Let’s get real with the “Velveteen Rabbit” | Manifest True Love with a storybook | LOA

Let’s get real with the “Velveteen Rabbit” | Manifest True Love with a storybook | LOA

“Real isn’t how you are made,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.’

‘Does it hurt?’ asked the Rabbit.

‘Sometimes,’ said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. ‘When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.’

‘Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,’ he asked, ‘or bit by bit?’

‘It doesn’t happen all at once,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.”


― Margery Williams Bianco, The Velveteen Rabbit

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Manifesting deeper love by USING OPPOSITE circumstances | Specific Person |

Ignore 3D like THIS! Manifest your specific person | You put your obstacles there by yourself

Let’s get serious about this specific person LOA stuff, there are so many different ideas floating around, but everything boils down to the simple law of assumption. 

If you have been practicing a vibration of irritation, or boredom, or jealousy, or or heart ache, or anything other than love, then this is what is showing up for you, not the other way around.

It is like Wayne Dyer said, “You’ll see it when you believe it” sort of, but the truth is that you don’t even have to believe, you just have to stop practicing the vibration of disbelief! But when this is applied toward love then there is ONLY one thing that is complete love, and that is unconditional love. We don’t love that way, at least it is extremely rare, nor do we have to. But because we don’t  know how to love, we create obstacles.

We experience the opposite of love here in this physical body because this an experience of duality, and without opposites there is no duality, there is unity, oneness.  There is no way to experience life without duality so without the opposite of love there is no love it is natural.  

Life is also natural, that is, it is of the natural world, consciousness in unity and it is undivided. Oneness. But natural life builds towards unity by using duality, and this is also how you can practice devotion to one God and still gain closeness to consciousness-god-I-Am.  There are increasing steps of getting a little closer and a little closer to oneness, and understanding that the obstacles that you face are not a problem will help you manifest greater love everytime there is a problem.

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I have said before that we place our own obstacles in our own way for our own benefit, but not so that we can learn a lesson, but rather so that we get closer to ourselves. This is more true in love than most other areas, because we go into relationships absolutely unequipped for love. We are not ready for the criticism, the anger, the fights, the rejections and all these areas where we are not set up to handle love we ruin it. Everything negative is meant to be overcome with love, but we don’t know how to practice this. We truly hardly know how to choose the right partner, so it is not surprising that once we are in a relationship we destroy what was originally a wonderful romance. 

We also think that our problems are caused by the faults of the other person, but actually the faults of the other person is our manifestation and it is also our own call for ourselves to generate love from within rather than demanding it from our shadow world, or mirror world.  If you have picked a partner who is able to work through difficulties with you, great, but if you have not, then you can manifest greater love just by your own understanding of how to transcend circumstances and overcome fights. 

Circumstances are not bad, and fights are not bad. This belief that something has gone wrong just because something seems opposite is just causing unnecessary anxiety, or even panic if you ask me because this is how I  have felt in the past. Panic, because there was a fight, panic because they did something that i couldn’t predict, or that  made me feel insecure, or even jealous.  This is just an indication that we are, obviously not, practicing unconditional love yet, and why would we be, it takes a great deal of understanding of the law of assumption to even begin to understand the REASON for practicing unconditional love. If you are new to LOA it might sound like I am telling you to be a doormat, and I am not, I am showing you the path to practicing the corrected vibration.  If you experience any negativity, it is because you have practiced feeling a vibration that is its match, and so somehow, this shows up in life, and very commonly in our relationships. Congratulations because now you can see it, and now you can practice what real love feels like. Does it feel scary?  Don’t worry, this practice can’t hurt you.

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The goal in love can not be to not have any issues, if it is then you are preventing your partner from being themselves, and vice versa. So loving each other through fights is just perfect practice to becoming more loving.  

Even after you have a stabilized relationship without much fighting, you still need to continue to use the growth of the relationship to hone in on your unconditional love skill, and this is a  practice of scheduling in the planned fights and this is what keeps the spark alive.

You know how great make up sex is, well, you don’t have to have a fight or a break up to have great make up sex, but you do have to keep rising above your irritation, or your jealousy,  your criticism, your anger and so on. Remember NOTHING has gone wrong just because you hit a snag, rather, everything has gone right soo rejoice instead of laying on the couch crying! You have all the manifestational power in your life, so don’t suddenly fall for the reflection, and start believing that the reflection has the power. 

Remember again, this is not the same as being a doormat.

 To continue to deepen and strengthen your relationship with your sp, your differences can’t just go fully ignored, like all  peace, love and happiness, in fact the most spiritually evolved couples on the planet might not even be fully able to do that without suppressing their emotions. Suppressing emotions creates enormous resistance and resistance  creates excess energy that causes chaos, but scheduling in your disagreements for a specific time every week creates stability and a peaceful playing field for both people to grow. Suppressing emotions is basically just a way to gaslight yourself, and you might be prone to doing that already, a lot of people are, but don’t misunderstand the basic goal of transcending circumstances. You are not going to  do this with an ulterior motive, and you are not doing this to keep the peace, this is the exact opposite. You will actually address every problem that you perceive as a problem, but in a very different way, the way that nobody taught us. The way that generates more and more closeness, and a greater and greater capacity for real love.

Keep all fights on a schedule, and don’t indulge in spontaneous spur of the moment arguments, that leads to chaos and resentment, and when you do have your scheduled fight, it is a reasonable civil fight, and when time is up, then time is up, and you have to go back to being peacekeepers again. If you don’t do this and you try to force that immense infatuation feeling to be the only feeling that is fostered in the relationship, you will eventually have swung that pendulum as far as it can go, and it will swing back by itself, without you being prepared for it. You will see people who teach or coach this kind of love relationship, often experience some backsliding. The backsliding is fine, it is not an indication that anything has gone wrong, like I already said, everything has gone right but it is an unnecessary instability. Most people don’t want that level of instability in their relationships, so schedule your fights even if you believe that you are perfect at unconditional love, because I bet you, unless you are the Buddha, Paramahansa Yogananda or Guru Ma or someone, you are not loving as unconditionally as you think, and that is normal. That is nature’s way. 

Some people kill off their emotions and live utterly apathetic, in order to keep the peace, but this is definitely not what is meant by transcending circumstances. I think that it is an easy misconception to make, but you know in your heart if you have built a wall around it to keep it safe. The scheduled fights would help an apathetic person to come out of their safe shell again.

We are utterly unprepared for the feelings that come up in love, because we believe that it is SUPPOSED to be only love and nothing else, but now you know, it is supposed to be everything else too. If it came up, it was meant to be for you.

Some day, we will all be Buddhas, and at that point we will have learned to transcend even the worst of the worst, just like Buddha, just like Jesus, but for now, let’s focus on the smaller offenses that we are currently capable of transcending. Oh and don’t let people on the spiritual path guilt trip you into peace, love and understanding without giving space to your emotions. This is spiritual gaslighting, and that is not equal to manifesting love. 

Your vibrational alignment happens when you stop fighting within yourself, when you stop denying yourself and when you release resistance that comes from not accepting the emotions that you have. 

The magic is  to keep a balanced opposite in the world of manifestation, or it will swing back on its own. People who experience a happy relationship for life all know how to do this innately, but everyone else thinks that everything has gone wrong when you suddenly come upon a natural feeling of all the opposites of love. 

Let’s look at what some couples who were married for decades had to say about the secret ingredient, but before we get into what you should do in your relationship, let’s take a look at what people who are serial divorcers  all say not to do:

Don’t ever be with someone because someone else pressured you to. I got married the first time because I was raised Catholic and that’s what you were supposed to do. Wrong. I got married the second time because I was miserable and lonely and thought having a loving wife would fix everything for me. Also wrong. Took me three tries to figure out what should have been obvious from the beginning, the only reason you should ever be with the person you’re with is because you simply love being around them. It really is that simple.

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Basically the most common reason for why someone felt that they were with the wrong person and their marriage failed was  “being with the person for the wrong reasons.”

Some of these wrong reasons included:

  1. Pressure from friends and family
  2. Feeling like a “loser” because they were single and settling for the first person that came along 
  3. Being together for image—because the relationship looked good on paper (or in photos), not because the two people actually admired each other. (shallow)
  4. Being young and naive and hopelessly in love and thinking that love would solve everything.
  5.  Being in a relationship to “fix” yourself. This desire to use the love of someone else to soothe your own emotional problems inevitably leads to codependency

So what do people say who were happily married for a long time:

You are absolutely not going to be gaga over each other every single day for the rest of your lives, and all this ‘happily ever after’ bullshit is just setting people up for failure. They go into relationships with these unrealistic expectations. Then, the instant they realize they aren’t ‘gaga’ anymore, they think the relationship is broken and over, and they need to get out. No! There will be days, or weeks, or maybe even longer, when you aren’t all mushy-gushy in-love. You’re even going to wake up some morning and think, “Ugh, you’re still here….” That’s normal! And more importantly, sticking it out is totally worth it, because  . . . in a day, or a week, or maybe even longer, you’ll look at that person and a giant wave of love will inundate you, and you’ll love them so much you think your heart can’t possibly hold it all and is going to burst. Because a love that’s alive is also constantly evolving. It expands and contracts and mellows and deepens. It’s not going to be the way it used to be, or the way it will be, and it shouldn’t be. I think if more couples understood that, they’d be less inclined to panic and rush to break up or divorce.

Your vibrational alignment happens when you stop fighting within yourself, when you stop denying yourself and when you release resistance that comes from not accepting the emotions that you have. 

Another happily married person says:

Happily Ever After doesn’t exist. Every day you wake up and decide to love your partner and your life—the good, the bad and the ugly. Some days it’s a struggle and some days you feel like the luckiest person in the world.

Most people will never experience deep and utterly  unconditional love precisely because they think that the “in love” emotions, the infatuation is the love and inevitably, that runs out, and when “it” runs out, so do they. The unconditional love that you long for is waiting for you, on the other side of the negative feelings you were taught do not belong in a relationship. How do you get there?

You schedule your fights, and that way you remove the chaos of the swing of the energy structure, or pendulum, as reality transurfing calls it. You fight on Thursdays, between 5 and 6, and the rest of the time you practice rising above.  For example, But do fight fair, no abuse and no low blows. Fight the way adults should fight, bring up your expectations of them, and hear them out on their expectations. Make your demand, and accept their demands. 

Why do you have to tell them your demands and expectations and listen to theirs? Because it teaches you both respect. One person who is succeeding at marriage says:

My husband and I have been together 15 years. I’ve thought a lot about what seems to be keeping us together, while marriages around us crumble (seriously, it’s everywhere . . . we seem to be at that age). The one word that I keep coming back to is “respect.” Of course, this means showing respect, but that is too superficial. Just showing it isn’t enough. You have to feel it deep within you. I deeply and genuinely respect [my husband] for his work ethic, his patience, his creativity, his intelligence, and his core values. From this respect comes everything else—trust, patience, perseverance (because sometimes life is really hard and you both just have to persevere). I want to hear what he has to say (even if I don’t agree with him) because I respect his opinion. I want to enable him to have some free time within our insanely busy lives because I respect how he spends his time and who he spends time with. And, really, what this mutual respect means is that we feel safe sharing our deepest, most intimate selves with each other.

How do you suppose you ever get to this level of respect if you are afraid to tell them what you want, and if you are afraid to hear them out about what they want?

Another man who has been happily married for decades says:

Respect yourself and your wife. Never talk badly to or about her. If you don’t respect your wife, you don’t respect yourself. You chose her—live up to that choice.

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Now, for everyone who have lost themselves in the circumstances, and simply can’t find the way to rise above:

Let’s recreate the first moment you fell in love, or create for the first time, if you have never fallen in love, and let’s create love at first sight.

This is the magic, but REMEMBER,  it has to keep a balanced opposite in the world of manifestation, or it will swing back on its own.

 You find excuses to be together all the time,

You finish each other’s sentences, you  feel so  safe, so grounded and secure.

You think of your sp often and you think things like “Oh, he would love this” or “I think I’ll get this for her“.

You feel like warm sunshine on bare skin, you feel like the freshness of the air is enlivening, you notice birds when they chirp, people seem so happy to you and when you see a couple holding hands you get warm inside and think of your sp,

Being in love is emboldening, and you know how to express your feelings of adoration with confidence.

Being in love feels like you want to give all of yourself to your specific person.

It feels like you’re a more whole version of yourself, not because you weren’t whole before, but because now you’ve met someone who reminds you, constantly, through their actions, words, and energy, that you are worthy of love, this is your person and you know it. 

Being  in love feels like you have a better understanding of yourself and of the world. 

You know that your specific person will guide you closer to your purpose, and  support you in your endeavors.

Being in love is  equal giving and receiving of acts of kindness, of generosity, of your very best self, you don’t hold back your respect or admiration or adoration, and you receive the same in full measure. 

Being in love is calming and satisfying it is thrilling, a little scary, and exciting.

It is unknown and  you feel  vulnerable.

You can’t wait to see the person, and they are  feeling the same thing back.

You can see that their eyes light up with joy from seeing you.

When you meet them the first time there is an instant stirring in your soul, it is an instant knowing on a  soul level, and you think to yourself, “Here he is!“, or “here she is”.

It’s fun, it’s funny, it’s sensual, it is sexual and it’s a magical, it is sweet and it is tender, and it is a  sacred connection no other soul can ignite within you.

You know that everything could go wrong, but here you are, being vulnerable and falling in love anyway. Loving in spite of it all. You are brave and take steps you wouldn’t do for anyone else.

Falling in love feels like  a bubble around you, and it protects you from the regularness of life, inside the bubble, magic takes place. 

Basics of manifesting | Neville Goddard | Changing the quality of desire to an intention and a choice

TURN YOUR DESIRE INTO A CHOICE

How you manifest one thing Is how you manifest all things, I know this has been debated, but I will show you what I mean, so that you can bring home ALL your desires.

How you manifest one thing is how you manifest all things
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To better understand you have to know first of all that YOUR self image tells the story of how you see yourself AND how you see yourself informs you of what choices you are allowed to make.

I will give you an example:

if you are 600 pounds and can not get out of bed your story and self image will inform you of what you are allowed to choose in life, and only if you,

a. conform to your preprogrammed beliefs that can you make different choices

b. change your preprogramming and decide that the programming world of pendulums will conform to you, that you can make different choices.

It might seem to you that you are trapped in that body of beliefs, but that is not the case, if you are unable to manifest chances are that you have not allowed yourself to make the choice to have yet 

How you see yourself is how you act

it is propelled by invisible motivators

Most people have absolutely no clue of what their motivators are.

One example i narcissists that are propelled by fame and recognition

some people with other labels and letter are propelled by the one true love

others with yet other label are driven by solitude and safety

Some people are propelled by honor.

You might not  know what your motivating propeller is and that  is okay, that is not my point, because  you can bridge this gap anyway, but if you do know, you can replicate this motivator by superimposing it on your desire.

How you see yourself self-generates your internal visions of your future, and these subconscious visions determine how you act. This is our autopilot imaginal scenes so to speak.

Psychology will have you believe these labels, and that “society creates you” but manifesting is not bound to a single earthly thing, so you are free to transcend all of this with a simple decision to have. That every human is a product of suffering and reward, and as an adult that reward behavior is still your propeller, BUT this is exactly the programming that you are free to reprogram. If we chose NOT to, we are in fact nothing but a product of upbringing. You have free will, and it si to be used for the purpose of blazing your own trail.

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One of the biggest problem areas in making a decision to have,  that I see, is with SP, but it can happen in any area, for anyone, and the example of the 600 pound person is perfect because you will finally understand the difference between desire and making a choice.

If you want to lose weight, and you go on various diets, you try a cabbage diet, or you try the keto, and then after a week or thirty days you give up, and then you try a different method then you have not made the choice yet. It is a half assed decision, but that is called indecision, and indecision is a handbrake on manifesting. YOu have to let the handbrake up, to go forward, you have to make the choice. Once you make the choice that you want to be healthy FOR LIFE, the weight starts to come off. You have suddenly decided to be a different person, a healthy person, someone who sees the self differently, and this lifestyle change is what the people who manifest sps donät do. You might even be asking questions like “how do I DO self love so that I can get….” this is not a one hundred percent commitment to yourself, this is a half commitment, it is indecision, and it is NOT a choice. It is what we do when we have NOT decided yet. Oh I’ll try this fad for a minute and then I’ll see. NO it has to become a choice for you. I love this person, there are no other feelings allowed in me, no other options exist, it is a turning point, and a 100 percent commitment, and this is called a life choice,not a fad. Nothing that you do until you “get” them and then stop. This is a new you. 

“And Elijah came near to all the people and said, “How long will you go limping between two different opinions? If the Lord is God, follow him.”

 “But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.”

I used to treat patients for pain, and I would often assign them a one year practice with yoga if the situation warranted, and then after that,  a ten year practice, and why would I do that? It  is because most people try yoga one or two or three  times and then say that it didn’t work. 

IT didn’t work.

Sound familiar?

Have YOU said that about your manifesting.

There is NO IT that works, it is YOU that works. Either you make a design or you are in indecision. One or the other, and as soon as the design is made, your whole mindset shifts, you fear and worry disappears and your mind frees up and aligns with who you are, and suddenly the hunches start to flow. Suddenly you are ALLOWED to take the right actions.

It is a change that you make for life. A new life. How you see yourself informs you of the choices that you CAN make in life. CAN you choose to be with the one you love? If not, why is that? Because you feel guilt or shame, and that you are not worthy.

  1. We get what we choose, not what we wish.
  2. We make the choice by intention, not by desiring.
  3. You have to choose to not be your own enemy, by declaring yourself to be the chosen one.

How do you change the quality of your beliefs, so that your desire becomes your choice?

The whole universe is pure vibration, and particles and matter do not exist, in its truest sense. Only vibrations are real, even a seemingly solid object like a mountain can be examined on a vibrational level, and this is how quantum entanglement works. Our mental states are also vibrational, and we align with certain “states” energetically.

The energy of desiring is different from the energy of having made a choice, a decision, or an intention.  

AND Each soul has its own individual paths of unique truth and alignment  (the path of complete self-realization). 

To get there, you need to stop your attempts of being like someone else, stop attempts of repeating another person’s scenario, and to recognize the magnificence of your own individuality. You have to be daring to turn your mind to your unique soul. Do not be afraid to break stereotypes of pendulums that scream: “do as I do” and “be like everyone else.”

Changing a desire to a choice is as much a renunciation of who you are NOT, as it is a decision to have.  False modesty, guilt and shame and inferiority complexes keep us from making the decision to have because we have fallen for criticism by manipulators that we have to “pay” for what we desire. The only payment that we actually have to make, is with an equal energy, so if you are resisting making the intent to have, and staying in the desire and in th  wish unfulfilled, you will pay accordingly with an equal energy of unworthiness or  punishment. Only you can choose that you are worthy, and that you don’t have to pay for any imaginary crimes, and for you to stop paying you have to make the decision to have.

I want to give you a personal story to illustrate the shift from wishes to choice. I used to live in a different town, and I liked it fine there, but in 2015 a massive increase in homelessness hit, and a skid row was built in just two short months. Boxes, tents, tarps lined the sidewalks, and drugs and protitution and deaths increased. Initially I sort of wanted to fix the problem, I wanted to be active in my community in solving this, but one day, I just woke up and realized that sometimes these problems never get solved and then I would spend my whole life surrounded by a dangerous, ugly and depressing skid row. I decided to move.

I thought about where to go, and I decided where I wanted to live, and it was in one of the most expensive and popular zip codes. It was out of my price range, but the decision was made, and my mental energy shifted from problem solving, and wishing things were better, to a choice. The skid row did not bother me anymore, my sight was set higher, and I got what I wanted. This is the difference. The freeing up of the mental energy that is misguided while you are desiring, wishing and hoping, makes the manifestation fall in your lap. This happens because now you are suddenly aligned with YOUR truth. This whole time, I had never truly enjoyed the city where I lived, not an outright dislike perhaps, until the skid row popped up, but after I decided to move, I made the decision to love where I lived, and this choice changed my vague indecisiveness into an intention.

The soul of each and every person has a unique individual set of attributes that characterize it, and your uniqueness is also your purpose. Your purpose is NOT to play small. Decide now that you are worthy.

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Imagine the story about David and Goliath, how little David is up against a giant. You might be up against a giant, and if you are, you have to decide now, that you are able. That God supplies what you are lacking. David was too small to win, but he won nonetheless, and this is the result of a choice. I will go and fight the giant, in spite of what your circumstances are telling you, you have what it takes to achieve your desire, this is built into us. The desire and its fulfillment is buried in the same seed and our job is merely to accept that the desire belongs to us, and that we are worthy. 

Imagine eons ago, when humanity were cavemen, or even before that. We existed on a level of consciousness similar to animals, on instinct mostly. Imagine now if we had questioned and second guessed every desire, every pang of hunger and every lust for sex, we would have died out. The same is still true today, our desire drives evolution forward and continues our existence, but beyond that, it also drives us closer and closer to realizing our true identity as godself. Without desire, we don’t go through the natural human steps of evolution, and we go extinct. We are here for a simple reason, to receive. Decide NOW that you are worthy.

Imagine that the stories of the Bible are actually telling you to go big or go home, and try to see these stories  in a new light. Imagine for example that the story of Joseph in the well is a story about a bridge of events, towards his purpose, becoming king.  This is the most epic bridge of events ever, and throughout, Joseph never questions the rightness of his path. He is betrayed by his envious brother, thrown in a well, sold as a slave, betrayed again by whats her name, and on and on the story goes, but one day, he is made King, and one day, he gets to host his brothers who now need him. He remains calm and unattached to both guilt, shame, pride, ego and everything else that is an energetic deviance from the INTENT TO RECEIVE. Be like Joseph,  when someone tries to make you feel guilt. Be like Joseph when your own mind tries to make you feel guilt. Your desire is put into your heart, don’t talk yourself out of it, keep speaking validation to your heart. Declare now that your desire is a decision. A choice and an intent. This releases the miracle into your life, it belongs in your life, but our fear and manipulations, and our false belief that there is some kind of hoop you have to jump through to become deserving reduces this miracle to a mere magic trick. The fruit of your decision to have, is good, and the fruit of your indecision is lack.

Are you holding yourself back from your desires because your “you are up against a giant” or  “your 12 older brothers have told you that you are insignificant?”  Are you  stuck in the well right now, or a slave to the Pharao

What is enslaving your mind?

 And what imaginary crimes are you feeling guilty about? This guilt is stopping you from making the decision of turning a desire into an intent.  Into a choice.

In james 4 it says:

You do not have because you do not ask God. 

When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives

The wrong motive is for example, “the fad diet” that I used in the beginning to illustrate, it is a fake choice, a noncommittal choice

You need to make a 100 percent choice that THIS is what I want, this is my choice, and let go of manipulation, let go of half choices, let go of  “i’ll do it for a day and if it doesn’t work it means this doesn’t work”

It only works  when you decide that this is your choice.

In Taoism, manifesting is called “ effortless effort” but it only becomes effortless once you free up your mental energy by making the choice, because the mental energy that it takes to argue for your limitations is enormous. It eats up most of your energy.

The world might tell you that you are a byproduct of the situation you are in,  but don’t buy into it, you are not, you are a product of your own imagination. 

Free your imagination from its prison by making the choice to have.

Are you just asking for a little bit better than the misery that you are in? 

Are you tempering your heart’s desires so that you can shrink it down,  so that you CAN  “believe”?  This is a mental adjustment of the true desire, which comes from the heart. Keep your mental limitations away from your heart space.   Our minds are not capable of figuring out the inner workings of how desires are ultimately fulfilled, so all the mind  does is put resistance and time in the way.  This is how we create our own obstacles.  Of course there are no actual obstacles, only what we created from our disbelief.

This mental tempering of desire is NOT why you are here, your purpose, or multitude of purposes, has nothing to do with what is or isn’t possible, but only with what “sparks joy”.  Simply put, you are here to BE YOU, all out, not ashamed to ask. We are told; ASK, and you shall receive, but then we don’t ask…You have not because you ask not.  Instead we stack all the reasons against ourselves for why we should not have what we clearly know that we are wishing, hoping and dreaming for.   Does the wish disappear because you are afraid to go for it?  No.   If anything it gets even stronger.   You do NOT have to drop everything and throw yourself head first into a potentially failing endeavor, no, again we are told ASK. Ask, and it is given. So ask already. This implies absolutely NO ACTION on your part, just an intent to receive.   We love to play it small, it suits our ego’s, strangely enough. “Oh I could never” …. “I am so much more humble and unassuming than that”.  Playing it small is the opposite of humble, and it is caused by an original feeling of guilt. This guilt is false, and you are worthy. Decide now that you are worthy.

When negative events happen we tend to “run and hide”  immediately, so quick to believe that something “isn’t meant to be”, but remember Joseph then, in those times when you seem to fail, when you have made your choice, and you run into difficulties.  The difficulty is part of your path, decide now that it is there to create a new skill in you, overcome it and stay on your path.

My stepdad comes to my  mind. It was  in the late 80s I think.   He came home from work one day, he was an engineer, he had a great job, with a great salary.  Little did I know that he had harbored a greater dream inside of him, a vision of something a little different…He came home one afternoon, with the news that he had been laid off. A great silence immediately settled as we stared at him with serious faces. To our surprise,  instead of disappointment, he shouted for joy, and he did one of those cartoon jump kicks that showed us clearly that this is actually  what he wanted.  I thought he might have a psychotic break for a moment, but it quickly became obvious that he had bigger plans for life and this was the opportunity he had been waiting for, and what followed was his path to business ownership and making six figures, and then seven figures. A perfect bridge of events. The work that he put into growing his business was significant, and he did it with an energy that I didn’t know he had.

Have faith the size of a mustard seed and you will bring this home.

 “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. “ -Jesus

Do you believe that you have to script, that you have to do affirmations? That if you miss a day of doing your methods “it” will fail? It doesn matter if you fail every day in your methods there is NOT ONE SINGLE THING that you can DO.  You do not DO, you make the choice, the choice is the faith the size of the mustard seed. You do not know the way, you do not know the how, this is embedded into your choice the same way that the mustard plant is embedded into the seed. It does not matter if you can’t see what you should do next, because soon enough your path unfolds before you, and that is when you know the next step. If the next step seems wrong to you, the giant is to big, or your twelve brothers to mean, then YOU are the one who is stopping your own manifestation. Make the choice to have, and then go. Whatever comes your way next is part of your path so don’t cave in just because it LOOKS to you like a failure.

The mustard seed has to break when it sprouts, maybe the seed believes momentarily that it has failed. Maybe it hurts to break. Maybe it fears that it is over, and it will never become anything after all.   Moments later it sprouts, but the seed did not know that, this is the path that it would take. Your choice will put you on the path of your new timeline, and don’t be afraid of your new timeline.

Feeling is the secret

“Be careful of your moods and feelings, for there is an unbroken connection between your feelings and your visible world.”

— Neville Goddard

This quote breaks the stereotypes that many try to perpetuate about Neville’s teachings. Clearly he recognizes the importance of feelings and emotions, he states in no uncertain terms. What you allow yourself to indulge in, is essentially “what you think matters” and if you think it matters the transformation into your world is a fact.

How do you react to the events in your life? 

Correct yourself if you have been a drama queen until now. How do you react when you are in a storm, small or big?

Experiment by taking the tiger by the tail, using a conceptual idea of  “you and your world”.

Because YOU are both the image and the reflection, you can use your reflection to your advantage, by using an idea of “Me and my world are …..” 

For example, “me and my world are going to make this video”, or “me and my world are going to get ready for work”, “me and my world are going to get on the subway:” begin to  use this concept throughout the day,  every day for one week. 

Even go so far to put it on the calendar so that you don’t forget. Put reminders for yourself throughout the day so that whatever you are doing when the reminder goes off, you can take inventory, “me and my world are preparing for this meeting”.   I  want you to get used to being in control  of your creation, understand where you begin and end, understand that you are bigger than just your body.   After this  routine  starts to become a habit,  incorporate your intentions into it, that is, your choices.   Your manifestations.  If you desire to be a famous rockstar, then “ me and my world are becoming a famous rockstar”  or  if you are manifesting a new house “ Me and my world are buying a house”.   You can do both the end result, and the process there, it is fine to interchangeably say “are” and “becoming”.  “Me and my world are getting married” and  “Me and my world are happily married”  can both be used.

This is informing your nervous system of a definite qualitative change within you.  You know that you create your world, so you are comfortably commanding it.  Furthermore, your desire is no longer a mere hope, wish, or daydream, it is now a decision.   As a decision,  for you, the CEO of your life,  it will happen because that is how decisions  play out.  A decision is an obvious step towards fulfillment. A decision HAS to be made, no matter how small.  A decision if it will be chicken or burgers for dinner HAS to be made, otherwise there will be no dinner. I decided to eat taquitos for dinner. That means sometime today I’ll pick up some salsa and some guacamole from the store, so that I have everything I need to make dinner. This is a decision, a choice, and as such it will happen. You don’t need to maintain or persist in the feeling of desire, it will come and go naturally, maybe as you think about dinner you get a little hungry and you look forward to it, but you don’t force this. This type of desre has changed energetic quality, and this brings it home, it is aligned with anticipation, not hopeless daydreaming. You don’t have to worry about the traditional  LOA conundrums such as DO I DROP IT OR DO I PERSIST??  You have made a decision.   A decision comes to pass.

THIS simple shift will make a BIG difference for you.

Neville Goddard Says:

“Determined imagination is the beginning of all successful operation. The imagination, alone, is the means of fulfilling the intention.”

-Neville Goddard

This determination that he is talking about  is the choice, and then the intent to have. It is that simple. It doesn’t matter what you think or do in between, you don’t have to be viding high, you don’t have to be exclusively positive, you just go about everything during your days naturally, because it comes to you through an avenue that is perfectly natural. Everything lines up, and you just make sure to take actions that are unrelated, whatever your day presents to you, count on it being for the benefit of your choice, regardless of how “opposite” it looks. It is never the opposite, it is always correct. Be relaxed in this. You decided already for taquitos for dinner, and it doesn’t matter if there is a crisis at work, deal with life as it comes, it has nothing to do with anything. Everything is lined up in your favor, and we don’t see the whole picture, so sometimes it looks opposite, but know that it is not, it is for you, and it is going in the right direction. Your heart never lies to you, it is incapable of deceit, so going towards your heart’s desire is ALWAYS safe.

“If you will assume your desire and live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact.”

-Neville Goddard

There is more than one reason for this but the most important one that most people completely forget is that your desire happens to be intrinsically linked with your gifts, and your unique abilities. Copying someone else’s abilities and  desires, or trying to be someone you’re not makes you path very difficult,  and it makes us feel unfulfilled regardless of how much wealth it seems to be to someone else. I wish I could convey to you how often people have achieved absolute success, but on someone else’s terms, and they are deeply unhappy. You were equipped with your desires for a reason. Let your personality shine, and decide today that you are worthy. Nobody can be you like you can be you. This kick starts a blessing, a chain of events, or a bridge of events as Neville Goddard calls it, that can not be stopped by any seeming outer force. You can think of it as if it is mean to be even. You are not accidentally given your desires, you have those desires to fulfill your own unique truth, call it lifepath. Your lifepath is waiting for you, already made, just waiting for you to step onto it.

 “Believe that you are what you want to be.”

-Neville Goddard

This quote sums up the belief that you are worthy. What is the reason for us being so quick to talk ourselves out of what we actually CAN have what we want?   Imagine if we do that to our friends or loved ones? What if you were as negative to your friends as you are to yourself, if they tell you that they hope for something. Will you tell them that they can never have that, they are too fat, too broke, too ugly or too stupid? No? Well, we do sneaky little versions of this to ourselves ALL THE TIME. It is time for you to celebrate yourself, maybe you are too ub=gly and too stupid but so what? Do you know how many ugly people think that they are God’s gift to mankind? I’m not saying to be arrogant, of course, but I am saying, accept your own greatness by noticing your strengths, and by knowing that you are worthy, just because you are here. Whatever flaws you have that you have used as reasons stacked against yourself are not at all flaws, they are part of you and other people might wish that they were just like you.

“The world is yourself pushed out.  Ask yourself what you want and then give it to yourself! Do not question how it will come about; just go your way knowing that the evidence of what you have done must appear, and it will.”

-Neville goddard

“A change of feeling is [the same as] a change of destiny.”

— Neville Goddard

“Assume the feeling of your wish [having been] fulfilled and observe the route that your attention follows.”

— Neville Goddard

“You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it.”

— Neville Goddard

“Your assumption, to be effective, cannot be a single isolated act, it must be a maintained attitude of the wish fulfilled.”

— Neville Goddard

 “It is not what you want that you attract, you attract what you believe to be true.”

— Neville Goddard

 “Man’s chief delusion is his conviction that there are causes other than his own state of consciousness.”

— Neville Goddard

To accomplish the task of creating a dwelling place, the state of the “wish fulfilled”, one would need to “take the material world and elevate and connect it to God.” This means that whatever you see around you that you don’t like, transform the quality of this in your imagination until it becomes like the fulfilled desire, and this is the same as “elevating and connecting it to God”.

Claim what is yours with the will to have. The intention is the power, and it has to be neutral and free of resistance, not unlike going to the grocery store and picking out items. It is a simple choice and an intent. Imagine if you went to the store for groceries, and when there, you started to  think that you have to ‘have a strong desire” to buy oranges, and that you had to persist in your affirmations…  This is how many approach manifesting. 

Getting stuck in this useless energy wasting resistance mode, drop importance and approach it like a more mundane activity.  Don’t be afraid that it won’t come, have a different plan laid out in case it doesn’t work so that you are not plagued with fear, that creates even more resistance. Make peace with potential failure, and then go ahead and act in the way that most naturally follows next. DO NOT WAIT, you need to take some type of action, towards something, otherwise you create EVEN MORE resistance. Don’t take “false” action, that is don’t manipulate or finagle the outcome, rather take any natural action based on your current moment. 

Dwelling in the state of the wish fulfilled, is the same as the sort of indifferent state of having basically anything that you currently have, in other words, there is no desire there. Think of something that you now have that you previously desired, and how you rarely if ever even give it any thought at all.

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Resolve your blocks, the heart knows the way! Manifesting, Neville Goddard and the Tao

Resolve your blocks, the heart knows the way

You don’t need a reading!

I get questions about doing readings for people,and I understand where you are coming from, I used to think that a reading can give me the answers that I need too, but once you understand how to make practical applications of the law of assumption, you will never want another reading again, because you will know how you create your own future. Just like you understand that physical actions lead to certain results, for example if I get in my car, I start it, and I press the gas pedal and drive towards the post office, I will eventually arrive at the post office. This is predictable, and you understand that no reading is necessary to know where you are going. The law of assumption should give the same exact certainty. Will you get your desires? The moment you change the quality of your desire into a choice, an intention and a decision, and use your inner state of mind, you will know where you are headed and you don’t need to ask anyone.

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1. States, spirits, and pendulums. YOU are greater, stop fearing the world.

Secret knowledge has been clouded in so much esoteric mumbo jumbo for so long, so obscure, and so mysterious, but everything you need to know has ALSO been documented, in black and white, thousands of years ago, and there is nothing mysterious about it, there is nothing secret about it anymore than gravity is a secret knowledge, there is nothing complicated about using and understanding the law of assumption to achieve goals, nothing particularly difficult is required to “use” this law, in fact you are always using it, just like you are “using” gravity to stand on the ground. 

Neville Goddard talks about states of mind, this is taken  from his lecture “Infinite states” “As a son of the Most High you can, in the twinkle of an eye, move into any state, but the chances are you will not remain there, for a state is made up of a body of beliefs! If you spend the day thinking from a certain base, a certain body of beliefs, the chances are you will fall asleep that night in the same belief. Knowing you can move into another state, another body of beliefs, you may try to move, but you must persist in staying in the new state until it becomes natural.” 

Vadim Zeland calls the same thing a “pendulum”, and the Bible calls this a “spirit.

The problem with naming the state that you are in, is really only related to the sense of powerlessness  that it can cause. A state of mind has no power over you, and it is gone the moment you decide to leave it mentally. Thinking that your state of mind is subject to the whims of pendulums,  or the delusion of spirits is disempowering.  The metaphors of the Bible are meant to be empowering, but we have to understand that it is not literal. The “spirits” are not an outer force, but are rather a mood, a state of mind that has a hold on you, and that is internally generated, sustained and maintained.  If you have understood Vadim Zeland correctly, you know that you are in control of whether you get hooked by a “pendulum” or not. Vadim Zeland describes cultures, wars, political and religious movements, charities, activism, teenage peer pressure and other outer circumstances as pendulums, literally everything is a pendulum, but just like a state of mind and a spirit, the actual experience is our reaction to the circumstance. It is consciousness plus an object, and the meaning that we attribute to that object and experience.  Although it sounds like something external it is not. A spirit is nothing other than a state of mind, and a pendulum is also just a state of mind, and you are the only one who can give life to a state. Nothing else and no one else. This is what we mean by circumstances don’t matter, in a nutshell. YOU have to make the circumstances not matter, otherwise they turn to matter. 

The change of states is the step you need in order to expand your experience to include the fulfillment of your desire, otherwise you stay stuck in longing for your desire, or hoping, wishing, and dreaming of it. The change of state has to be to the completion, the desire changes quality, and becomes an intent, a choice, and you find that you are mentally now at a point in time after you have been fulfilled, where longing and desire is already gone and forgotten, your intent to receive is an indication that you are on your way now. 

2. Stay out of pendulum swings, mind gets corrupted, human OS gets hijacked. Don’t get hooked.

Realizing what you truly are, divinity made manifest, or as Neville Goddard just expressed it above, “the son (or daughter) of the most high” and discovering that if you are determined to stay in your desired state,  you can move into it, and nothing can keep you our, unless you give your power away.   The is no state of mind that is outside of  yourself, every single state is 100% dependent on you to stay alive, there is not one single pendulum, no matter how important, looming, or scary it seems, that has any power over you, your choice is completely in your hands, or in your mind, an you can choose to see only your desired “home state” of mind. There is no Biblical spirit that is greater than you, no state of fear that can not be dispelled by a simple remembrance  that you have the choice to redirect your own mind right here and now. 

You are operating on consciousness alone, and this experience, produced by illusion, expressed and made manifest at your direction, is powerless when held against the light of consciousness.

It is true that all circumstances exist, however, you are not obligated to experience negative circumstances just because they exist. 

“This is what is meant by creation and the statement that creation is finished means that nothing is ever to be created, it is only to be manifested. What is called creativeness is only becoming aware of what already is. You simply become aware of increasing portions of that which already exists. The fact that you can never be anything that you are not already or experience anything not already existing explains the experience of having an acute feeling of having heard before what is being said, or having met before the person being met for the first time, or having seen before a place or thing being seen for the first time.”

Neville, The Power of Awareness

Knowing that all things already exist, your only job then becomes to identify what you desire to experience, and to choose.

3.  Listen to your heart. 

The mind is not capable of communicating your inner hopes and dreams to you, the mind creates problems out of thin air, it thinks of confrontations that have never happened it ruminates on all the things that can go wrong, and it comes up with plans for revenge, and egoistic ways to show off, but it dances around the true desires fully incapable of accessing them, and the reason for this is that the brain-mind is created  out of reactions to our environment. The brain-mind consists of mostly reactions, but also in great part the ego, or the identifying mechanism, that says “I am this” I am that” “I am John the man who struggles with poverty, and can’t handle wealth for fear of no knowing how to manage it” for example, and the mind also houses our intellect,  but this is a very underdeveloped part of the brain mind that develops if you are actively working on developing it, otherwise it is mostly dormant in most humans.

The heart-mind, called the Shen in Taoism. Taoism is the only teaching that explains that the true mind is in our hearts, figuratively speaking. And “Shen” is the numen/spirit of  Heart. Even the word for heart, in Chinese,  Xin, is sometimes translated as mind.  The spirit of the heart is just one such governing spirit, there are several such numens, or governing spirits, each representing a different aspect of the mind, and I’ll get to more of those later, because we need this to manifest effortlessly.

Shen Mind Heart Numen Spirit

Daoism  is the only teaching that goes this deep with the description of the division from the nondual state of mind, Daoism recognizes the different  paths that we take to create direct access with our Godself, and so we can derive a lot of understanding from Daoism as it applies to the law of assumption. 

The different aspects of mind are like a river delta that joins at the sea. 

The Dao IS manifestation.  The Dao is also unmanifest. 

The Shen of the heart  means mind, or consciousness, so The mind and consciousness is located in the heart, not the brain. The Chinese character for “Shen” is composed of two characters that give the deeper meaning of the word (as well as the pronunciation) It roughly translates to: Influence from heaven, expressed (or extended). Another  way of expressing this meaning is:  From consciousness, made manifest.

Just by understanding this little tiny bit of Taoism, so much confusion and weirdness advised by the law of attraction and new age religion can be dismissed. Your heart is the hub. Your heart is the human call center. Let your heart guide the way.

Taoist  teachings already have an advantage because of this simple fact.  

The heart, which we now know  is your mind, knows the most intricate details of your desires, your heart knows what makes you smile and what gives you butterflies, your heart knows how to make you feel blissed out and in excastay, your heart knows what makes you feel zen.

Your brain-mind created all the circumstances around you as it sank into the illusion of separation, then the brain-mind continues to  react to the same circumstances, and then it tries to create solutions using the same faulty mind that created the problems to begin with.

A Christian sometimes very easily gets around this problem of overcoming circumstances, because as they say: God created the solution to the problems long before you were born, so trust him to solve them. This way of thinking instantly reduces the chaos that the brain creates when it reacts to problems. Evangelical Christians create and manifest miracles regularly thanks to this belief system. The problem with not receiving prayers only happens to all those people who believe that God;s will is different from their own will, which unfortunately is the vast majority of believers. For everyone else, a Taoist way of saying the same exact thing is that the heart (shen-mind) knows the answer. Your heart is innocent of the nonsense that your brain can think up, it is an undiluted truthful doorway to your own fulfilled desires.

Imagine your perfect fulfillment, your desire complete, and create a relationship to that experience inside your mind, play with this image, feel into it, touch with your fingers what you will touch when your intention has come true, and look through the eyes of fulfillment,and inhale, what would you smell, how does it feel inside? The heart-mind calls for you to feel only good and natural, not over the top, not uncomfortable, and not afraid that you can’t handle what you have imagined. John, who is used to poverty might feel uncomfortable as he fears that he will lose all the money because he doesn’t know how to handle it. The heart reveals your blocks to you instantly.   Mary who is used to childhood abuse, and has seen her parents’ marriage end in violence and divorce, and then a series of bad relationships with stepparents, who is manifesting a marriage might reveal her fear of repeating the same mistake as her parents. The heart knows exactly what and how far you can take your manifestation, before you build problems into your desired outcome

The brain-mind has no clue, John’s mind might be obsessed with wealth, and Mary’s brain might be obsessed with a specific person. The mind seeks to solve this problem in all the wrong ways, and continues to manifest the obsession, and Mary tries to figure out what is wrong with him, and John tries to solve the world’s problems of inequality,  but all the while, the heart knows that it isn’t quite ready yet. There is your time delay. The heart knows the way, the heart knows your fears, and the heart knows your next comfortable landing page, the heart knows the pace you can go at. Trust your heart.

If up until now, you have insisted on manifesting from your brain only, without diving into the true desires of your heart, you might find that as your manifestations come through, you don’t feel satisfied, or you feel out of place, or even depressed, then you can start to explore what your heart actually wants. Either you are completely off course, or you have gone too fast,or you have manifested things that you have no actual desire for.  Either way is no big deal, just notice.  An example would be trying to “get love”  from becoming famous, the mind thinks it wants fame, but the heart didn’t want that, it wanted love. (I’m not saying that wanting fame is not your true desire, it is different for all people, but I have treated enough people in that exact position, that either sought after fame or financial success,  and they tied that in with love and appreciation). 

The brain-mind is capable of an infinite number of delusions.  Course correct by inviting your real desres into your creation. If you discover that you have gone off down a path that was not what you actually wanted, don’t place any importance on this, just remember that any success has many failures behind it and it is better to make a mistake than to not try anything at all. Continue to go towards the imaginal scene of your fulfilled desires, and continue to develop the experience of it in your heart a  little more, and then a little more.

The mind is in the heart, so seek for the heart’s agreement, always, when you are manifesting, and you will  know for sure if you are on the right path, or if you need to slow down, or if you need to shift focus, or if you need to segment intend your way towards your goal.  

Your desire might take you way out of your comfort zone, because your comfort zone is part and parcel of your current dwelling  state, it is  part of the “pendulum that you are currently hooked into”, it is part of a “spirit that you are infatuated by”.   Just like you are currently bound by the laws of gravity, and you are using the law of gravity all the time, whether you want it or not, whether you like it or not, whether you believe in it or not. However, if you want to travel into outer space you will need a spaceship to propel you out of the atmosphere, and a space suit and maybe heavy moon boots to keep you down. 

Maybe changing states for you it’s so far out of your comfort zone. It is like moving to a different part of the universe, where the laws of gravity are completely different when you have to travel through no gravity zones to get there. The laws that you are bound by, are specific to the state that you are in specific to your personal set of beliefs, if you aren’t ready right now, for a big change in your life,  you’ll have to find a way to operate on a different belief system, and that  is a bit like traveling to different part of the universe in a spacesuit and a rocket.

When the fulfillment of the desire is far outside of your current mind-matrix, you need stability and courage to continue believing in yourself, so that you can stay confident  even when things start to shift and change. The bridge of events has to be crossed. The bridge takes you from your current state to the new state, and whatever you have to do to cross it will be revealed as you go, but the whole path might not be revealed, perhaps only step by step. You have to dare to take the steps.

Remember that your brain is going to want to create solutions to problems, the problems it itself has caused, and don’t let your brain in on this, don’t let it create chaos, don’t let it talk you out of the fulfillment of your desire, your heart already know the answer, it knows and feels the experience of the fulfillment of your desire. God already created all the solutions long before you were born so just relax and let the problems solve themselves as you honor your heart.

4. Reconnect human OS

Inspiration plus consciousness made manifest.

For this there are two more aspects of the mind that you have to receive, and it is inspiration and willpower.

The aspect of the mind, a Godmind, inspiration,  is called Hun in Taoism, and it is a free spirit kind of mind.  

hun inspiration free roaming immortal

The Hun mind  goes off in the night when we dream,  it is completely unbound by rational and logical thinking, it is direct inspiration from “thin air”, and all you can do is to  allow and receive this, because the Hun-mind can not be forced or coerced, it needs freedom to roam, but it also needs to be anchored in the heart- mind. It is a relationship of authentic desires (heart-shen= consciousness made manifest)  and inspired thought.  

Your heart is the anchor that expresses the inspiration, and these two “minds” need to be in a healthy relationship. The heart is the human OS, the human operating system, and it needs to be online, hooked up and connected to wifi, the Hun.  

The Heart is connected to inspiration through intuition, planning, hopes and dreams, ideas, and artistic inspiration. The Hun-mind, inspiration is equal to  movement, it is always moving, always searching and exploring ideas and nurturing those  life dreams.  Without the input of the Hun-inspiration-mind  the heart-Shen-mind  would be an inert and unchanging  consciousness. Inspiration  and heartmind are inseparably linked and together they form our consciousness. Inspiration provides movement in the following ways:

1) movement of the soul out of the body as in dreaming, and out of body experiences.

2) movement out of one’s everyday life, or state of mind,  as in life dreams and ideas.

3) movement towards the other people, as  in human relationships

4) movement in terms of plans, projects, visions.

5) Movement in terms of artistic creativity, that is: inspiration.

The Hun is not only important for the inspired insights, but also the movement inward and outward, it gives us the  capacity of insight and introspection,  as well as the ability to project outwards and relate to other people. The intentional outward projection is essential for your manifestation. Manifestation is in part The law of assumption, you assume your state of mind and your identity, and then you deliberately project that onto the screen of space: Inspiration plus consciousness made manifest.

Irritability, anger and rage are direct blocks to inspiration, intuition and movement towards your own goal.

5.  Willpower that wills itself

Zhi is the numen/spirit in Taoism, .that is responsible for will power, and if healthy, it is a that wills itself.

If Hun is inspisation that inspires itself, then  Zhi is willpower that wills itself, that is why you need to learn to  receive. 

Willpower  and desire needs to communicate.

This is the same as  mind and heart being connected and  online.  

When willpower is imbalanced, the result can be one of two.  Either you experience a  lack of drive, or you experience a hyper overdrive. A natural flow state is steady and strong and  calm.  The willpower that will itself feels like it is divinely powered and propelled , and you can accomplish seemingly impossible feats.

If this part of the mind is not at its best, you  can experience indifference, or passivity, weakness, withdrawal or even  despair, or on the opposite end of the spectrum you might  become restless, agitated, and hyperactivite and hyper-determine or stubborn. You might not know if you are in a healthy state of flow, or if you are imbalanced, but look for signs of excessive efforting, or signs of listlessness.

Other willpower imbalances are forgetfulness and memory lapses, or the overuse of stimulants, like coffee,  to provide false fuel for activity, and be on the lookout for addictive patterns or insomnia.  When this aspect of the mind is allowed to be in balance,you move forward without seemingly any effort, as if you are propelled by an  invisible force. 

This is what manifesting taps into. It is an easy and effortless state. This is a going with the flow, and a complete trust in the next step and the next. 

Willpower is affected by experiences, so if it has memory of negative experiences, those have to be overcome or recreated. Shock for example negatively affects willpower, and repetition of a new and desired habit positively affects willpower.

Some ideas to nurture, foster, cultivate and strengthen a healthy Zhi – the willpower aspect of the mind, and for practicing  staying stable in a chosen state are: 

  1. Doing something you’ve never done before
  2. Doing something for five minutes longer when you would rather stop
  3. Doing something very very slowly
  4. Doing something no one would expect you to do
  5. Postponing  an action you want to do now
  6. Doing something now that you would prefer to postpone
  7. Doing a practice every day for a month

Earlier I mentioned the unease that you might experience when you leave your current dwelling state, what Neville Goddard and the Bible calls “the old man, and this aspect of your mind, Zhi, willpower that wills itself will usher you out of your comfort zone in a way that you might not be able to do on your own. Zhi allows you to accomplish the impossible, and if you can dream it you can experience it, but just like the Hun or inspiration part of the mind, you can not force it, you have to learn how to receive it.  Try being mindful of the seven steps I just mentioned daily, so that you develop your receptivity of effortless willpower. 

Fear and shock are direct blocks to your effortless movement towards your own goals.

“When will and imagination are in conflict, imagination invariably wins.”

Neville Goddard, Be What You Wish

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Summary.

Everything said in this blog/video, is meant to guide you towards your life’s purpose, and your own unique set of abilities, and your own hopes and dreams. If you get tired and drained on your path, then you might be headed in a direction away from your heart’s desire, but if you find that doors that were previously closed to you are now opening, and you find an effortless energy, and an invisible force propelling you forward, you know that you have tapped into your own personal life purpose. Nothing and no one can stop you when you tap into this, life becomes a vacation, even the work that you do feels like a holiday, no obstacle is too big

Remember these things the next time you panic and want to get a “reading”, Take a moment to pause and remember that fear is a direct block to your willpower, use the movement of your inspiration to introspect. Feel into your heart and really feel into your dream, and experience the fulfillment of your desire, then again use the movement of the inspiration aspect of mind to project your imaginal scene onto the screen of space, and watch calmly as doors open and close before you..Walk through the open doors. Completely ignore pendulums and unwanted states of mine as you continue letting yourself be guided forward by your willpower that wills itself.

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Do bad thoughts manifest?

Do bad thoughts manifest?

I saw this question in a facebook group, and it is a perfect question because it highlights the most common misunderstandings in the law of assumption, and also, this shows why reading your own source material can help you avoid misunderstandings like this. Only learning from YouTubers and coaches can make you more confused, because the law of attraction teaches something completely different from the law of attraction. 

I recommend reading or listening to Neville Goddard a few times through.

The question, or comment, on Facebook generated hundreds of answers. The original poster liked the comments that supported her, and generally disliked the comments that held the answer. This shows how the state we’re in is like “misery loves company”. It is not only misery that loves company, but all states that we fall into like to keep company that supports its thoughts and opinions. If you are angry, you like to be supported and justified in your anger and so on. While working at a trauma healing center, I noticed that the biggest hurdle to healing is often just that, a sense  of justification of the state that the client was in, even if that was a victimized state. The state wants to perpetuate itself.

This was the question:

I think I am going to have to stop trying to manifest stuff, coz when I follow LOA teachers,  (I’m guessing law of attraction, not law of assumption) they always say that your bad thoughts will manifest too… saying not to think about bad things is EXACTLY like telling someone to not think of a pink elephant and you are stuck thinking about a pink elephant… bad thoughts plus fear of bad thoughts equals more bad thoughts “(notice that her state of needing justification for continuing the bad thoughts is asking the group to confirm that it is too hard to stop thinking bad thoughts, she is stuck in this state)

 “I feel like I can’t get out of this pit and I’m going to have to try and let my mind rest… saying that the tiniest bit of doubt screws up your manifesting, to me that means that manifesting is impossible… coz it’s impossible not to feel doubt that a thing that doesn’t exist EXISTS… I mean I’m having bad thoughts that turn into a pain symptom in my body almost instantly… so i’m just going to have to leave it all alone until I can get my mind back to normal… unless y’all have some good suggestions other than ‘don’t think that way’.. Thanks!

This state that, she wants support for, “the impossible task of not thinking bad thoughts”, is only a state, it isn’t a personality trait and it isn’t even in need of therapy. I don’t know the quality of her bad thoughts, but it sounds like anxiety. She has noticed that her bad thoughts turn into physical pain, and this is exactly what happens at the tail end of prolonged structural dissociation. The body says no. First her mind was saying no, and eventually her body said no.  This mind-body language is the communication of our physical self to our spiritual self. Her spiritual self, her core of conscious self does not agree with the negativity of her mind, it is communicating something different, but until she lives on the edge of her comfort zone, until she decides to leave the “misery loves company state”, this anxiety and physical pain will continue. 

(Treating pain syndromes like this without addressing  the state of misery, is pointless, the pain comes back in a few days. )

The law of assumption generally does not bother with over focusing on affirmations, or “not thinking bad thoughts” though, this comes from the law of attraction, a field of information that can be ripe with misinformation. This is where you hear about things like the 555 method, the 369 method or the water method, and other methods that are more or less like spell casting. The law of assumption has no overlap with the law of attraction in that regard. (Just the LOA acronym) The law of assumption is based on nondual principles. There is nothing to attract in a nondual consciousness…

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We all experience a unique world of circumstances, this includes everything from different difficulties, different qualities of relationships, and we also experience a unique set of financial health or instability, differences in health and strengths and so on. Whatever we entertain in our consciousness is like water for a seed of circumstances.

What we entertain in our state of mind is the soil, the water, the sunlight and the sustenance for our own circumstances. 

I have a way of being drawn to true crime shows for example, and when I have spent a lot of time on my inner state, on building my inner divine connection I feel averse to true crime, but as soon as I expense a little  bit of actual stress in life I feel drawn to watching true crime again, this is how the state that we are in creates our thoughts, and our desires.

Choosing a desire and pursuing it from the mindset of law of attraction can keep us in a loop like this, stuck in a state. A state that contains the whole universe of our own unique experience. This includes good and bad experiences. But all the circumstances are within the comfort zone of the state. 

When we have decided to shift state, the mind has to dare to dwell on the fulfillment and completion of the desires. Yes the desires are also sometimes generated from that old state, but it is like a lighthouse guiding you forward, on into greater states. Neville Goddard talks about  “buying the pearl”  (and selling our contradictory beliefs.) It is taken from a Bible verse, like all of Neville’s teachings:

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it.”

The pearl represents what you want, and selling everything that he has represents every last contradictory belief that you have, the reasons that you have stacked against yourself.

Neville puts it this way:

“If you think for one moment you can hold on to one little thing in the event this doesn’t work, you can’t buy the pearl. And so when I buy the pearl, I go all out and live by it. And there is no other being in this world, just this pearl, and I live by it.  This pearl is your own wonderful human Imagination.” – Neville Goddard

Let’s come back to the original posters’ concern over bad thoughts.  Does everything manifest, every tiny little thought? Yes it contributes to your overall state, and the state manifests. It isn’t like the thought goes into a 3d printer and you get an identical experience, that cannot happen because of hundreds of thousands conflicting thoughts. ALL thoughts go into the 3d printer, and what comes out is a blend of everything. Like a cake that had all the ingredients mixed together, it comes out of the oven as a cake, not as each individual ingredient that went in. 

Just like I described with my true crime addiction, so our negative thoughts are addictive, and all negative things that belong to your state, are all addictive. They are designed by yourself for yourself so that you can alert yourself to the state that you are in and the path that you can take to level up out of that state, so that you too can experience a quantum jump, a shift into a completely different reality and THAT is what you want. That is what everyone ultimately wants. An easier and more pleasant life. For that to happen we have to learn how to use our own circumstances to level up, and not use them to keep ourselves stuck in the addictive patterns of seeking more and more misery. The desire that you are manifesting is demanding a different version of you. A version that has “sold all belongings and bought the pearl”. Luckily different versions of ourselves are just states of mind, and a state has no actual power over us. You are free to leave a state behind at any moment, it is completely lifeless without you, and you won’t remember those bad thoughts that you were so attached to before. Just like I don’t remember that I want to watch true crime when I am in a completely different state, and if I try to watch it I feel that it is too dark and I dislike it. 

Now, some real talk about negative thoughts….

I manifested a lump sum of a hundred grand once, I did an imaginal scene, and I created a meditative trance-like state when I did it. It took two years for that money to actually come in, but number one, I thought MANY bad thoughts in those two years, and furthermore, I did not believe. I actually didn’t think about it again at all, but I was a very negative person in many ways back then. I often took inventory of what was bad in my life, and I liked to talk about it with my friends too. I mention this because I want to show proof that thinking bad thoughts does not stop a manifestation, it just colors the quality of your life.I have made videos already explaining that you don’t have to believe either.

Thoughts and beliefs are generated by the state that you are in, and your manifestation will come to you  in accordance with your state. So the manifestation comes, but how does it come? It comes in a way that you can believe according to your state. You don’t have to change your thoughts or your beliefs to get your manifestation, but if you want to change state, your thoughts and beliefs will change along with the state.

I didn’t doubt either because I didn’t believe it. I had two years worth of negative thoughts in between lol! I have manifested so many things with a mountain of negativity still in me,including my amazing beach apartment, in the most amazing neighborhood,  but I am very GLAD that I cleaned that up, for my own sake ha!

Listen. Let’s explain this from a nondual perspective.

All you do is manifest, there is nothing else happening, but you, here, made manifest by your consciousness, there is literally nothing but us, manifesting, so why bother being so anxious about bad thoughts? Does it matter if you thought a “bad” thought and it threw a wrench in the machinery for a second?  This is the spice of life that we are a bit addicted to. That is why we like scary movies and the thrill of fast roller coasters.  Becoming more and more zen is a gradual process, and you get to choose your own path there, and your own pace there. If you like to think negative thoughts, then yes, it contributes to your overall life experience, but they do NOT prevent your manifestations.

Everything manifests there is nothing else. What thoughts do is contribute to the state that you are in, but you can choose not to worry about them and let them go, or you can choose to think only about the pain of bad thoughts, it is a choice. All that good or bad thoughts do is  they contribute to the “cake batter” of your state, that you are mixing, the “cake” is your state.  Your state  is a manifestation of its own, the state is a parallel reality, in an endless universe of parallel realities. 

 The state is a universe of its own where you think certain thoughts and feel different feelings and experience different circumstances and people. All of life, every last thing is nothing but consciousness, from our waking sensing experiences to our sleep, it is all consciousness. Different experiences, sure, but still all experiences are just consciousness. Consciousness, plus an object, is experience. Object without consciousness equals no experience.  The objects change, but the consciousness is the same. 

Changing objects equals different experiences. No matter what the object is, it is an object in your awareness, in your consciousness, even a mountain is still in your consciousness,  the whole universe is just an object in your consciousness. Now, The mind is also an object. The brain is an object and the mind is an object, and as such it arises from your consciousness. The thoughts without consciousness equals no experience. It is YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS that is like a projector light shining on the object, which reflects onto the screen of space that is your circumstances.  Change the object (thoughts) and a different experience will project out. That is how it works. There is no other way.

In summary:

Your state manifests the thoughts, not the other way around. Your thoughts can help you shift state if you understand this.

Law of assumption means that your assumed sense of self manifests, and the law of attraction…well…. I don’t know that it is anything to even think about, I don’t.  Pretend it is like this:

Step 1. You assume

Step 2. Your assumption projects out and becomes your world

Step 3. You attract or repel whatever you have projected out.

Currently, you are living in your assumed reality, and you are playing with your own projection, and you are sorting, attracting and repelling the stuff of your own projection. 

You CAN manipulate the projection by deciding consciously what you will assume, but you can also relinquish all of your power and just go along the way everyone else does too. It doesn’t mean that you “stopped manifesting” it just means that you are not conscious of your own projection.

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Manifesting and Scripting | The REAL Scoop on Scripting | Yes or No, Do or Don’t & How and Why!

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When it Comes To Scripting and Manifesting Techniques in General, the STATE is the only thing that matter.

If you like scripting then go for it, but don’t use scripting to try to hammer something into place.

Do you wonder if scripting works to manifest your dreams, then watch this video!

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You may be feeling hopeless but no matter what happened, no matter what they said to ou, no matter what you have learned in life about rejection,  no matter what  the circumstances are , you can manifest your specific person.

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I AM | EIYPO | Solipsism or Oneness | What is the real deal?

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Where is God?

Arjuna:

-Oh my lord what is God? What is the self? What are fruit of activities? What is this material manifestation? What are the demigods? Who is the Lord of the supreme sacrifice, how does he live in the body? How can we know you at the time of death?

God:

⭐ The indestructible transcendental living entity is called God and his eternal nature is called the self.

⭐ Action pertaining to the development of the material bodies of the living entities is called fruit of activities, Karma.

⭐ The physical nature that is constantly changing is called the material manifestation.

⭐ The universal form of God includes all the demigods like the sun and the moon.

⭐ And I, the supreme lord , as I am represented as the supersoul in the heart of every embodied being, is called the the supreme sacrifice.

⭐ And whoever at the end of his life remembers me, at once attains my nature.

This little expert is from Bhagavad Gita, chapter 8. (shortened for your ease of reading, please explore the real text)

For our purposes we’ll only focus on WHO and WHERE is God.

This verse is all that we truly need to know about God, the great I AM, and about Godself. Nothing is clearer than this. God is self, God is manifestation, God is action.. (God are all the little deities as well.) God is me, and you, and our actions, and our bodies and our consciousness, (and by sacrifice is meant that devotional bestowal that we feel when our compassion overtakes our ego, and and such God is our hearts.)

When the concept of EIPO or everything is yourself pushed out, is brought up in LOA massive confusion immediately begins, it is such a hard concept for a beginner to grasp, and it doesn’t hep that the blind are leading the blind.

As hard as this is to grasp, just know that your journey towards embodying this, and living and breathing oneness has begun. Everything that you are trying to manifest is you, is already yours, and is part of yourself. There is nothing that isn’t self, but notice that God states in the above paragraph that there is a difference between God the manifest material bodies and that difference is that Godself is the eternal transcendental entity, in other words, the body is not everything at once, but consciousness is and consciousness is within all manifest bodies.

The best way to start to understand this is to call everything out as self, and to immerse yourself a little bit everyday in texts or podcasts that explain this. Listen to the Bhagavad Gita or the Ashtavakra Gita or other texts that thoroughly explain it, read Neville Goddard everyday, and one day it will dawn on you, and this is called awakening. You will see it with your own mind, and then it is much easier to grasp.

Awakening isn’t something difficult, boring or unattainable, it is a bliss state, nothing feels better, and it is easily available for everyone. Learn from the original texts, spend some time with the methods, for example meditation or chanting, practice seeing yourself inside of another human, or practice seeing god in another human, or inside of yourself. Practice makes perfect.

Awakening has been made out to be so difficult but it is not, it is easy, but you have to start calling yourself out when negative beliefs pop up, beliefs in the illusion of separation for example. The other one that is evil, is God, and is self. Call it out as often as you are able to, by saying -No! That is not evil, that is love, that is God and that is myself. It will feel unnatural at first, but the day will come when you have a flash of insight into your vastness, and you will even if briefly see yourself as everything. Then you will understand, everything is yourself pushed out, and you will understand the golden rule of treating others as yourself because obviously it is yourself.

One way to get to this awakening is to bring yourself to a state of alignment everyday, because alignment contains the same feelings as awakening, that is blissful feelings. Leaning closer to feeling blissful to the best of your ability will get you there eventually. In the ancient texts this alignment is called “devotion”, and it is a state of great love. Fix your attention of the love of the heart, and bring in light from the top of the head.

You are now, the beginning of time, the current moment, the end of time, and all the living creatures within it, and yet this body causes us to se time as linear, and bodies as separate. This iss merely an illusion or a mirage. Everything arises from within, not from without. This is how EIYPO works. All is within consciousness, and our focus brings somethings to the front row seat of our manifest world, and our lack of focus cause other things to recede into the background.

To cause something to come into your material manifestation, merely allow your consciousness to dwell on the state of its fulfillment. All manifestations come and go, but consciousness remains unchanged, make attaining Godstate part of your manifesting journey. Mastery comes from mastering our minds.

Reality is the real backdrop

The Bhagavad Gita, or Gods song, as it translates to, is set to the backdrop of war and far too much emphasis is often put on the specific backdrop but it could have been anything. Any real life circumstance. It helps to remember that his is an extraordinarily old story, and that warring tribes was their reality.

The backdrop could have been anything.

It seems like it is a story about war. And it is.

And then it seems like it is a story about spirituality. And it is.

Then you realize that it is a story about how to face reality, and that the lesson is that real spirituality is what happens in your current life, and it not something that happens while meditating in a cave. It is a story that everyone needs, because we all have a backdrop of our own circumstances, and we all face a crisis now and then.

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The backdrop of your own story is your own circumstances.

If you look at any person who is successful in their area of life, be it career or marriage, the success came from facing their circumstances boldly, not from hiding in a cave mediating.

The western mindset has created a separation between practicing spirituality and living real life, but that separation is false as Krishna explains, the real test comes in real life.

How well can you control your mind, and be still, and know that I AM God when the sh*t hits the fan? Spirituality seems to be what happens deep in concentration on the yoga mat, but the truth is that it happens in the midst of your greatest challenge of all. Do you remember then, how to control your mind or do you forget? Arjuna wants to get out of his circumstance, he is standing at the frontline of a war that is about to start and he wants to leave and go home. He isn’t afraid as much as he is disturbed that he ha has to kill people whom he actually love. The circumstance is so extreme that it is hard to find a more extreme circumstance. Yet, Krishna (God, and also self in form of eternal transcendent consciousness) tells him that circumstances don’t matter. Arjuna will win, the war is already won, weather Arjuna battles or not those other men will die. The interpretations to this story are so deep, and what we have to understand here is that time begins and ends in our consciousness, this circumstance was a mere intention, and as an intention it must take place and your actions are immaterial to it, but you are better of going than being dragged through your circumstances. What you have intended in consciousness is so. Can you think purely? Until then, you will face every intention, until then you will be dragged through your circumstances, and until then there will be “wars” or breakups, or divorce, or any other struggle. God (eternal transcendent consciousness) tells Arjuna to stay calm, the battle is won, do his duties as expected of him as a soldier, and that circumstances do not matter.

No matter how many times we are told that separation is an illusion, and that oneness is the real truth that permeates all of existence we STILL want to create a division between some lofty and holier spirituality, and a sinful problematic “real” world. Krishna is clear, literal, and no nonsense. There is NO such division, YOUR life is YOUR spirituality. YOUR spiritual practice happens on the floor of YOUR life. You don’t need to leave and go meditate anywhere to be “good”, your battles are already won, and your very basic job is to be still and know.

When our spiritual strengths are realized inside they are also materialized outside. Is it starting to sound like Law Of Assumption yet, because it should.

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God is Brahman is the limitless vast always expanding and all pervading.

The words that we use to express oneness are only necessary after we have accepted duality. We only talk about how time does not exist after we have accepted the untruth that time does in fact exist. We only talk about oneness after we have accepted the untruth of separation. This is what is meant by the unstruck sound (anahata) which is likened to the reverberating sound of a heartbeat. This oneness does not in fact need to be expressed in relation to duality, it is for our understanding only. This is Brahman.

Brahman means God for us, but the word Brahman translates to:

That which expands without limit, ie, consciousness.

In the west God means something in heaven, outside of ourselves. In India it always meant expanded transcendental consciousness. The concept of EIYPO is only relevant if you have accepted duality and separation as reality, as a way to explain that we are actually one consciousness only, and this consciousness gives rise to the entire universe including other people. It is a consequence of eternal transcendent consciousness. Your consciousness.

Placing God in our hearts

This small sentence, God is the bestower in the heart, deviates from solipsism in a significant way, in that not just our minds are involved in experiencing consciousness. This aligns with other ancient teachings such as Kabbalah. God is the bestower, and the quality of bestowal is found in the heart. The mind as such, is a tool, and should be used as such, but the mind is not God. Consciousness and mind have clear differences, and notice that it is never said that God is our mind, God is the indestructible transcendental living entity but the mind is born with the body and dies with the body.

Using this wisdom for MANIFESTING:

  1. Set Goals using your mind as a tool to do this.

2. Intend, using your mind as a tool to do this.

3. Be still, cease your mind to do rhis.

Remember:

God (self as limitless and ever expanding consciousness, not self as in the body or the mind) is the DOER.

The battle is won weather you fight or not.

You are merely the intender, using your mind as a tool, to intend.

Experience Gratitude that it is already done, this is equal to being still.

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Do you have Manifesting Blocks? Two main blocks and how to remove them

Do you have manifesting Blocks?

Two main blocks and how to remove them

Blocks are never what we think, and at the same time, we know exactly what they are.

Hidden from view from us, and that is why we call them blocks! There are two main types of blocks to manifesting our dreams, and this is how to easily identify them.

It is a fascinating human behavior to, try to avoid learning exactly where we need to learn! 

The reason why we are lacking in some areas is obviously because we have been neglecting that area, or we have been avoiding dealing with it. It shouldn’t be that strange then that there needs to be a little work in a particular area of our life, but we still try to avoid the work instead. It’s pretty normal. But this creates blocks…

This behavior is much easier to observe in another person, than in ourselves, but just because we can’t see it in ourselves doesn’t mean that we are not doing it. This is why it is called a block.

We see reality through a very distorted lens, all of us do. Imagine reality as a large vast universe, and our view of it is basically what you can see  in front of you right now and not a whole lot more. Whatever we have experienced, and whatever is within our consciousness is basically all of our view of reality, but there is an unimaginable amount of MORE reality that we never think about. Our view of other people is equally distorted, we see a tiny fraction of who they truly are, and the same truth is true for ourselves. We view ourselves through a tiny lens, and we are often afraid to see a bigger picture than that. In our tiny view of reality, we sometimes add in blocks, without realizing it.

People so often ask what their blocks are, in manifesting, and they can’t for the life of them figure out what it is!

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The first block:

Sometimes we know for certain that we are avoiding an area of our own development. It is a paradox, but it is a paradox that we are creating and we are free to stop creating this block any time. 

This type of block is a nagging voice in the back of your mind, even in the back of your mind, that says “I should”. Bring the spotlight to that voice, and shine it brightly. Take a good look at that voice. Is it true that you should, is it just a handed down voice from someone else and there is no need to do it, or is it something that you want but are afraid to try? The voice in the back of your mind will stay there nagging you until you get a good look at it, it is like a monster under the bed, and just like the monster under the bed there is a chance that it has no truth to it. Like I said, after you get a good look at it, it is possible that it is something important that you actually should do, but as it relates to manifesting, the only thing that matters is that you look at it, recognize it for what it actually is, and then either start working on what you should, or recategorized it as something that you don’t need to do, or as something that you actually want to do but are afraid to do. From there on, it is no longer a block. Blocks are subconscious, and now it has been brought to the conscious mind, and that is enough to release it.

The second type of block:

The second type of block is what is called messing with the middle, and in psychology it can be related to a double bind, and this is where you have falsey qualified two mental messages on each other, that is two conflicting messages, so there is no possible way forward. Let’s say that you are manifesting a happy relationship, but you believe that you have to lose 20 pounds first. This is your own creation, and you have to either lose that weight before you can manifest a relationship, or you can realize that there are a lot of people in all shapes and sizes that are in happy relationships right now. 

Neville Goddard says to not worry about the how, and this is what he is talking about. To remove this block the only thing that is needed is to realize that you have been creating a double bind, and then decide what you want to do about the obstacle that you had created. Do you want to lose 20 pounds? If yes, then make that its own goal, unrelated to relationships, and if not, then reinforce your new concept that many couples are happy regardless of size and shape.

“Accept the facts of life and you are stepping down on stone. Change the facts in your imagination, and you have turned them into psychological truth, which then becomes a spiritual experience. When you live by this principle, you are walking on water” – Neville Goddard. Basically, what this means is that YOU are creating those unwanted facts, and by your belief you are turning those conflicting messages into fact. In other words: We create the blocks!

The most important part of either one of these types of blocks is to see it. This is all you really need to do. If there is a process that truly needs to be done, from there on you just need to get started on that, it doesn’t have to be finished, because it is now a conscious process and no longer a block. ” I used to think that I had to lose weight to be loved, but now I have realized that lots of people are loved in any size and shape”

Usually, when the block is made conscious, both desires are feed up from this double bind, and both relationships AND weight loss becomes easy!

If you need help identifying blocks, sign up for coaching! 

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Master GODSTATE and ALIGNMENT | Manifesting and The structure of the divine particle | Feeling It Real

The structure of the divine particle:

The structure of our consciousness is non material, and has nothing to do with our Physical being. 

In the spiritual perception of reality there is no separation, from Godstate there is a clear vision of oneness, a complete clarity that we are all one thing. There are only answers, and no questions.

One and the same. 

One consciousness. 

Separation is the illusion of our physical body, but our spiritual body, our consciousness,  does not suffer from this illusion, although consciousness is attached to every unit of our physical body, it is also unattached.

There is a particle of light, an illumination, or enlightenment, in every cell of our body.

There is a divine particle in everything,

 Not necessarily  of equal measure, but there IS.

This particle is not part of the manifest universe. The divine particle is attached to nature,to the world, or the manifest universe, but it is also unattached.

Everything has an illumined particle. 

Even hell, if there is such a thing, and there is because we create it, still has a particle of illumined divine particle. 

Yes.

Why does this matter? 

This illumined particle is what gives desire. 

How is that though? 

Well it drives out desire to discover who we are, what our purpose is and ultimately it drives our desire for liberation. (enlightenment)

Ego driven desires, and the desire for the ego to yield to enlightenment are both desires. 

Our consciousness, the divine particle, gives our direction, the desire is the direction where we always go. 

The divine particle is  in everyone of us, in every cell,  every cell has its own consciousness,  in every fiber that makes your physical, mental , emotional, and spiritual body. 

This divine particle  is always calling us.

It is calling us to a very special place but we can not see that place, and our descent into this body is a veil. The veil obscures both the calling and the divine particle itself, and our only view to it now is through our desires. It seems like a strange route to take, but mostly because we are not used to thinking in this way, we are used to a religious doctrine that says that the opposite path is virtuous, abstinence form earthly pleasures. This causes guilt, ans is a block to our alignment and growth.

Our view from this vantage point causes the divine particle to sit exactly in our blind spot.

No matter how bad we think it is in the moment, we still have contact with this divine particle, and the only contact we have is through our desires.   

Our desire for something, anything, be it material or physical, or egoic, or sexual, or for human connection is only the next step on a path that takes all of us to the same place, which is unity consciousness.

Because we ARE one.

This is how our unity consciousness first evolves, through our desires! One day, we see oneness, and no separation at all, and at that point the love is complete, and the compassion encomapssses all offfemses that have ever been committed, there is no thought of forgiveness, because it is just self going through various stages of consciousness.

The nature of all dual reality is desire. 

Alignment:

There is a level of creation that is not operated by desire, non-dual, that is pure consciousness, awareness, bliss, and there is a concept of the unstruck sound, the sound of the reverberations of a  heart beat.  It is the fulfilled and satiated  desire. The vanishing of hunger after you take a bite. This is not accomplished by abstinence of the desire, but a learning of how to focus our attention.

Our  desires CHANGE depending on our level of consciousness 

Our desire CHANGES depending on our state.

Our level of consciousness  can also be expressed as our state, and our desires change depending on our state. A state is an attitude of mind, and it can also be expressed as a level of consciousness. A state of mind. The state creates our focus, and we can change states by using our focus on what we want.

So the desire drives us forward, at first only within the current state, but eventually we want more, we outgrow our comfort zone and we want out, we want to expand. We learn how to focus our attention and we have learned how to change our state.

Every state has its own set of desires.

There is no state that does not have desires, except the fulfilment of a desire!

God state follows after a willingness to focus our attention only on the fulfillment of our desire.

Our five senses communicate our desire to us.

The five senses, sight, sound, touch, smell, taste, can never sense the divine center. This is what is meant by the veil of separation. This illusion of separation is caused by our five senses, and our five senses can not detect the divine center. 

The divine center is always hidden behind the veil, but we can know its presence through our desires.

We can use our five senses to align with Godstate by removing focus from what the five senses are actually telling us, and instead giving attention to seeking internally for joy, love and bliss. This makes us discover the divine center, and this creates alignment, and this awakens us to Godstate and our creative power!

Our desire for love is also call from our divine center, and when we fall in love we get a glimpse of this divine center, we see what we look like through the eyes of the divine center,  in a powerful experience, and yet it is only a small fragment of the love that is the love of the divine center.  These loving desires are bringing us closer and closer to our divine center. If we understand this correctly, the loving encounters we experience are there to help us get closer to this bigger love. We get closer to the bigger love by beginning to become love, and leaning closer and closer to more love.


If love came and went, it is a sign from a greater part of yourself to a smaller part of yourself that you are now capable of growing this love from within, using no other tool but your own inner guide towards a sensation of joy, love, and bliss. You are now able to generate Godstate from within with only a shift in focus.

Alignment is a state of mastery.

This is forms the basis of all ancient teachings, no single teachings own this concept, rather it is a truth that runs like a red thread from the far east to near east, and eventually found its way to the west

This desire is our divine center calling us. 

It is not us calling it, it was calling us all along.

Our spiritual experience begins with a call from our divine center.

We desire to  fill our need for food and sex etc and then our other desires of wealth and power and an easy life!  We can desire rest, and a nap, or a new dress, or a sexy lover, or smarter children. Underneath it all there is still a desire to know love, to know ourselves, to understand why we are here.

We can find ourselves in hundreds of states, each with its own set of desires.

Never at any point should there be a judgment of our own inner guidance system, this is the lie of the matrix for the past couple of thousands of years but this is not longer a static matrix. You are free to level up now!

More and more people  can see through the veil, and they suddenly experience blissful love and oneness.

We can develop this ability to be in Godstate, we can begin to correct our focus and our attention, and level up, and correct it again, and focus our attention, and level up. We do this thousands of times. 

Life is NOTHING but the appeasement of hunger. And God and ONLY God gives me DIFFERENT hungers.” -Neville Goddard

Love is the path. Bliss is also the path. That is why desire is the path, the focused attention on the fulfilled desire. One is a stepping stone to the next. The object of the desire is always only a stepping stone towards the developing the skill of aligning from within.

Once we understand this we can skip and go straight to following our bliss. 

⭐ Leaning into joy. 

⭐Joy-bathing.  

⭐Bliss seaking.

We DO know how to do that, just seek for a good feeling, lean a little closer to that feeling and a little closer

Manifesting our desires becomes a matter of leaning into our joy.

Following a breadcrumb trail of bliss!

We are not the doer in this, we just shift state. 

All desires are born out of the state we are in, and the fastest way to move out of an undesired state, is to be joy seeking.

This is the quantum jump. You walk from one set of desires into another. From one room to the next.  

This is done by the sixth sense, our consciousness, by our joy-seeking.

By basking in good.

In our imagination, we can pretend to be in another state, and feel as if that is real, imagine a new set of sensory input, imagine seeing what we desire to see, hearing what we desire to hear, and so on, and generate a state from our internal sense, our consciousness. 

This shifts our state, we align, and level up, and the more we learn how to do this the closer we get to know this divine particle, our consciousness. Bliss.

The state is the state of a the fulfilment of a greater love than we have ever experienced, it is fulfilment of the desire and that is why it is desireless.

The shortcut is through internally imagining yourself to be in a state of Bliss and a greater love already. 

You might not get it perfect but practice makes perfect.

 This is the path of love, and bliss.

Joy-seeking

Bliss-seeking.

Basking.

Try this, Tonight, when you fall asleep, try falling asleep in the wish fulfilled, by imagining a greater bliss,  a greater joy, or the best news you ever  had, or the feelings of the romance of a lifetime. Create the feeling within, this night and every night, and sleep in that bliss, little by little you will find yourself in Godstate.

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Are you segment intending or are you messing with the middle, how to tell the difference | Manifesting |Law of Assumption

Are you segment intending or are you messing with the middle, how to tell the difference | Manifesting |Law of Assumption

“But I’ll tell you one thing, do not concern yourself with the means. Always go to the end. Dwell in the end, and you will hurt no one. But if you try to devise the means, you are, well, messing the whole thing up…. You want to be happily married.  All right, go to the end. You are happily married.” – Neville Goddard  

This Quote is from Neville’s lecture called  “Power”, and it sums up the importance of NOT messing with the middle. Going to the end, the end being you enjoying the result that you actually want, vs you  being in the process of achieving your hopes and dreams. The end result can be anything that you want, but basically, it is the completion of what you actually want, and the sensation of  satiety, of extinguished hunger around that topic.  Building a positive image and imaginal scene aka future memory, of yourself as you are now satisfied and have dropped all importance around this topic, because that is what happens as soon as a desire is fulfilled.

If I could at this very moment imagine myself into a state – any state at all – and dwell in it, well now, what is “dwelling in it”?  Well, I’m dwelling in it.  Well, that’s Christ!  And that is the resurrecting power of the universe.  So, if I remain in a state, I will resurrect it and objectify it in my world. But I have to select it and enter the state.

(Live in the end)

Neville Goddard

We can see how easy the instructions are, just skip all the hoopla and feel into the sensation of living your life as the self that you will be, the married you, the CEO you, the homeowner you. The human tendency is to fantasize about the end, or to pine for it, or to dwell on how impossible the desire is for us to achieve, they are so out of our league, or out of our budget, our confidence may tell us that we are anything BUT CEO material.  All of those are also states and they are states that we dwell in. Changing the dwelling state is the goal, and that takes some amount of effort, but it does not take any amount of manipulation or specific action. 

What would you feel like if now you were the man that you want to be? How would you see the world if things were as you desire them to be?

Neville Goddard

That should be enough quotes for one blog post!

Now, none of these quotes said;

“If you could talk to this individual, and convince them to set up a meeting with one of the higher ups in the organization, and if you bing muffins, then you could do a fantastic presentation representing your own skills, and at some point you might inch your way to the CEO position.” Sure, it might play out that way, but listen, that stuff is unplannable, the stuff that serendipity and being at the right place at the right time is made of, is simply being confident in your end state, unshakeable in the end.

Believing is seeing.

At no point do you have to think things like;  If you lose 20 pounds you will be desirable enough for a man, and at that point you might stand a chance out there. No, you are probably perfect the way you are, and also, dwelling in the end, means to enjoy in your minds eye, the feeling of being loved and cherished, of hanging out together and being desired and appreciated, and when you meet the right person they will especially love your body type exactly the way it is. This is dwelling in the end, and the other things are what is called “messing with the middle” “We are always imagining ahead of our evidence,” and the most creative thing in a human being  is  our ability to believe a thing into being, to make a thing “matter”, to turn into matter our strong beliefs. If you don’t want it to turn it to matter, don’t think that it matters. Carefully we can separate ourselves from the beliefs that we don’t want to turn into matter. If imagining creates reality, what are you imagining?  Day by day, we learn more and more to resist imagining the bad news, the impossibilities, the offenses and the hurts, and the sad backstory that explains our failures and rejections. Not messing with the middle means that you are already good enough.

Sometimes people get messing with the middle mixed up with goal setting, or segment intending. 

When I plan my life, which is something I have done many many times, through school, to start my career, to advance my career, and all sorts of things, now I am applying it to this blog and Youtube, these steps of making goals, setting a one year goal and a five year goal and a ten year goal is a wonderful thing to do, it gives direction to your day, and really keeps anxiety away. If you have never made these types of goals, and yes, you can set goals in EVERY area of life, I highly recommend doing it. Print your goals out and hang them up on the fridge or some place visible. This is also called segment intending, and you can absolutely manifest smaller partial goals, and that is not the same as messing with the middle. The difference is that messing with the middle is creating qualifiers from your belief system, and giving things meaning that it inherently does not have, and segment intending is just simple planning. Planning is good, manipulating is not.

That about sums it up! 

Sticking to the end result causes a smooth and problem free bridge, and manipulating, and messing with the middle causes a crazy ride, and unwanted circumstances. 

Go to the end and you will hurt no one!

Dr Anna Bäck

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