“The moment you think of influence, you reduce a miracle to magic. All the people in the world are only yourself pushed out.”  – Neville Goddard

Everyone is yourself pushed out

This concept has been described in so many ways, in so many traditions, (Vedanta, other nondual teachings, Tantra, Taoism etc)  but the specific term  “Everyone is Yourself Pushed Out “ was coined by Neville Goddard, so therefore people associate the whole concept with Neville.

Neville Quotes:

“This whole vast moving world , you are moving it.”

-Neville Goddard

EIYPO is not a separate and optional part of the Law of Assumption, and The law of Assumption is not a separate and optional part of life. It just is. Gravity just is. Gravity is, and EIYPO is. It is a mirrored and reflected universe. Your only visible contact with your divinity, while in this body, is the mirror reflection of the world. You can see that and THAT is EIYPO. You can sense and experience God from within, but you can’t see this I AM.

“The whole vast world is no more than man’s imagining pushed out. I must qualify that by saying that the world outside of man is dead, but Man is a living soul, and it responds to man, yet man is sound asleep and does not know it. The Lord God placed man in a profound sleep, and as he sleeps the world responds as in a dream, for Man does not know he is asleep, and then he moves from a state of sleep where he is only a living soul to an awakened state where he is a life-giving Spirit. And now he can himself create, for everything is responding to an activity in man which is Imagination. “The eternal body of man is all imagination; that is God himself.” (Blake)

-Neville Goddard

Every person you meet is actually you! (and God, according to Vedanta you and God are one and the same) The WORLD is dead, but all souls are God’s living soul, and you and I are one and the same. Treating all people first of all as if they are yourself, because they are, is the Golden Rule, and once you have awoken from the deep sleep, you see all as God, with so much love that it is beyond explanation. People have tried to describe this love, people like Rumi, and the ancient sages, and more recent sages too! 

“A very effective way to bring good tidings to another is to call before your mind’s eyes the subjective image of the person you wish to help and have him affirm that which you desired him to do. Mentally hear him tell you he has done it. This awakens within him the vibratory correlate of the state affirmed, which vibration persists until its mission is accomplished. It does not matter what it is you desire to have done, or whom you select to do it. As soon as you subjectively affirm that it is done, results follow.”

-Neville Goddard

The above is a beautiful example of how a saint actually operates behind the scenes. Have you ever stood in the presence of a saint? I have. There is an acceleration of the spiritual progress that is insane and wonderful, there is nothing else like it, the influence that they can assert due to havening “awakened” from the “sleep” is powerful, but you are powerful too. If you have a chance to go see a legit saint or Guru, GO, you will thank yourself later, and you’ll be able to experience EIYPO in real time, first hand!

“Failure can result only if you fail to accept the truth of your assertion or if the state affirmed would not be desired by the subject for himself or another. In the latter event, the state would realize itself in you, the operator.”

-Neville Goddard

See, now you can begin to understand that if you wish any kind of harm or control over another, how that just falls right back on you (if they don’t accept the lie that you projected) “God has not given a spirit of fear, but of POWER, and LOVE and of a SOUND MIND, so if you are experiencing fear, you have fallen for the lie.  You can excerpt control over others ONLY as much as they are willing to fall for the illusion. Are they deeply asleep? Then yes you can probably control them. Are they wide awake to their divinity? Not likely that you can control them, and your wishes for harm will come right back to you. Test it if you want, but I wouldn’t.

“The seemingly harmless habit of “talking to yourself” is the most fruitful form of prayer.

A mental argument with the subjective image of another is the surest way to pray for an argument.

You are asking to be offended by the other when you objectively meet.”

-Neville Goddard

This quote is  most important of all Neville’s quotes for all of those who are manifesting a specific person but REFUSE to change your thoughts about them, allowing your negative backstory free reign to spiral in your mind. Inner conversations create. What you think creates, what you feel, you attract, and what you imagine you become. This negativity ruminating in your mind, if not accepted by your sp, falls back on you and you alone. You manifest your own negativity. You MUST change your mind about someone that you want to see shape up.  Everyone comes into the world with a positive life purpose, your specific person is no exception, so let go of the negativity that you are holding against them.  Why keep true love away from the two of you, wouldn’t you both be happier the very moment you allow them to be the loving and wonderful person that they truly are?

“As mental arguments produce conflicts, so happy mental conversations produce corresponding visible states of good tidings. Man creates himself out of his own imagination.”

-Neville Goddard

People, although they also are “God in drag” are nonetheless also just a reflection of ourselves, because the state of mind that you insist on believing in, is the colored lens that you see them through. You don’t see them as they are, if you did, you would only see love and perfection, you see them AS YOU ARE. After you have judged them as flawed, your own illusion continues to recreate, whereas as soon as you choose to see their divinity, you would see your own divinity. The choice is yours, you can see the, as the deeply flawed version that serves you to feel self justification, or you can drop all that and remember that they are the light of God, and immediately your concept of self would change to Godlike. Practice makes perfect.

“If the state desired is for yourself and you find it difficult to accept as true what your senses deny, call before your mind’s eye the subjective image of a friend and have him mentally affirm that you are already that which you desire to be. This establishes in him, without his conscious consent or knowledge, the subconscious assumption that you are that which he mentally affirmed, which assumption, because it is unconsciously assumed, will persist until it fulfills its mission. Its mission is to awaken in you its vibratory correlate, which vibration when awakened in you realizes itself as an objective fact.”

-Neville Goddard 

How you see the world:

We use a tiny fraction of our brain at any given moment, a colored lens as already mentioned, and whatever has our attention fires the neurons involved in whatever it is that has our focus, be it a thought, a memory, a task using motor function or an intellectual pursuit. The rest of the brain is resting, waiting for when it is needed.  If it is ever needed…. Imagine all the things you can see if you use a telescope…..Planets and galaxies….and imagine all the things you can see if you use a microscope…tiny organisms…Now, imagine that all the telescopes and microscopes needed to see literally everything in the universe are not yet invented, and now come back to what you can see with just your eyes, right here and now in front of your nose. It is a TINY fraction of all that exists.  Our senses are very limited, and our brain capacity in any given moment is equally limited. 

What we see is also colored by what we have experienced and learned so far in life, and this is what creates our own particular focus. If I experienced fear then I expect scary situations, if I experienced safety  then I expect safe situations. This is the basis for the assumptions that you automatically make, without even thinking about it. In the 70s when I was a kid there was a toy called a view-master stereoscope, it was like a vr-headset, and it had a “reel” of 14 images (7 pairs) and it had childrens movies or stories on the images, and some had vacation images sort of like an alternative to a postcard. This was invented in the 30s, and it was revolutionary in many ways, to be able to bring to life stories and far away places in your own home. We view our own life through a stereoscope already, it is impossible to not have a distorted view of reality, it is the way we are created, our senses together with the interpretation of our brain, gives us the view-master version of reality. Imagine that every moment that you are living is another slide in a view master. If you want to experience a different reality, you need new reels for your view-master. Successfully dissolving the importance of an old and unwanted reel and replacing it with a wanted reel, pust you on a new timeline. A new timeline is the same as a quantum jump.

The way we see other people is the same way, we see them with the distortion of a reel between us, and if we are looking at unwanted behavior, we need a new reel.

Childhood imprinting: 

This is an example of how we create our reels for our own personal view-master. I grew up in a remote area, away from cities or villages, and I felt very comfortable alone in the woods, but felt some amount of stress in larger cities, I felt uncomfortable around people. Because I was a little bit older when I started mingling with people, I was very shy. I still have a belief about crowds, and groups of people, and I still feel better in the wild than in a city. This is an example of how everyone or everything is yourself pushed out is created in the first place.

It doesn’t matter what it is that you were imprinted with during childhood, good or bad, it is a natural part of you that runs on autopilot, propelling your subconscious even if it is opposite of what you said you wanted, and it does this until we decide to stop it.  There is an infinite variety to this type of base belief. If your family owned a green volkswagen when you were five years old, and you struggled with car sickness as a child, you might really hate volkswagens and green cars. This imprint stops when you decide to stop it. NLP has many great techniques to dissolve imprints.

Why is is a good thing to start to control your beliefs:

You know your beliefs by examining what you experience because it is your mirror. You are asleep in the world, not understanding who you are, and your only clue to who you are is the mirror reflection. Pay attention to the reflection and reverse engineer your belief system, how did the belief get there, and when? Change the belief by using your mind to your advantage, not your disadvantage.

For example; You created your specific person before you even met them. If you fell in love, you were head over heels in love, and you only had eyes for each other. Both of you had this belief, a belief in love and a belief that you can be loved just the way you are, and you believed that there is someone out there just for you. You met. You instantly recognized that you were a perfect match, and your view-master now took on a rose colored hue, everyone is beautiful, even the freeway traffic is a blessing and there is a loving reason for every event and every circumstance. This is infatuation, romantic love.

Later, you got to know each other better, and your old beliefs started to infiltrate you view-master slides, distorting reality, and suddenly you didn’t think that this person was made for you anymore, instead they became irritating, not affectionate enough, or too good looking or not good looking enough, or they don’t try very hard to make you happy, or they are a workaholic and don’t spend enough time with you, or they don’t take care of their looks 24/7 so you have to see them in sweats and without makeup. These things are now part of the manifestation emanating from you. You are STILL manifesting your specific person, but now it is less desirable to you. 

This is an action step, but I think you can understand how incredibly important it is to not get into a rut, to not start taking each other for granted, and if you have been there, then you too know how quickly things go downhill from there. Keeping each other really special in each other’s eyes becomes more and more important the longer you are together, but have you considered that the energetic component of this is part of Law of Assumption? What was it that drove each other wild in the beginning? It was something intangible, wasn’t it? That same intangible energy still exists, but if you have buried it under a wall of programmed beliefs, hidden it behind and ultimatum, or just simply gotten bored and complacent thinking that another person is supposed to provide all the passion while you become lazy in your assumptions. Those lazy states, where you put it all on the other person, create too, It is not just the action that causes this, but also your state, that causes conflict or even a break up. If you think that you can withhold your energetic appreciation and still continue to receive what you need from them, then you’ll probably be sad when the connection fades, and the warmth is gone…. You have to continue to assume the same thing, even if you hit bumps on the way, even if circumstances are difficult sometimes. This is how the Law of Assumption operates, and how EIYPO works, it is nonjudgmental, it doesn’t pick and choose, it delivers according to your assumptions consistently.

Years ago I was attacked by four big dogs, two were rottweilers, and it was terrifying, I thought that it was my last moment. Although I have overcome my PTSD and I can pet dogs now, to this day, if there is a dog on the loose in the neighborhood, it is going to find me ha! I haven’t managed to shake the expectation that dogs can show up randomly and alone when I am out for my walk. (Now that I write it, I think I can do more to change this belief, but my point is that when there is an assumption, it will show up. )

Everyone has their own version of what is threatening and what is safe, or what is easy and what is difficult, or what comes natural and what you have to really struggle for. 

When life is consistently showing up in a way that is opposite of what we want, it is a good idea to sit down with the opposites, write them out, and see if there is a different belief that you could adopt.

My dog attack, for example, I can sit down, and write what it is that I believe about dogs being on the loose, and see if I can turn that around to form a new belief.  This can be done with everything that shows up differently from your wishes. Another way is to use the NLP of turning memories black and white and pushing them into the distance. Remember that everything that keeps showing up as an obstacle is actually your own manifestation that you want to clear and overcome, and it is NOT a test by God or the universe.

If you had a negative experience, for example as a kid, where something happened that you can’t forget. Let’s say your dad came home extremely late one christmas, and he had missed all of christmas and he only came home to tell the family that he was leaving again, he left, and the next thing you found out that he had had an affair with someone and his mistress had given birth to their baby, your half sibling, on christmas eve. Now you have a feeling of dread everytime Christmas rolls around and you go into a depression. If on the other hand this never happened, and all your childhood christmases were very happy, then you feel excitement and anticipation as christmas draws near. This is how we develop or own View-Master, and how our slides in life are created.  In order for these slides to dissolve, you have to replace them with a different slide, one that you create in your imagination, or over time through positive experiences that erase that negative one. Chances are that your negative slide causes some havoc in your life though, maybe around the holidays but maybe also around extended family situations, maybe you can’t think that a step parent could ever be a good thing based on your own personal View-Master slide. Now imagine that another kid had a horrible dad who was abusive, and then later on after his biological dad was finally gone his mom met someone who was calm and attentive, this person will develop a slide that step parents are like saviors for suffering children. Either way, there is nothing about it that is true, it is just your own view-finder slide.  If you do nothing to try to dissolve your own negative slides, they can stand between you and your manifestation like a block. You have been manifesting a specific person, someone you love very much, and they love you too, but they have kids, and eventually, when the time comes to move the relationship forward to marriage, you self-destruct, because of your christmas incident. That is how the whole world is yourself pushed out works, your assumptions created by your personal viewfinder have to dissolve so that you can bridge that gap between you and your happy ever after.

The Puppet Master:

Some people take this concept and become megalomaniacs, but remember that megalomania is a state too, and your consciousness pushes out the your state, and eventually the consequences too show up too. There are some people who don’t care about consequences and they sort of believe that they are above others and it is possible to never have any consequences for people like that, but the vast majority of us, no matter how bad or good, or how selfish or altruistic, do believe in consequences, experience normal guilt and worry if we will get caught if we do something wrong. If you feel that you are doing something wrong, most likely you will experience some situations that reflect your guilty conscience. 

Other people think that EIYPO means  that they have a right to control others because others are “not real”, but this is also a state of mind, and an assumption.  People can feel it if you have interpreted EIYPO that way,  as if you can make people do what you want them to do against their will, and let me explain exactly where you have gone wrong if you believe yourself to be a “puppet master”.  People are yourself pushed out, mirrors, so they reflect your own disempowered beliefs. If instead of trying to control your own projection, you instead turn your attention around to dissolving your beliefs that created them to be that way, you don’t have to control them. For example, if you believe that you need to control them or you will ever get what you want, change that belief to something that serves yo better. Change a belief that you need to hustle to get ahead to: all opportunities come knocking on your door because you are that desirable, or if you believe that there are lots of other third parties and you have to “change” him or her, turn your focus around to yourself and dissolve your pattern of believing that there is competition in love. There is no competition. Once your idea of your own self worth becomes more solid, this fearful mindset will no longer exist and you will not create people to reject you anymore.

I have personal experience with someone trying to make me fall in love with him, and to be fair, he was also “me pushed out”. This person was so incredibly unattractive to me, I can’t quite explain how repulsive his personality was to me, both his looks and his personality.  Crude, dumb, and selfish…

His belief that he needed to manipulate me, and do what was probably occult rituals, to “get” me worked as a “law of repelling” on me.  At the end of the day, it is our state, and our assumption about ourself that manifests as the world of circumstance around us, nothing else.  I don’t care how many magic spells you do, how many times you send energy into water bottles and drink it, I don’t care if you script every hour of every day or if you do  the 369 method, it is only your own body of beliefs and your assumption about yourself and the world that creates. Only. I think that he felt himself to be repulsive, and this is what continued to manifest from him.  I was not the only woman to reject him.   A sort of all pervasive negativity just oozed from him, almost like a smell.  Self rejection.  The state of mind that we are in manifests. THIS is everyone is yourself pushed out. What you believe will become true for you.

If you believe that your methods manifest, they will, but only up to a point.  You can not VIOLATE anyone’s free will WITHOUT CONSEQUENCE.  What this means is that you are going about this the wrong way, like the guy trying to get me.  What you need to do is to DISSOLVE the part of you that is creating them to show up in a way that you don’t like.  

Read that again. 

You need to identify the pattern in you that for example is showing you a mirror world of women who are unattainable, and out of your league so that you don’t have to try to force them to be with you. This understanding will revolutionize your world. 

“The moment you think of influence, you reduce a miracle to magic. All the people in the world are only yourself pushed out.”

– Neville Goddard 

Stop problem solving:

What are some patterns that are playing on repeat in your life? 

Change that part of you to believe something different, something that supports you and nurtures your wellbeing.  If for example you have a repeat pattern of women running from you, then get to work on revising the past that created this imprint. ALL women will run from you until you change your beliefs and your assumptions about yourself. 

EIYPO means that every person that you meet is actually you, so if women are running away from you, and not towards you, this means that you are running from that part of yourself that was emotionally hurt and attributed meaning to your own lack of worth when the imprinting took place. The same is true if job opportunities are running from you, and if money is running from you.  By changing the slides in your view-master, so that you come to accept that you are acceptable the way you are right now warts and all, and if you can accept that all people are flawed but they can be loved anyway, have money anyway, have a rocking career anyway, then  you have in essence dissolved the pattern. It will end. You will no longer repel the good that belongs to you by virtue of you being born.

Imagine, that you have had a break up, and now you are trying to “problem solve” the situation and figure out what went wrong.

This is an assumption about yourself, that you somehow have to solve issues in order to be in a relationship with your specific person.  You don’t have to do anything like that, but you do have to mind your state. 

Your state should be one of loving acceptance of yourself, not one of having to figure out why this break up happened. It happened, accept it.  Acceptance releases the resistance that you are building up, and it gives you a clean slate so to speak, to work with. The clean slate being your own state of mind.  Instead of wondering what went wrong, your focus should be on what part of you manifests these situations.  Do you believe that relationships can never work, do you believe that everyone leaves you, do you believe that the world is just unfair and other people get the good relationships or the good situations, all the opportunities, and all the favorable windfall? Do you believe that you are too fat to be a famous singer? Do you believe that when you put your foot in the mouth that one time and your career dwindled, you destroyed all your opportunities going forward?  Do you believe that because you are shy or kind,  that you are always forgotten or friend zoned, Do you believe that are you not good enough the way you are?  Whatever you believe  about yourself, and about them and about the situation it is almost certainly wrong. 

I have experienced such massive misunderstandings in life, in various relationships and situations, later finding out sometimes how extremely differently we experienced the same conversation or situation. 

 Acceptance will allow space for someone else’s experience to be what it was, and there is nothing you have to do right now to try to figure it out. It will resolve itself somehow, just rest in that knowledge. If you take any actions from this state, it will not ultimately lead you to your desired outcome, which is goodness, success, love, acceptance, or  a stable and harmonious relationship. There is a concept of “grace” in Christianity that perfectly corrects this state. Believe in grace and you automatically believe in the eternal worthiness of yourself.

Shift the focus back to yourself, and away from problem solving, because your state pushes out, and your angry, resentful, fearful,  or hurt thoughts keep that timeline in place. That timeline that always  ends in a break up, or in another rejection.   Living from the end of acceptance and harmony will open doors for communication down the line, and it will shift you over to a different timeline. 

Whatever your belief about yourself is that leads to unwanted situations, that belief is not true, there is nothing wrong with you, yes you are imperfect but it IS acceptable to be imperfect. You have personality traits that are special and unique to you, that people love and are drawn to, and it is better to focus on your good traits than to blame yourself for the not so perfect traits. Just become aware of the ways that you reject yourself, and start to let that go by shifting focus to your good traits. Become aware of this and dissolve the old story, because this is ultimately never about another person, this is about what is active inside, and it will project onto whoever is in your life.

There is a saying: No one can make you feel inferior without your consent! Revoke consent, and feel yourself deserving and worthy.

Test it!

The “famous” ladder test is how I first heard of Neville Goddard! I never actually tried to “climb the ladder”, because it sounded kind of dumb to me, I don’t know if in Neville’s day ladders were an important feature of life lol! But I couldn’t muster up enough interest to attempt it, but I DID want to put this to the test so I created my own “ladder experiment”. I have a facebook, but I don’t have a lot of friends on there and I don’t usually generate a lot of likes for my posts or pictures, and I don’t care, my interest in spending lots of time on facebook in artificial conversations is minimal. However, I decided that I would put a new profile picture and test it this way. I decided to get 220 likes, which was a LOT more than what I usually get, and three days later it was clear to me that EIYPO had worked. I had exactly 220 likes, and what is interesting is that if there was for a moment 221, a little while later one like would disappear, and it stayed consistently at 220 likes. Of course I have tested it with other things too, but that was my first test. You can test it yourself, with something that you don’t have any resistance to.

Something that is one big giant  “whatever” for you. If you have any strong desire for it,  don’t test it with that because strong desire is equal to resistance, and until you have learned more about how to neutralize your state of desire into a state of intention, you will not be able to prove EIYPO with that particular thing. You have to discover the state of “not caring” around your strong desires, because a fulfilled desire is instantly satisfied. Think of the creep that was trying to manifest me to be his, and how much resistance he built up….and how he only succeeded in pushing me further and farther away, to the point where he is blocked on every platform, and will never see me physically in person again. That is how repelling a strong desire can be.

Once you have tested it don’t just straight to your BIGGEST desire, because you still have resistance around that, but rather learn by testing how to be in a “I don’t care state”, and eventually you will get the hang of it, and you can go on to your really really big desires.

Happy manifesting!

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Neuro Linguistic Programming

NLP is a great tool in mental health counseling, in relationship counseling, and in goal setting.

NLP provides a simple step by step process to reframing memories or beliefs that block our progress and cause stagnation in life or a tendency to stay toxic situations. 

NLP helps us to become aware of the subconscious patterns that are expressed in both our language and our behavior. NLP can help change these patterns when applicable. 

NLP can identify when an individual is unconsciously in a victim state of mind, and it ca help to shift us out of that state, and into an empowered state, a state of mind where solutions become available.

NLP can help PTSD or past trauma memories by creating a distance between the memory scene, and ourselves, and this takes most of the fear and the emotional charge out of the memory.

5 EASY NLP TECHNIQUES

NLP techniques are action-oriented. Unlike talk therapy, NLP focuses on the how to reach goals, fell better, improve relationships. How can you react differently to your beliefs, to your thoughts and emotions? NLP helps you identify how your life can benefit you, and not just slip by.

 1. IMAGERY & VISUALIZATION TECHNIQUES

Imagery training, sometimes called mental rehearsal, or visualization is one of the classic neuro-linguistic programming techniques. It’s an excellent exercise for beginners because it is incredibly easy for anyone. The key is to create a short scene of yourself performing an action successfully – whether that action is an athletic performance or a personal relationship achievement or a business goal. Imagine how you would feel, and what your senses would experience, feel yourself natural, confident, determined, and comfortable. Be as detailed as possible. NLP techniques like this are essential for creating absolute certainty in yourself and your abilities.

2. NLP REVISION

When you’re ready for more advanced NLP techniques, use the NLP swish. First, create a vivid picture in your mind of something you don’t want. Make it big and bright. Then create a vivid picture of what you want to replace it with, making it small and dull. Now reverse them: Bring the image of what you want into the foreground, making it brighter and brighter. Add triumphant music and motion. Throw the image you don’t want into the background, turning it gray and colorless. Repeat this reversal three to five times. You’ll train your brain to amplify positives and weaken negatives.

3. MODELING

Modeling is one of the NLP training techniques that has gained the most attention from successful entrepreneurs, athletes and more. It’s based on the law of assumption, where attention goes energy flows. What you focus upon you move toward. Surround yourself with people who have achieved the success you want and focus on modeling their behaviors. Surround yourself with information and input that supports who you want to become.

4. MIRRORING

According to the 7-38-55 Rule, just 7% of your message is communicated through words. Your tone of voice contributes 38%, and your body language communicates a full 55% of your message. Mirroring is an NLP technique that uses body language to make instant trusting connections and to build rapport with anyone. When you’re talking to someone, mirror your body language to theirs. You can also change the words or dialect you choose to use to match their vocabulary. The other person will automatically find you more trustworthy.

5. AFFIRMATIONS

An affirmation is a phrase you repeat to yourself about your beliefs and goals. In NLP this is taken a step further, by changing your physiology as well as your words to create a state of total confidence. Get yourself into peak state by embodying what you’re saying with all the intensity you can. NLP techniques like affirmations are an effective way to reprogram your mind and create empowering beliefs. Involve your whole body and energy in this.

These are just a few of the techniques that might be used in a coaching session. Neuro-linguistic programming also starts with a set of presuppositions that complement results coaching, particularly the belief that the meaning we assign to our experiences is everything. It takes the approach that “failure is feedback” and if we find the lesson and get back up, failure is worth it.

Most of all, neuro-linguistic programming believes anything is possible, and that we can change our lives. we can do, have, and be exactly what we wish!

So what is neuro-linguistic programming? It’s a behavioral method that uses the Law of Assumption and other methods as a power of reframing our circumstance, it helps people overcome their limiting beliefs and create new empowering ones.

Neuro Linguistic Programming are easy action steps that focuses on solutions, outcome and possibilities, with methods like “imaginal scenes” “revision” and “affirmations”