news. 

You can’t get to where you want to be unless you discover and correct your beliefs about yourself, or your beliefs about relationships in general, or about your specific person, and this is the natural path that you had to take. This is a great time to shift to a better version of yourself, and this is a leveling up process that is necessary to embody for all manifesting, regardless of what it is or how long you have been doing this. Using negative circumstances in your favor is everything!

Ultimately, you will find yourself in a relationship where you don’t even remember anything about a third party, and your assumption should be there now, and that means that you have to not care about anything that is taking place right now, because ultimately, you won’t even remember it. 

(When I met my husband he was dating several other women, but I didn’t think about it. I didn’t care, I just accepted what he said and a week later he dumped them all).  I was not at all concerned, I didn’t care what he was doing when I wasn’t around, and he shaped himself up on his own accord.  When you don’t care about something it is SO EASY  to manifest because it is easy to let go. Letting go is when the manifestation can begin to materialize.  But because you think that everything has gone wrong when you end up broken up, and with a third party,  you care excessively, you are in pain, and you do everything BUT let go, and you certainly care.

We live in an assumed reality, so you created this third party by your assumptions, and now going forward you will avoid the creation of competition. There is no competition because there is only you, you are in competition with yourself, which is silly.  Your true nature is divine, and your divine nature is everything, oneness.  The identity you have assumed is not set in stone, it is changeable and it is meant to change, to grow, to level up, and to harmonize with your whole creation. You might think that it is too hard to just accept that this is your creation, and to create a completely different version of yourself that does not create third parties but think of how many times you have changed already in your life. You changed from child to adult and went through a whole teenage awkward phase in between, and yet here you are completely different from the child you once were.  I’m not saying that you are going to change, you are divine, remember, so you are perfect the way you are, but you are going to harmonize more with your inner self, and with your projection, which is YOUR creation. 

Choosing to embody the state of already being in a stable and harmonious relationship, means a complete and total disregard for a third apart, they don’t matter, so don’t think about them. If you want to create a reality where this is true, you have to embody it now. Choose your end result at a point where you are completely happy and at peace, don’t chose an end where they have to apologize and beg on their knees to get you back, (now that might happen, but this is not the outcome), and it does not embody the end state of stable, happy and harmonious love so that is not a guaranteed part of your manifestation. The parallel reality that you end up in is not a full manifestation of what you desire, if you only focus on an apology, because you are still in the same mentality, the same state of mind, the same parallel reality. The reality where you don’t have competition doesn’t remember anything about a break up or a third party that is painful or upsetting.  Don’t get stuck on an apology.

The reality where you don’t look back on reality where you feel anger or resentment is farther into the future, and you feel stability and  harmony, you feel how lucky you are to be with him, and how he feels lucky to be with you.

There is no thought of anything negative in the past, somehow that all got solved to your satisfaction, otherwise you wouldn’t be so happy together.

This is exactly how all manifesting works, and there is no other way.

It is a lot easier to manifest a cup of coffee, or small things. It is easier to manifest just about anything that you don’t strongly feel anything one way or another about, because there isn’t a bunch of beliefs or a negative story backing up all the reasons for why you shouldn’t have it. You don’t feel that someone prettier will get to that coffee first.

This is where the crux is for you and the third party, you have a belief that there is some reason why it is better for YOUR love to end up with the third party instead. Is it better if the person after you in line at starbucks ends up with your cup of coffee as well?  No. 

This situation is nothing but a golden opportunity to clean up and correct your beliefs around competition, and about your worth. Maybe there are cultural beliefs that you have subscribed to, there are many cultures that believe that romance is a struggle, or that pining and suffering in silence is a sign of how much you love someone, and many other weird ideas. There are cultures where men have to be macho or they will be rejected, cultures where women have to be modest or they are “too much’ Cultures where women have to look super young and be socially famous or they are not desirable. All of these cultural beliefs are false and if you have fallen into believing that you will not be desired because you fall short in your one culture’s nonsensical beliefs, then clean that up now.  We don’t know that this is weird until we examine it and decide to leave that behind by embodying a new state. Imagine the cup of coffee cup, if you made such weird and complex beliefs about your morning coffee! LET IT GO. YOU are perfect the way you are.

The fact that you have created a third party is perfect because you can now realize that whatever you are feeling about that,  is exactly the backstory belief that created them. 

Nothing else created them. You did, with your beliefs.

 Maybe you came from a family that went through cheating, maybe your dad left your mom for someone else and made you feel uncared for, unsafe, or a lack of stability, or maybe you feel like love leaves you sad and heartbroken. This is a perfect time to clean this up. None of these back stories are true, and none of them should continue forward with you. 

You are safe, you create, you can create stability. You create and project all of reality from within. You can create something different. Your specific person can be recreated from within as a very sweet and tender loving person who only has eyes for you.

Some people are only drawn to players, and unavailable people.  This doesn’t mean anything about you or your personality, and it doesn’t mean anything about the specific person (player) either, it is just caused by your past input, or programmed beliefs about yourself. If we use a coffee analogy again, it is like saying that if you always drink coffee that is too weak up until now because you never tasted a strong cup of coffee, that it means that you are a failure or that you aren’t good enough to have strong coffee, you just decide that you will have strong coffee from now on. It doesn’t matter at all if you have a weak cup of coffee in front of you right now. Before you didn’t know better but now you do. You were made aware and now your rules for the kind of coffee you want has changed. Before you believed that there was competition, or that all men were players, or that relationships end in cheating, or that romantic love hurts. You can’t manifest a different love as long as you haven’t corrected that state. The version of you that believes that love is harmonious and stable, loving and continuously renewed sensually exists at the same time as that other version of you. Remember my husband who had several girlfriends when we met? That changed so fast. There is no such thing as a player, they only exist as long as insecure people think that that is all they deserve. By the way, I was a player too once, so I know exactly how this state works. Don’t fall for someone else’s version of reality, just know your worth, and everyone else will too.

Now, perhaps for the first time in your life, you can believe that romantic love is sweet, stable and harmonious, and  that marriages are happy,  and are for happily ever after, and that anyone who was a player falls in love with you and wants to change their ways when they meet you. This is Neville Goddard’s EIYPO concept, and this is how you use this awareness the right way. This begins with self, and most people go about this the wrong way and instead focus too much on the other person, and try to change them. There is no need to even try, because if you are the type of person who men always fall in love with they change on their own, if you are the person who a player leaves all their current lovers for then they make the change on their own. This is the right order of operations so to speak.

You want to be the most beautiful woman they have ever laid eyes on, or you want them to listen to you attentively, to want to want you, to long for you when they are away, and to desire to send you longing and desiring texts all day long, you want them to not be able to keep their hands off you, and to wine and dine you, or you want them to respect you and admire you, or to want to get down on one knee. This person is created within you, and is sustained, nurtured and maintained within you too. Build your person from the inside, but most of all imagine how you feel with this version. What do you talk about, how do you react if you see them react to another woman’s status. You have to be the person who doesn’t even notice. 

There is no problem solving in this, you don’t have to rehash the old back story, remember that this only happened so that you could STOP rehashing the back story. That was your own manifestation caused by exactly that backstory that you keep telling. The more you tell it the longer you keep manifesting it. There is no competition, there is only you. That situation is just yourself pushed out. 

When I was a kid one of my brothers would always be in a competition with me, it didn; matter what we were doing it was always a competition, if we were eating breakfast he would have a race who would eat faster, and i was not competing. I ate slow, and I ignored him. He was in a competition with himself, and that is exactly what you are if you have created a life that has third parties, in a competition with yourself, and nobody else is even competing. YOu are frustrated, and you never win. Just be like me as a child and eat your breakfast slowly and ignore them. Ignore the third party.

The other thing that you guys do that you have to STOP, is stop using the term third party. This is the first thing that I noticed in LOA groups, is that you guys have created your own negative manifesting language. Labels should only be used to your benefit, so either you don’t mention the third party, or you call them an ex, but drop the label, because labeling manifests. If you call yourself a wife or husband, then that manifests as well, so choose your labels wisely, and forget about all the negative relationship terms that you have learned in life so far, you don’t need them anymore, only use positive labels. 

As you guys might know I have a history working in trauma healing, and one technique of many that I have used to lessen the emotional effects of a flashback is to turn the triggering “scenes” or the flashback into black and white, and to push it into the distance until it disappears. If you have images in your mind that bother you, you can use this imagery technique, so make the third party turn into black and white, and see them disappear into the distance, further and farther away until they are a little dot on the horizon,  and then disappear. By the way this works for all triggering memories. After it is gone you can replace it with a better image, maybe an image of you and your love after you have been reunited for a while, in an embrace, loving, comfortable, so happy, laughing at banter, or kissing, and make that image vivid in color, bring it closer to yourself and merge it with your heart This rewires the brain to not go to its usual pathways ot negative memories or negative thoughts. Brain rewiring is known as neuroplasticity, it means that the usual activities of the brain have a comfortable groove, a path that it always takes out of habit, and if you want your brain to do something new, something more wholesome, you have to force the new pathway into place. This is useful for everyone who manifests losing competitions regularly. 

Imagine you are the only bright shining sun in the universe, there is only one, only you everything revolves around you and your sustenance. Goodness is simply revolving around you because you are such a bright light.

When it comes to doership, you simply must give it up.  

Recreating your self image, and letting go is the ONLY thing that rests on your physical shoulders, everything else is done FOR you. Accept this as fact. There is nothing to do but to start receiving, and to stop repelling, and you repel by trying to go after them, by trying to take them and energetically force them to be with you, but remember the end state, where you are harmoniously and stable together because both of you love to be together?  

Every single ex always comes back, but if you don’t know how to receive love that comes toward you, you will end up in the same boat again, with another break up and insecurities and a third party. 

 It is NORMAL to be this  version of you, it is not manipulation, and it is not a game and it doesn’t matter if you are no contact. This is a lifestyle change, and one that will create incredibly happy stable and harmonious relationships from now on. You won’t have to go through these constant upheavals anymore, you get to relax and feel like a normal human being who doesn’t read posts like this!

Because the third party is you pushed out it will help you manifest your specific person!
Photo by Yan Miranda


Trauma informed Non-Dual counseling

Trauma informed
Nondual counseling

Nondual therapy is inspired by the nondual spiritual traditions, such as Taoism, Advaita Vedanta, and Buddhism. Nondual therapy is not, a religious modality, nonduality is a scientific approach,  and anyone can benefit. 


Many experiences take place from birth where we disconnect, become disembodied, fragmented or dissociated from ourselves, from our self worth, and from our self identity.  Nondual therapy sessions can help you uncover and express your authentic self, by unravelling and  softening painful experiences, reframing your self-concepts. We manifest who we are, not what we want, and who you are is a God/Goddess waiting to step into power.

The power of oneness

Instead of seeking answers or solutions, instead of problem solving or talk therapy, nondual therapy and somatic awareness  is focused on revealing the beliefs and stories you create that cause pain . False beliefs and destructive storytelling, once  recognised for what they are naturally give space for a more connected self, and wellbeing surfaces naturally.

This isn’t about trying to change yourself but about coming home to self. 

If you have previously been held back by your traumatic past, when you feel safe and held with compassion, your nervous system will relax. You will experience inner peace,  trust, and self confidence and  joy.

All of us have an inner guide, a divinity, a  divine security guard that protects our hearts and our emotions, and in mindfulness practices we discover, nurture and sustain this divine center until we begin to trust its guidance.


The unconditional power of love

Power does not hide away in shame, power does not  hurt others out of fear. It does not punish or even make sense. It simply IS. We have been given a spirit of power, love and of a sound mind.  Reclaiming personal power is humanity’s greatest quest today, and nondual practices is an equal portion of power and og love.

 

Discovering your personal power means no masks to hide behind, no victim story to keep you small, no arrogance to keep you distant, and no avoiding of your truth and purpose.

When the victimized feminine stops misusing her power through defensiveness and blaming, or by  co-dependently hoping for something  to change, the feminine, can find her own truth, her own authority through the audacity of self validation. .

The feminines  vulnerability and her strength is found through her body, and her heart, 

When the victimized masculine is healed and no longer reacts to disrespect, or uses strength without heart, he can claim his deepest power too, through empathy.

reconnecting mind-heart and heart-soul

Nondual  Tantra says that nothing that can be said in words, and that our minds are not capable of understanding sufficiently the absolute truth. 

 

Daring to enter back into the body after  dissociating due to trauma is a as magical as it is frightening, as mystical as it is terrifying, the direct experience of the sacred reality, an expanded conscious, happens in a loving gently relationship with the energy of the physical body.

 

The body is not an obstacle to healing, it is the path,  the body is not impure or associated with sin, but serves as an instrument to experience the sacredness in everything.  Our senses serve us and are not there just to get rid of them or to suppress them. 

 

Nondual trauma therapy connects the disembodied emotions to the body, and puts the brain back online again.

 

Healing the mind begins with the heart and the body. 

The movement of positive thinking is ultimately meaningless if “thinking” is disconnected from the body. 

The mind merely directs our story, it is our heart and our senses that give our stories meaning and life.

Happiness is found in the agreement between mind-heart-senses.

 

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