Is my desire from my ego, or is it a divine desire? Manifesting Fail-proofing

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Is my desire from my ego, or is it a divine desire? Manifesting Fail-proofing

This trips people up sometimes, I can see that, a second-guessing of desires. “Do I have a right to want this for myself”, is what is usually at the root of this. Well, of course you do, but let me explain why.

We learn to feel unworthy in many ways, and early in life is the most common time to get an “unworthy” message. Others get through childhood just fine, and feel very worthy, but later bump into a relationship that is toxic or abusive, and suddenly find that your previous feeling of value has disappeared.  That you were the cause for the bad treatment. Small children are extremely sensitive to the messages from the mirror of their parents, and I am observing my grandbabies social engagement system develop as we speak, she is two months old, and ever since she was born, she has been seeking for happiness in other peoples faces. I also remember when my youngest was a small child, whenever she arrived somewhere she would announce it like a very happy occasion. “I am here!!” Just so sure that this was going to get the party started. 

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The opposite development happens easier than we realize, people often ask what they did to deserve their bad childhood, and the answer is nothing, no one deserves bad treatment at any age, but children are like sponges and they absorb the messages from the mirror very fast. Let me show an awful video of what happens to a baby that does not receive a value message:

Trigger warning.

Some people receive a value message, only as an “asset” to the parent, their value comes from making the parent look good, they are over praised, but for things that have nothing to do with their core value. Their core value is unseen, and this could cause someone to develop what is labeled  narcissists.  In the Law of Assumption, psychological labels don’t really exist or help, so I won’t use them much. 

A label like that, for our purposes, is only important in a couple of ways. 

One is that the people who feel unworthy usually worry that they will be “like that”, that they will be selfish or narcissistic if they give more space to their hearts desires, they feel that they don’t deserve money in the same amounts, or love that is easy, satisfying and fulfilling. They are overly conscientious and don’t want to be seen as selfish. You will not be. Don’t worry, you will 100% NOT become a narcissist because you follow your heart, but rather, you will contribute the beautiful gift of being yourself to a world that sorely needs leaders like that.

Second, Other times when the narcissist label could be a little helpful, is for the narcissist themselves, since the inability to show vulnerability might stand in their way to move towards their happiness. Acceptance of self, is different from self aggrandizing, and one involves validating your heart’s desire in the face of potential rejection. The message is the same for you as for anyone else. DARE to dream your dream.

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If you are one of the people who are wondering if you are worthy of your desires, you most likely belong in the first category. Both categories feel unworthy, but only the first is usually aware of this pervasive sense of  unworthiness.

Let me walk you through who you truly are, and why your desires are all God-given, and I’ll also tell you a personal manifestation that is so out there, that it is hard to believe. You know I don’t share a whole lot of personal stuff, because I don’t want to use my loved ones as marketing tools, but this one manifestation that happened two or three years ago is very out there, and she won’t mind me sharing.

But first let’s make it perfectly clear that there is not one thing here in the world that survives death, nothing that you can achieve or accomplish will follow you into death, so all things belong here, in the material experience. There is not one thing that is somehow more “holy” over another thing, except for…that one thing that survives death… and that of course is your consciousness. AND In consciousness, lies the operating factor of the material experience, and that is intent. YOUR intent. Have you heard  the saying “it’s the intention that matters”? Well that ends up being way more true than we expected. It IS our intention that matters! It is ONLY our intention that matters. 

SoHOW is it that our experience of having desires is God given, how is it that YOUR desire for a loving relationship that checks all the boxes is divine in origin? How could it POSSIBLY be that your vision of a mega corporation with a hundred thousand employees is divine in origin? Why on earth would your desire for beauty that brings all the boys to the yard be GOD GIVEN? You gotta be kidding right? 

Nope, I am not kidding, and I am about to explain, so that you will stop holding yourself back.

Abraham Hicks, by the way,  tries to point the way, every day, in so many ways,  tirelessly, and still many people worry that it is inherently selfish to want, and that going for your dream is not realistic, and maybe other people can live their dreams but maybe their karma has positioned them to have a better life?

Yes we are handed a prepackaged set of lack of self worth sometimes, but in addition to that, so  much of our self judgment comes from a longstanding tradition of MISTAKEN  religion, (any religion, I am not specifically picking on one). Even  Eastern traditions are included here BECAUSE, they  have a reputation for being more spiritual. For example,  Christianity and  Islam, being more dogmatic,is easy to see that there is guilt handed down through generations, but Eastern spiritual traditions have a history of throwing away the human experience entirely, in favor of meditating on a mountaintop. They simply overcame the problem of “desires cause suffering” by obliterating the Ego fully and totally, and that is just as dogmatic as say the Abrahamic religions, and ultimately, it is not a solution that is open to the vast majority of people living on the planet.

Raise your hand if you are ready to spend your life meditating, instead of pursuing friendships, relationships, building and strategizing a career, feeling satisfaction and accomplishment over your creative expressions and so on. 

I know I am  most certainly not, and even less so when I was younger and heading into life, with a fresh and hopeful  outlook on life! No, I wanted to LIVE, to experience, to fall in love, to explore my dreams.  NONE of my dreams involved a solitary monastic experience…. None. I wanted to kiss a man, and feel what it feels like to fall deeply in love. I wanted to write poetry and express my inner thoughts on paper. I wanted to be seen as lovely, I wanted to travel and see the world. This thing called life, it calls to us, in a way that makes our hearts sing, and quite frankly,  yanking the ego from out under our feet, so that our “desires never cause any suffering” , is A LAME SOLUTION.   It is the solution of a coward, and yet, a whole entire wellness industry is built around it. Is it any wonder why you ask yourself if your desires are selfish or God given?

Let me give you a wholly new perspective, the perspective of LOA, and of the TRUE ancient teachings.

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Now that you can see how pervasive this judgment culture is every day, (for example the other day, someone left a comment under my video on Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras chapter Three, the chapter that is exclusively dedicated to manifesting, the chapter that most spiritual Gurus breeze by as if it doesn’t even exist, and this die hard person claimed that those are NOT the right Sutra’s.)  … Well, actually, thay ARE the right sutra’s. The eastern spirituality go- to authority, Patanjali, dedicated a full quarter of his book to

manifesting powers. Interesting….

We are  God’s creation

  • God is consciousness, eternal, infinite, omnipresent, God is the observer
  • The observer is still, constant, bliss, eternal, infinite and omnipotent
  • You can NOT see the observer, because your eyes point outward, all you can see is a projection on a screen of space, this is what is your material experience.
  • God, the observer, is like a lightbulb installed into a projector, and the projector is your body, the lens of the projector is your eye, and the screen that the movie is showing on is your life. 
  • The lightbulb is forever just a lightbulb.
  • Sometimes there is a horror movie showing, sometimes a romcom, but the light bulb is always a lightbulb.
  • You can not see the lightbulb, it is impossible.

But you can become aware of its existence by noticing the way that there is a movie showing on the screen, and you can deduce that there is a light bulb somewhere, in the back of you, the projector.

This is a simplification, obviously, but let’s imagine for a second that you are a lineman, a person, drawn on a piece of paper, like Linus the lineman. I used to watch this guy on TV when I was little, Linus på linjen, was his name in Sweden. 

Imagine that you are him, Linus, and all that you are,  is a line that moves across a line, your eye are no longer three dimensional, but rather one or two dimensional, so that when you look out on your world, your line world, all you can see are lines, or slices of lines. Your world consists of lines or slices of lines. Dots. Everything that happens to you, if there is a curve in your line, is completely mysterious to you, there is a chaotic randomness to the way the line dips and curves.  If I draw in an apple tree in front of you and you bump into it, you don’t see an apple tree, you just see a line, and you don’t know how that tree was suddenly in front of you.  Maybe you draw conclusions of a “punishing God”,  to explain why you bumped into that line, but the truth is that I just drew it in there, and that all you are is a line on a piece of paper, so you  search for ways to explain the mysteries of your line world using the limitations of that line world, and that you will never be able to see me as I am, or my pen.

I explain this so that you can understand that there is a physical impossibility of the human eye to detect certain dimensions. Not only is the human eye, and its operating system; the brain, incapable of seeing the next dimension “up” (which is a fourth dimension),  but  it is also incapable of picking up vibrations that are outside of a certain spectrum

A quick bit of quantum physics, to explain that ALL is vibration. There is no actual matter in the universe, everything is vibration, the double slit experiment shows us that until we observe a particle it is vibration. It appears to be a particle when we observe it. Look up videos on the double slit experiment. 

Bottom line here is this:  We deduce things based on how they appear to our eyes, but it is an inaccurate version of the universe. 

Imagine a few hundred years ago when people thought that earth was flat, their inability to imagine another dimension was even more restricted, we evolved, and we also happen to have something called “the third eye” that sees vibration, and is able to detect what for example the fourth dimension looks like. 

Why does this matter?

Because we can’t see who we truly are, and we CANNOT see the universe as it truly is, so we believe ourselves to be living in a random and chaotic world, where if we walk into an apple tree, I might attribute the cause to be “God’s wrath” or something like that.

People attribute the wrong cause to effects every day and all day due to the inability to see who we truly are.

 We are told that we are “Created in “God’s image.” 

God, we are told, is eternal, bliss, awareness, infinite, all, consciousness etc

This means that we are: An out-pictured mirror image of consciousness. 

We are an image of God, and our world is an image of us. 

Why does THIS matter in terms of our desires being GOD given, or divine in origin?

Consciousness is BLISS, love, eternal, etc etc. Consciousness is NOT equal to striving, fear, judgment, anger, greed, envy, wrath, or apathy and so on.  IConsionsess is: Sat Chit Ananda, (awareness, bliss and consciousness. Don’t skip over the bliss part please, a lot of people do. Bliss is the same as an insane and amazing love unlike any other. 

What consciousness, or God, is not, are all the things that are felt as negative emotions. 

Whatever is NOT Bliss and omnipotent consciousness, is NOT God.  


Awakening to consciousness is an experience of utter bliss, utter perfection, and an empowered sense of oneness.

Our desires are generated by this source consciousness, which has no other way of experiencing pleasure and joy other than through us.  “It” has no ability to have any experience, other than by way of our experience, so whatever you are experiencing you are also experiencing on behalf of God, the observer, the consciousness in you.  

When you rob yourself of the fulfillment of your dreams, you rob God of his/her/its  only way of experiencing this pleasure.

Florence Scovel Shinn says: 

One’s ships come in over a calm sea. So long as man resists a situation, he will have it with him. If he runs away from it, it will run after him.  

This is just another way of expressing the law of nonresistance. Nonresistance simply means that you are not adding in ideas and concepts of evil, lack, unfairness, or unhappiness. “A calm sea” is your alignment with divinity. Divinity is calm, or zen


God/consciousness has no material acting power beyond the intent to give us life. When you think of God as an external force that acts with vengeance upon your life, as unwanted events occur, you are just being like Linus the lineman who is unable to see the cause of the effect. 

The effect is something beyond your ability to see it, but it is not random, it is not chaotic, and it is not God’s punishment, it was a direct effect caused by a wrong intent.

Consciousness has only intent in its toolbelt. Your intent manifests, and so everything that you THINK that you are not manifesting because you think of it with a judgemental mind, manifests, because your intent is to show how righteous you are, and immediately, its opposite has to be created. 

The material world is dual, and if there is a cold end of your thermometer, there is also a hot end. If there is small, there is large. If you manifest being righteous, you are simultaneously manifesting unrighteousness. The intention has to take the plug out of that socket entirely for you to have the divine experience. The thought of good desire vs bad desire has to be removed from your consciousness, or else you will always manifest the experience of both in your own life. “There is no good or bad, only thinking makes it so” means this. It materializes, or manifests as matter in YOUR world, as soon as you think it “matters’, pun intended. If it doesn’t matter, it will not “matter” in your world. (Never mind other people’s world. Just keep focus on yours.) The polar opposites HAVE to manifest, but they are always dependent on one another, being the SAME. That is cold, and will never have an opposite of “hate”. And “love” will never have an opposite of “heavy”. The dualities are the same. Love and hate are the same, they are emotion. Hot and cold are the same, it is “temperature”, light and heavy are the same. If you manifest one, you manifest the potential for the other. Always.

The same thing happens when you manifest competition, if you want to be a “winner” over others, you simultaneously manifest the existence of “loser” in your world. There is no duality in the divine mind. There is only what? Bliss, awareness, and consciousness.  Remove the competition awareness from your own mind, align with the divine mind, and experience the bliss of your win being everyone else’s good simultaneously. The dog eat dog world is unreal and you are not obligated to believe in it. You are forever free to label your good the same and equal to everyone else’s good as well, this aligns you with the divine mind.

Abraham Hicks calls this allowing your cork to float.

Everything that you can think of doing instead of manifesting polarity, instantly aligns you with your divine core consciousness. Bliss, love power. 

Every time that you want to assign a goodness or a badness to your one desire, remember the divine mind. Remember that you are also given freewill to forget your divine origin, and  to  unplug from your divine experience and replug into the illusion, and to fall for duality. 

The habit of unnecessary judgment, in the case of this video, self-judgment,  keeps the thing being judged alive, and conversely,  removing judgment from your mind, takes its lifeforce away, and it will no longer  be sustained IN YOUR WORLD. We are meant to have a garden of Eden experience, and as soon as you learn to say yes to that experience you will have it. 

Remember that God can only have this experience through us, and if you want God to have a good experience you have to give “him” that,  the good experience has to come through you. 

BUT if’ like in the Eastern spiritual tradition, we just pull the plug on our desires, and go straight for the meditative bliss on a mountain top, in other words, you throw away  desire to live, love, travel, laugh, and to build and create, and evolve and grow, you take the experience away from God. 


God can only give

We can only receive.

I see some of the most spiritual people that I know, (including in my weekly group), pass judgment or be self deprecating, so that is how pervasive this programming of blocking our natural growth is.

Divinity and the human is a dynamic creative duo, it is a true symbiotic relationship.

Allowing your cork to float means that you diffuse the resistance, it means to create a space of acceptance and allowance.  It means to align with the divine mind,  as opposed to the dual mind.  

If you have a desire, rather than to say to yourself that it is selfish, say that it is God’s way of speaking through you, and HIS desire to have this experience via your vessel.  

There is a method of making Gods’ desire your desire, and then he makes your desire into his desire, and basically, this is just a mind trick around our judgemental nature, because your desire is already one and the same as your divinity. 

The human body, can not create anything, can not give anything at all to consciousness, and consciousness can only give, but can not receive, in any other way, except through us. It is a true symbiotic relationship. 

Shiva and Shakti. 

Abraham and Sarah. 

Hippos and birds…

A perfect pair.

Consciousness and our human nature.

Florence Scovel Shinn says: 

“God sees man perfect, “created in his own image,” (imagination) and given “power and dominion.” This is the perfect idea of man, registered in Divine Mind, awaiting man’s recognition; for man can only be what he sees himself to be, and only attain what he sees himself attaining. “Nothing ever happens without an on-looker” is an ancient saying. Man sees first his failure or success, his joy or sorrow, before it swings into visibility from the scenes set in his own imagination. We have observed this in the mother picturing disease for her child, or a woman seeing success for her husband. 

Jesus Christ said, “And ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.”

So, we see freedom (from all unhappy conditions) comes through knowledge—a knowledge of Spiritual Law. Obedience precedes authority, and the law obeys man when he obeys the law. 

The law of electricity must be obeyed before it becomes man’s servant. When handled ignorantly, it becomes man’s deadly foe. 

So with the laws of Mind! “

Divinity and the human is a dynamic creative duo, it is a true symbiotic relationship.

In the truly symbiotic relationship, both parties gain an advantage by sticking together.  This is “love thy neighbor as thyself in action” There is no “one against another” There IS NO ZERO SUM GAME. There is no ‘manifest your own good at the expense of another” UNLESS WE CREATE THAT. All negativity is a polarity that is manifested by mental belief in it. 

We are ALL instantly manifesting everything, and most people have absolutely no clue that they are instant manifesting, so they make no effort to control their intent. They think that their intent is hidden, but actually it is perfectly visible in your world around you. There are no secrets here, everything about you is on full display.

Does everyone you love leave you eventually?

That is your self rejection on display, and so on. 

Your intent is your creative force, your intent is all that consciousness has at its disposal. Your intent is your ONLY creative force, and no action is in fact creative in the truest sense.

Florence Scovel Shinn puts it like this:

“Many passages in the Bible state that the battle is God’s not man’s and that man is always to “stand still” and see the Salvation of the Lord. This indicates that the superconscious mind (or Christ within) is the department which fights man’s battle and relieves him of burdens. We see, therefore, that man violates law if he carries a burden, and a burden is an adverse thought or condition, and this thought or condition has its root in the subconscious. It seems almost impossible to make any headway directing the subconscious from the conscious, or reasoning mind, as the reasoning mind (the intellect) is limited in its conceptions, and filled with doubts and fears. How scientific it then is, to cast the burden upon the superconscious mind (or Christ within) where it is “made light,” or dissolved into its “native nothingness.” 

For example: A woman in urgent need of money, “made light” upon the Christ within, the superconscious, with the statement, “I cast this burden of lack on the Christ (within) and I go free to have plenty!” The belief in lack was her burden, and as she cast it upon the Superconscious with its belief of plenty, an avalanche of supply was the result.”

(She calls our divine mind “superconscious”.)

Now, there is a supply chain, that can only be followed in the correct order, and it goes as follows: 

Consciousness (superconsciousness, God, Divine mind) feeds your creative soul, and when it is unhampered, you get to live out your perfect dream regardless of what it is. 

As an example: Apparently Henry Ford , who was a middle aged man by the time  when he had his dream of seeing the car being mass produced and put into every man’s household, received A LOT of criticism. His own dad thought that he was an absolute fool and Henry could have talked himself out of his dream. But he “cast his burden on the Christ within”, he let his divine mind fuel his dream, and if he hadn’t, we could have been a horse and buggy society still. 

Don’t hamper your dream, let God’s pleasure run through you. 

Elon Musk is receiving an equal amount  of criticism as Henry Ford, and if you look around your world today, our cancel culture, and so on,  you can easily see just how brainwashed we are into believing in powerlessness and judgment.  The subconscious program seems real and true to the vast majority of people, still, even with the abundance of these teachings available. As religious guilt trips are removed they are swiftly replaced, at a rapid rate, with political cults, and with an equal or greater measure of judgment. But we can easily change our thinking if we want to.

This program is hard to overcome, because we believe that this is how we become good people. 

That, by complying to the judgment of society’s  current demands, we become good, but actually this is our own mirror reflecting our programmed thoughts back to us. 

Realizing WHO you are, you suddenly  understand, you feel and embody that you are one with your desire, one and the same, like one breathing moving body. This is why it is divinely given. The end result is a realization that we are ALL one, all 8 billion, the whole entire universe, but the path there begins at home in your heart. With realizing oneness with your desire, and that can be anything. 

There IS no judgment, if your desire is for wealth, then the realization that you are one with your wealth is your process, and if it is a specific person, it is the embodiment of them inside of you, in your heart, in your mind. It is realizing that THIS desire is alive in you, and that it is NOT separate from you. It IS God. This desire is  God within, and you are already one. 

The more we allow ourselves to follow this guiding light the closer we come to realizing total oneness, with all. It is the path. And this is why the path of killing off your desires as is done in Buddhism, is a side path that does not really work for most. 

For example, I am manifesting my desire to share my message with you guys, and I have to overcome a baseline personality of shyness. I manifested becoming healthier and a coach, starting in 2007, and in 2016 becoming a licensed acupuncturist, and connecting with clients at trauma centers, and addiction centers, and I had to overcome all these ideas of “that is not possible” on the path. 

But every day I wake up, and my desire leads me back to writing another blog post or video, or connecting with a client, and helping them overcome whatever insecurities that they have. 

I have walked this path myself,  I am walking it daily, so I know the path, I know it can look scary, difficult or even impossible, but I want you to know that if you have the dream it is not only possible, it is Divinely inspired, it is your path, already forged for you. “I go before you and make the crooked places straight”- Jesus

You can not change your desire, or your dreams, you can only refine your mental state. What you accomplish by trying to kill off your inner dreams is more and more apathy, and God’s wish will no longer be fulfilled through you. Your apathetic state will manifest all around you in dreary surroundings. 

You give your own creative power away when you judge your desires.

Florence Scovel Shinn says:

“Nothing on earth can resist an absolutely nonresistant person. The Chinese say that water is the most powerful element, because it is perfectly nonresistant. It can wear away a rock, and sweep all before it. Jesus Christ said, “Resist not evil,” for He knew in reality, there is no evil, therefore nothing to resist. 

Evil has come of man’s “vain imagination,” or a belief in two powers, good and evil. There is an old legend, that Adam and Eve ate of “Maya the Tree of Illusion,” and saw two powers instead of one power, God. Therefore, evil is a false law man has made for himself, through psychoma or soul sleep”

Now for my strange manifestation success.

I moved from my home country thirty years ago,  when I married. I have had family here, but over time, I have lost my in-laws and so on, through their passing. I started to wish for family here, just because it is such a good feeling to have family nearby.

Two or three years ago, in the most bizarre way, it turns out that an acquaintance that I have had since I moved, for almost thirty years, is sort of a cousin, her family, is my family on my dad’s side. It changed the quality of our acquaintance completely, and we both were completely speechless for a good long time. For SO LONG, we had no idea, and it wasn’t revealed until I started to manifest being closer to family!

The fact that you have a desire is proof that it can manifest for you, because it is divine in origin, and there are no limitations in the divine mind.

Let’s get real with the “Velveteen Rabbit” | Manifest True Love with a storybook | LOA

Let’s get real with the “Velveteen Rabbit” | Manifest True Love with a storybook | LOA

“Real isn’t how you are made,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.’

‘Does it hurt?’ asked the Rabbit.

‘Sometimes,’ said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. ‘When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.’

‘Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,’ he asked, ‘or bit by bit?’

‘It doesn’t happen all at once,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.”

― Margery Williams Bianco, The Velveteen Rabbit

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Manifesting deeper love by USING OPPOSITE circumstances | Specific Person |

Ignore 3D like THIS! Manifest your specific person | You put your obstacles there by yourself

Let’s get serious about this specific person LOA stuff, there are so many different ideas floating around, but everything boils down to the simple law of assumption. 

If you have been practicing a vibration of irritation, or boredom, or jealousy, or or heart ache, or anything other than love, then this is what is showing up for you, not the other way around.

It is like Wayne Dyer said, “You’ll see it when you believe it” sort of, but the truth is that you don’t even have to believe, you just have to stop practicing the vibration of disbelief! But when this is applied toward love then there is ONLY one thing that is complete love, and that is unconditional love. We don’t love that way, at least it is extremely rare, nor do we have to. But because we don’t  know how to love, we create obstacles.

We experience the opposite of love here in this physical body because this an experience of duality, and without opposites there is no duality, there is unity, oneness.  There is no way to experience life without duality so without the opposite of love there is no love it is natural.  

Life is also natural, that is, it is of the natural world, consciousness in unity and it is undivided. Oneness. But natural life builds towards unity by using duality, and this is also how you can practice devotion to one God and still gain closeness to consciousness-god-I-Am.  There are increasing steps of getting a little closer and a little closer to oneness, and understanding that the obstacles that you face are not a problem will help you manifest greater love everytime there is a problem.

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I have said before that we place our own obstacles in our own way for our own benefit, but not so that we can learn a lesson, but rather so that we get closer to ourselves. This is more true in love than most other areas, because we go into relationships absolutely unequipped for love. We are not ready for the criticism, the anger, the fights, the rejections and all these areas where we are not set up to handle love we ruin it. Everything negative is meant to be overcome with love, but we don’t know how to practice this. We truly hardly know how to choose the right partner, so it is not surprising that once we are in a relationship we destroy what was originally a wonderful romance. 

We also think that our problems are caused by the faults of the other person, but actually the faults of the other person is our manifestation and it is also our own call for ourselves to generate love from within rather than demanding it from our shadow world, or mirror world.  If you have picked a partner who is able to work through difficulties with you, great, but if you have not, then you can manifest greater love just by your own understanding of how to transcend circumstances and overcome fights. 

Circumstances are not bad, and fights are not bad. This belief that something has gone wrong just because something seems opposite is just causing unnecessary anxiety, or even panic if you ask me because this is how I  have felt in the past. Panic, because there was a fight, panic because they did something that i couldn’t predict, or that  made me feel insecure, or even jealous.  This is just an indication that we are, obviously not, practicing unconditional love yet, and why would we be, it takes a great deal of understanding of the law of assumption to even begin to understand the REASON for practicing unconditional love. If you are new to LOA it might sound like I am telling you to be a doormat, and I am not, I am showing you the path to practicing the corrected vibration.  If you experience any negativity, it is because you have practiced feeling a vibration that is its match, and so somehow, this shows up in life, and very commonly in our relationships. Congratulations because now you can see it, and now you can practice what real love feels like. Does it feel scary?  Don’t worry, this practice can’t hurt you.

back view of a romantic elderly couple standing on the beach
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The goal in love can not be to not have any issues, if it is then you are preventing your partner from being themselves, and vice versa. So loving each other through fights is just perfect practice to becoming more loving.  

Even after you have a stabilized relationship without much fighting, you still need to continue to use the growth of the relationship to hone in on your unconditional love skill, and this is a  practice of scheduling in the planned fights and this is what keeps the spark alive.

You know how great make up sex is, well, you don’t have to have a fight or a break up to have great make up sex, but you do have to keep rising above your irritation, or your jealousy,  your criticism, your anger and so on. Remember NOTHING has gone wrong just because you hit a snag, rather, everything has gone right soo rejoice instead of laying on the couch crying! You have all the manifestational power in your life, so don’t suddenly fall for the reflection, and start believing that the reflection has the power. 

Remember again, this is not the same as being a doormat.

 To continue to deepen and strengthen your relationship with your sp, your differences can’t just go fully ignored, like all  peace, love and happiness, in fact the most spiritually evolved couples on the planet might not even be fully able to do that without suppressing their emotions. Suppressing emotions creates enormous resistance and resistance  creates excess energy that causes chaos, but scheduling in your disagreements for a specific time every week creates stability and a peaceful playing field for both people to grow. Suppressing emotions is basically just a way to gaslight yourself, and you might be prone to doing that already, a lot of people are, but don’t misunderstand the basic goal of transcending circumstances. You are not going to  do this with an ulterior motive, and you are not doing this to keep the peace, this is the exact opposite. You will actually address every problem that you perceive as a problem, but in a very different way, the way that nobody taught us. The way that generates more and more closeness, and a greater and greater capacity for real love.

Keep all fights on a schedule, and don’t indulge in spontaneous spur of the moment arguments, that leads to chaos and resentment, and when you do have your scheduled fight, it is a reasonable civil fight, and when time is up, then time is up, and you have to go back to being peacekeepers again. If you don’t do this and you try to force that immense infatuation feeling to be the only feeling that is fostered in the relationship, you will eventually have swung that pendulum as far as it can go, and it will swing back by itself, without you being prepared for it. You will see people who teach or coach this kind of love relationship, often experience some backsliding. The backsliding is fine, it is not an indication that anything has gone wrong, like I already said, everything has gone right but it is an unnecessary instability. Most people don’t want that level of instability in their relationships, so schedule your fights even if you believe that you are perfect at unconditional love, because I bet you, unless you are the Buddha, Paramahansa Yogananda or Guru Ma or someone, you are not loving as unconditionally as you think, and that is normal. That is nature’s way. 

Some people kill off their emotions and live utterly apathetic, in order to keep the peace, but this is definitely not what is meant by transcending circumstances. I think that it is an easy misconception to make, but you know in your heart if you have built a wall around it to keep it safe. The scheduled fights would help an apathetic person to come out of their safe shell again.

We are utterly unprepared for the feelings that come up in love, because we believe that it is SUPPOSED to be only love and nothing else, but now you know, it is supposed to be everything else too. If it came up, it was meant to be for you.

Some day, we will all be Buddhas, and at that point we will have learned to transcend even the worst of the worst, just like Buddha, just like Jesus, but for now, let’s focus on the smaller offenses that we are currently capable of transcending. Oh and don’t let people on the spiritual path guilt trip you into peace, love and understanding without giving space to your emotions. This is spiritual gaslighting, and that is not equal to manifesting love. 

Your vibrational alignment happens when you stop fighting within yourself, when you stop denying yourself and when you release resistance that comes from not accepting the emotions that you have. 

The magic is  to keep a balanced opposite in the world of manifestation, or it will swing back on its own. People who experience a happy relationship for life all know how to do this innately, but everyone else thinks that everything has gone wrong when you suddenly come upon a natural feeling of all the opposites of love. 

Let’s look at what some couples who were married for decades had to say about the secret ingredient, but before we get into what you should do in your relationship, let’s take a look at what people who are serial divorcers  all say not to do:

Don’t ever be with someone because someone else pressured you to. I got married the first time because I was raised Catholic and that’s what you were supposed to do. Wrong. I got married the second time because I was miserable and lonely and thought having a loving wife would fix everything for me. Also wrong. Took me three tries to figure out what should have been obvious from the beginning, the only reason you should ever be with the person you’re with is because you simply love being around them. It really is that simple.

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Basically the most common reason for why someone felt that they were with the wrong person and their marriage failed was  “being with the person for the wrong reasons.”

Some of these wrong reasons included:

  1. Pressure from friends and family
  2. Feeling like a “loser” because they were single and settling for the first person that came along 
  3. Being together for image—because the relationship looked good on paper (or in photos), not because the two people actually admired each other. (shallow)
  4. Being young and naive and hopelessly in love and thinking that love would solve everything.
  5.  Being in a relationship to “fix” yourself. This desire to use the love of someone else to soothe your own emotional problems inevitably leads to codependency

So what do people say who were happily married for a long time:

You are absolutely not going to be gaga over each other every single day for the rest of your lives, and all this ‘happily ever after’ bullshit is just setting people up for failure. They go into relationships with these unrealistic expectations. Then, the instant they realize they aren’t ‘gaga’ anymore, they think the relationship is broken and over, and they need to get out. No! There will be days, or weeks, or maybe even longer, when you aren’t all mushy-gushy in-love. You’re even going to wake up some morning and think, “Ugh, you’re still here….” That’s normal! And more importantly, sticking it out is totally worth it, because  . . . in a day, or a week, or maybe even longer, you’ll look at that person and a giant wave of love will inundate you, and you’ll love them so much you think your heart can’t possibly hold it all and is going to burst. Because a love that’s alive is also constantly evolving. It expands and contracts and mellows and deepens. It’s not going to be the way it used to be, or the way it will be, and it shouldn’t be. I think if more couples understood that, they’d be less inclined to panic and rush to break up or divorce.

Your vibrational alignment happens when you stop fighting within yourself, when you stop denying yourself and when you release resistance that comes from not accepting the emotions that you have. 

Another happily married person says:

Happily Ever After doesn’t exist. Every day you wake up and decide to love your partner and your life—the good, the bad and the ugly. Some days it’s a struggle and some days you feel like the luckiest person in the world.

Most people will never experience deep and utterly  unconditional love precisely because they think that the “in love” emotions, the infatuation is the love and inevitably, that runs out, and when “it” runs out, so do they. The unconditional love that you long for is waiting for you, on the other side of the negative feelings you were taught do not belong in a relationship. How do you get there?

You schedule your fights, and that way you remove the chaos of the swing of the energy structure, or pendulum, as reality transurfing calls it. You fight on Thursdays, between 5 and 6, and the rest of the time you practice rising above.  For example, But do fight fair, no abuse and no low blows. Fight the way adults should fight, bring up your expectations of them, and hear them out on their expectations. Make your demand, and accept their demands. 

Why do you have to tell them your demands and expectations and listen to theirs? Because it teaches you both respect. One person who is succeeding at marriage says:

My husband and I have been together 15 years. I’ve thought a lot about what seems to be keeping us together, while marriages around us crumble (seriously, it’s everywhere . . . we seem to be at that age). The one word that I keep coming back to is “respect.” Of course, this means showing respect, but that is too superficial. Just showing it isn’t enough. You have to feel it deep within you. I deeply and genuinely respect [my husband] for his work ethic, his patience, his creativity, his intelligence, and his core values. From this respect comes everything else—trust, patience, perseverance (because sometimes life is really hard and you both just have to persevere). I want to hear what he has to say (even if I don’t agree with him) because I respect his opinion. I want to enable him to have some free time within our insanely busy lives because I respect how he spends his time and who he spends time with. And, really, what this mutual respect means is that we feel safe sharing our deepest, most intimate selves with each other.

How do you suppose you ever get to this level of respect if you are afraid to tell them what you want, and if you are afraid to hear them out about what they want?

Another man who has been happily married for decades says:

Respect yourself and your wife. Never talk badly to or about her. If you don’t respect your wife, you don’t respect yourself. You chose her—live up to that choice.

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Now, for everyone who have lost themselves in the circumstances, and simply can’t find the way to rise above:

Let’s recreate the first moment you fell in love, or create for the first time, if you have never fallen in love, and let’s create love at first sight.

This is the magic, but REMEMBER,  it has to keep a balanced opposite in the world of manifestation, or it will swing back on its own.

 You find excuses to be together all the time,

You finish each other’s sentences, you  feel so  safe, so grounded and secure.

You think of your sp often and you think things like “Oh, he would love this” or “I think I’ll get this for her“.

You feel like warm sunshine on bare skin, you feel like the freshness of the air is enlivening, you notice birds when they chirp, people seem so happy to you and when you see a couple holding hands you get warm inside and think of your sp,

Being in love is emboldening, and you know how to express your feelings of adoration with confidence.

Being in love feels like you want to give all of yourself to your specific person.

It feels like you’re a more whole version of yourself, not because you weren’t whole before, but because now you’ve met someone who reminds you, constantly, through their actions, words, and energy, that you are worthy of love, this is your person and you know it. 

Being  in love feels like you have a better understanding of yourself and of the world. 

You know that your specific person will guide you closer to your purpose, and  support you in your endeavors.

Being in love is  equal giving and receiving of acts of kindness, of generosity, of your very best self, you don’t hold back your respect or admiration or adoration, and you receive the same in full measure. 

Being in love is calming and satisfying it is thrilling, a little scary, and exciting.

It is unknown and  you feel  vulnerable.

You can’t wait to see the person, and they are  feeling the same thing back.

You can see that their eyes light up with joy from seeing you.

When you meet them the first time there is an instant stirring in your soul, it is an instant knowing on a  soul level, and you think to yourself, “Here he is!“, or “here she is”.

It’s fun, it’s funny, it’s sensual, it is sexual and it’s a magical, it is sweet and it is tender, and it is a  sacred connection no other soul can ignite within you.

You know that everything could go wrong, but here you are, being vulnerable and falling in love anyway. Loving in spite of it all. You are brave and take steps you wouldn’t do for anyone else.

Falling in love feels like  a bubble around you, and it protects you from the regularness of life, inside the bubble, magic takes place. 

Basics of manifesting | Neville Goddard | Changing the quality of desire to an intention and a choice


How you manifest one thing Is how you manifest all things, I know this has been debated, but I will show you what I mean, so that you can bring home ALL your desires.

How you manifest one thing is how you manifest all things
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To better understand you have to know first of all that YOUR self image tells the story of how you see yourself AND how you see yourself informs you of what choices you are allowed to make.

I will give you an example:

if you are 600 pounds and can not get out of bed your story and self image will inform you of what you are allowed to choose in life, and only if you,

a. conform to your preprogrammed beliefs that can you make different choices

b. change your preprogramming and decide that the programming world of pendulums will conform to you, that you can make different choices.

It might seem to you that you are trapped in that body of beliefs, but that is not the case, if you are unable to manifest chances are that you have not allowed yourself to make the choice to have yet 

How you see yourself is how you act

it is propelled by invisible motivators

Most people have absolutely no clue of what their motivators are.

One example i narcissists that are propelled by fame and recognition

some people with other labels and letter are propelled by the one true love

others with yet other label are driven by solitude and safety

Some people are propelled by honor.

You might not  know what your motivating propeller is and that  is okay, that is not my point, because  you can bridge this gap anyway, but if you do know, you can replicate this motivator by superimposing it on your desire.

How you see yourself self-generates your internal visions of your future, and these subconscious visions determine how you act. This is our autopilot imaginal scenes so to speak.

Psychology will have you believe these labels, and that “society creates you” but manifesting is not bound to a single earthly thing, so you are free to transcend all of this with a simple decision to have. That every human is a product of suffering and reward, and as an adult that reward behavior is still your propeller, BUT this is exactly the programming that you are free to reprogram. If we chose NOT to, we are in fact nothing but a product of upbringing. You have free will, and it si to be used for the purpose of blazing your own trail.

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One of the biggest problem areas in making a decision to have,  that I see, is with SP, but it can happen in any area, for anyone, and the example of the 600 pound person is perfect because you will finally understand the difference between desire and making a choice.

If you want to lose weight, and you go on various diets, you try a cabbage diet, or you try the keto, and then after a week or thirty days you give up, and then you try a different method then you have not made the choice yet. It is a half assed decision, but that is called indecision, and indecision is a handbrake on manifesting. YOu have to let the handbrake up, to go forward, you have to make the choice. Once you make the choice that you want to be healthy FOR LIFE, the weight starts to come off. You have suddenly decided to be a different person, a healthy person, someone who sees the self differently, and this lifestyle change is what the people who manifest sps donät do. You might even be asking questions like “how do I DO self love so that I can get….” this is not a one hundred percent commitment to yourself, this is a half commitment, it is indecision, and it is NOT a choice. It is what we do when we have NOT decided yet. Oh I’ll try this fad for a minute and then I’ll see. NO it has to become a choice for you. I love this person, there are no other feelings allowed in me, no other options exist, it is a turning point, and a 100 percent commitment, and this is called a life choice,not a fad. Nothing that you do until you “get” them and then stop. This is a new you. 

“And Elijah came near to all the people and said, “How long will you go limping between two different opinions? If the Lord is God, follow him.”

 “But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.”

I used to treat patients for pain, and I would often assign them a one year practice with yoga if the situation warranted, and then after that,  a ten year practice, and why would I do that? It  is because most people try yoga one or two or three  times and then say that it didn’t work. 

IT didn’t work.

Sound familiar?

Have YOU said that about your manifesting.

There is NO IT that works, it is YOU that works. Either you make a design or you are in indecision. One or the other, and as soon as the design is made, your whole mindset shifts, you fear and worry disappears and your mind frees up and aligns with who you are, and suddenly the hunches start to flow. Suddenly you are ALLOWED to take the right actions.

It is a change that you make for life. A new life. How you see yourself informs you of the choices that you CAN make in life. CAN you choose to be with the one you love? If not, why is that? Because you feel guilt or shame, and that you are not worthy.

  1. We get what we choose, not what we wish.
  2. We make the choice by intention, not by desiring.
  3. You have to choose to not be your own enemy, by declaring yourself to be the chosen one.

How do you change the quality of your beliefs, so that your desire becomes your choice?

The whole universe is pure vibration, and particles and matter do not exist, in its truest sense. Only vibrations are real, even a seemingly solid object like a mountain can be examined on a vibrational level, and this is how quantum entanglement works. Our mental states are also vibrational, and we align with certain “states” energetically.

The energy of desiring is different from the energy of having made a choice, a decision, or an intention.  

AND Each soul has its own individual paths of unique truth and alignment  (the path of complete self-realization). 

To get there, you need to stop your attempts of being like someone else, stop attempts of repeating another person’s scenario, and to recognize the magnificence of your own individuality. You have to be daring to turn your mind to your unique soul. Do not be afraid to break stereotypes of pendulums that scream: “do as I do” and “be like everyone else.”

Changing a desire to a choice is as much a renunciation of who you are NOT, as it is a decision to have.  False modesty, guilt and shame and inferiority complexes keep us from making the decision to have because we have fallen for criticism by manipulators that we have to “pay” for what we desire. The only payment that we actually have to make, is with an equal energy, so if you are resisting making the intent to have, and staying in the desire and in th  wish unfulfilled, you will pay accordingly with an equal energy of unworthiness or  punishment. Only you can choose that you are worthy, and that you don’t have to pay for any imaginary crimes, and for you to stop paying you have to make the decision to have.

I want to give you a personal story to illustrate the shift from wishes to choice. I used to live in a different town, and I liked it fine there, but in 2015 a massive increase in homelessness hit, and a skid row was built in just two short months. Boxes, tents, tarps lined the sidewalks, and drugs and protitution and deaths increased. Initially I sort of wanted to fix the problem, I wanted to be active in my community in solving this, but one day, I just woke up and realized that sometimes these problems never get solved and then I would spend my whole life surrounded by a dangerous, ugly and depressing skid row. I decided to move.

I thought about where to go, and I decided where I wanted to live, and it was in one of the most expensive and popular zip codes. It was out of my price range, but the decision was made, and my mental energy shifted from problem solving, and wishing things were better, to a choice. The skid row did not bother me anymore, my sight was set higher, and I got what I wanted. This is the difference. The freeing up of the mental energy that is misguided while you are desiring, wishing and hoping, makes the manifestation fall in your lap. This happens because now you are suddenly aligned with YOUR truth. This whole time, I had never truly enjoyed the city where I lived, not an outright dislike perhaps, until the skid row popped up, but after I decided to move, I made the decision to love where I lived, and this choice changed my vague indecisiveness into an intention.

The soul of each and every person has a unique individual set of attributes that characterize it, and your uniqueness is also your purpose. Your purpose is NOT to play small. Decide now that you are worthy.

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Imagine the story about David and Goliath, how little David is up against a giant. You might be up against a giant, and if you are, you have to decide now, that you are able. That God supplies what you are lacking. David was too small to win, but he won nonetheless, and this is the result of a choice. I will go and fight the giant, in spite of what your circumstances are telling you, you have what it takes to achieve your desire, this is built into us. The desire and its fulfillment is buried in the same seed and our job is merely to accept that the desire belongs to us, and that we are worthy. 

Imagine eons ago, when humanity were cavemen, or even before that. We existed on a level of consciousness similar to animals, on instinct mostly. Imagine now if we had questioned and second guessed every desire, every pang of hunger and every lust for sex, we would have died out. The same is still true today, our desire drives evolution forward and continues our existence, but beyond that, it also drives us closer and closer to realizing our true identity as godself. Without desire, we don’t go through the natural human steps of evolution, and we go extinct. We are here for a simple reason, to receive. Decide NOW that you are worthy.

Imagine that the stories of the Bible are actually telling you to go big or go home, and try to see these stories  in a new light. Imagine for example that the story of Joseph in the well is a story about a bridge of events, towards his purpose, becoming king.  This is the most epic bridge of events ever, and throughout, Joseph never questions the rightness of his path. He is betrayed by his envious brother, thrown in a well, sold as a slave, betrayed again by whats her name, and on and on the story goes, but one day, he is made King, and one day, he gets to host his brothers who now need him. He remains calm and unattached to both guilt, shame, pride, ego and everything else that is an energetic deviance from the INTENT TO RECEIVE. Be like Joseph,  when someone tries to make you feel guilt. Be like Joseph when your own mind tries to make you feel guilt. Your desire is put into your heart, don’t talk yourself out of it, keep speaking validation to your heart. Declare now that your desire is a decision. A choice and an intent. This releases the miracle into your life, it belongs in your life, but our fear and manipulations, and our false belief that there is some kind of hoop you have to jump through to become deserving reduces this miracle to a mere magic trick. The fruit of your decision to have, is good, and the fruit of your indecision is lack.

Are you holding yourself back from your desires because your “you are up against a giant” or  “your 12 older brothers have told you that you are insignificant?”  Are you  stuck in the well right now, or a slave to the Pharao

What is enslaving your mind?

 And what imaginary crimes are you feeling guilty about? This guilt is stopping you from making the decision of turning a desire into an intent.  Into a choice.

In james 4 it says:

You do not have because you do not ask God. 

When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives

The wrong motive is for example, “the fad diet” that I used in the beginning to illustrate, it is a fake choice, a noncommittal choice

You need to make a 100 percent choice that THIS is what I want, this is my choice, and let go of manipulation, let go of half choices, let go of  “i’ll do it for a day and if it doesn’t work it means this doesn’t work”

It only works  when you decide that this is your choice.

In Taoism, manifesting is called “ effortless effort” but it only becomes effortless once you free up your mental energy by making the choice, because the mental energy that it takes to argue for your limitations is enormous. It eats up most of your energy.

The world might tell you that you are a byproduct of the situation you are in,  but don’t buy into it, you are not, you are a product of your own imagination. 

Free your imagination from its prison by making the choice to have.

Are you just asking for a little bit better than the misery that you are in? 

Are you tempering your heart’s desires so that you can shrink it down,  so that you CAN  “believe”?  This is a mental adjustment of the true desire, which comes from the heart. Keep your mental limitations away from your heart space.   Our minds are not capable of figuring out the inner workings of how desires are ultimately fulfilled, so all the mind  does is put resistance and time in the way.  This is how we create our own obstacles.  Of course there are no actual obstacles, only what we created from our disbelief.

This mental tempering of desire is NOT why you are here, your purpose, or multitude of purposes, has nothing to do with what is or isn’t possible, but only with what “sparks joy”.  Simply put, you are here to BE YOU, all out, not ashamed to ask. We are told; ASK, and you shall receive, but then we don’t ask…You have not because you ask not.  Instead we stack all the reasons against ourselves for why we should not have what we clearly know that we are wishing, hoping and dreaming for.   Does the wish disappear because you are afraid to go for it?  No.   If anything it gets even stronger.   You do NOT have to drop everything and throw yourself head first into a potentially failing endeavor, no, again we are told ASK. Ask, and it is given. So ask already. This implies absolutely NO ACTION on your part, just an intent to receive.   We love to play it small, it suits our ego’s, strangely enough. “Oh I could never” …. “I am so much more humble and unassuming than that”.  Playing it small is the opposite of humble, and it is caused by an original feeling of guilt. This guilt is false, and you are worthy. Decide now that you are worthy.

When negative events happen we tend to “run and hide”  immediately, so quick to believe that something “isn’t meant to be”, but remember Joseph then, in those times when you seem to fail, when you have made your choice, and you run into difficulties.  The difficulty is part of your path, decide now that it is there to create a new skill in you, overcome it and stay on your path.

My stepdad comes to my  mind. It was  in the late 80s I think.   He came home from work one day, he was an engineer, he had a great job, with a great salary.  Little did I know that he had harbored a greater dream inside of him, a vision of something a little different…He came home one afternoon, with the news that he had been laid off. A great silence immediately settled as we stared at him with serious faces. To our surprise,  instead of disappointment, he shouted for joy, and he did one of those cartoon jump kicks that showed us clearly that this is actually  what he wanted.  I thought he might have a psychotic break for a moment, but it quickly became obvious that he had bigger plans for life and this was the opportunity he had been waiting for, and what followed was his path to business ownership and making six figures, and then seven figures. A perfect bridge of events. The work that he put into growing his business was significant, and he did it with an energy that I didn’t know he had.

Have faith the size of a mustard seed and you will bring this home.

 “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. “ -Jesus

Do you believe that you have to script, that you have to do affirmations? That if you miss a day of doing your methods “it” will fail? It doesn matter if you fail every day in your methods there is NOT ONE SINGLE THING that you can DO.  You do not DO, you make the choice, the choice is the faith the size of the mustard seed. You do not know the way, you do not know the how, this is embedded into your choice the same way that the mustard plant is embedded into the seed. It does not matter if you can’t see what you should do next, because soon enough your path unfolds before you, and that is when you know the next step. If the next step seems wrong to you, the giant is to big, or your twelve brothers to mean, then YOU are the one who is stopping your own manifestation. Make the choice to have, and then go. Whatever comes your way next is part of your path so don’t cave in just because it LOOKS to you like a failure.

The mustard seed has to break when it sprouts, maybe the seed believes momentarily that it has failed. Maybe it hurts to break. Maybe it fears that it is over, and it will never become anything after all.   Moments later it sprouts, but the seed did not know that, this is the path that it would take. Your choice will put you on the path of your new timeline, and don’t be afraid of your new timeline.

Feeling is the secret

“Be careful of your moods and feelings, for there is an unbroken connection between your feelings and your visible world.”

— Neville Goddard

This quote breaks the stereotypes that many try to perpetuate about Neville’s teachings. Clearly he recognizes the importance of feelings and emotions, he states in no uncertain terms. What you allow yourself to indulge in, is essentially “what you think matters” and if you think it matters the transformation into your world is a fact.

How do you react to the events in your life? 

Correct yourself if you have been a drama queen until now. How do you react when you are in a storm, small or big?

Experiment by taking the tiger by the tail, using a conceptual idea of  “you and your world”.

Because YOU are both the image and the reflection, you can use your reflection to your advantage, by using an idea of “Me and my world are …..” 

For example, “me and my world are going to make this video”, or “me and my world are going to get ready for work”, “me and my world are going to get on the subway:” begin to  use this concept throughout the day,  every day for one week. 

Even go so far to put it on the calendar so that you don’t forget. Put reminders for yourself throughout the day so that whatever you are doing when the reminder goes off, you can take inventory, “me and my world are preparing for this meeting”.   I  want you to get used to being in control  of your creation, understand where you begin and end, understand that you are bigger than just your body.   After this  routine  starts to become a habit,  incorporate your intentions into it, that is, your choices.   Your manifestations.  If you desire to be a famous rockstar, then “ me and my world are becoming a famous rockstar”  or  if you are manifesting a new house “ Me and my world are buying a house”.   You can do both the end result, and the process there, it is fine to interchangeably say “are” and “becoming”.  “Me and my world are getting married” and  “Me and my world are happily married”  can both be used.

This is informing your nervous system of a definite qualitative change within you.  You know that you create your world, so you are comfortably commanding it.  Furthermore, your desire is no longer a mere hope, wish, or daydream, it is now a decision.   As a decision,  for you, the CEO of your life,  it will happen because that is how decisions  play out.  A decision is an obvious step towards fulfillment. A decision HAS to be made, no matter how small.  A decision if it will be chicken or burgers for dinner HAS to be made, otherwise there will be no dinner. I decided to eat taquitos for dinner. That means sometime today I’ll pick up some salsa and some guacamole from the store, so that I have everything I need to make dinner. This is a decision, a choice, and as such it will happen. You don’t need to maintain or persist in the feeling of desire, it will come and go naturally, maybe as you think about dinner you get a little hungry and you look forward to it, but you don’t force this. This type of desre has changed energetic quality, and this brings it home, it is aligned with anticipation, not hopeless daydreaming. You don’t have to worry about the traditional  LOA conundrums such as DO I DROP IT OR DO I PERSIST??  You have made a decision.   A decision comes to pass.

THIS simple shift will make a BIG difference for you.

Neville Goddard Says:

“Determined imagination is the beginning of all successful operation. The imagination, alone, is the means of fulfilling the intention.”

-Neville Goddard

This determination that he is talking about  is the choice, and then the intent to have. It is that simple. It doesn’t matter what you think or do in between, you don’t have to be viding high, you don’t have to be exclusively positive, you just go about everything during your days naturally, because it comes to you through an avenue that is perfectly natural. Everything lines up, and you just make sure to take actions that are unrelated, whatever your day presents to you, count on it being for the benefit of your choice, regardless of how “opposite” it looks. It is never the opposite, it is always correct. Be relaxed in this. You decided already for taquitos for dinner, and it doesn’t matter if there is a crisis at work, deal with life as it comes, it has nothing to do with anything. Everything is lined up in your favor, and we don’t see the whole picture, so sometimes it looks opposite, but know that it is not, it is for you, and it is going in the right direction. Your heart never lies to you, it is incapable of deceit, so going towards your heart’s desire is ALWAYS safe.

“If you will assume your desire and live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact.”

-Neville Goddard

There is more than one reason for this but the most important one that most people completely forget is that your desire happens to be intrinsically linked with your gifts, and your unique abilities. Copying someone else’s abilities and  desires, or trying to be someone you’re not makes you path very difficult,  and it makes us feel unfulfilled regardless of how much wealth it seems to be to someone else. I wish I could convey to you how often people have achieved absolute success, but on someone else’s terms, and they are deeply unhappy. You were equipped with your desires for a reason. Let your personality shine, and decide today that you are worthy. Nobody can be you like you can be you. This kick starts a blessing, a chain of events, or a bridge of events as Neville Goddard calls it, that can not be stopped by any seeming outer force. You can think of it as if it is mean to be even. You are not accidentally given your desires, you have those desires to fulfill your own unique truth, call it lifepath. Your lifepath is waiting for you, already made, just waiting for you to step onto it.

 “Believe that you are what you want to be.”

-Neville Goddard

This quote sums up the belief that you are worthy. What is the reason for us being so quick to talk ourselves out of what we actually CAN have what we want?   Imagine if we do that to our friends or loved ones? What if you were as negative to your friends as you are to yourself, if they tell you that they hope for something. Will you tell them that they can never have that, they are too fat, too broke, too ugly or too stupid? No? Well, we do sneaky little versions of this to ourselves ALL THE TIME. It is time for you to celebrate yourself, maybe you are too ub=gly and too stupid but so what? Do you know how many ugly people think that they are God’s gift to mankind? I’m not saying to be arrogant, of course, but I am saying, accept your own greatness by noticing your strengths, and by knowing that you are worthy, just because you are here. Whatever flaws you have that you have used as reasons stacked against yourself are not at all flaws, they are part of you and other people might wish that they were just like you.

“The world is yourself pushed out.  Ask yourself what you want and then give it to yourself! Do not question how it will come about; just go your way knowing that the evidence of what you have done must appear, and it will.”

-Neville goddard

“A change of feeling is [the same as] a change of destiny.”

— Neville Goddard

“Assume the feeling of your wish [having been] fulfilled and observe the route that your attention follows.”

— Neville Goddard

“You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it.”

— Neville Goddard

“Your assumption, to be effective, cannot be a single isolated act, it must be a maintained attitude of the wish fulfilled.”

— Neville Goddard

 “It is not what you want that you attract, you attract what you believe to be true.”

— Neville Goddard

 “Man’s chief delusion is his conviction that there are causes other than his own state of consciousness.”

— Neville Goddard

To accomplish the task of creating a dwelling place, the state of the “wish fulfilled”, one would need to “take the material world and elevate and connect it to God.” This means that whatever you see around you that you don’t like, transform the quality of this in your imagination until it becomes like the fulfilled desire, and this is the same as “elevating and connecting it to God”.

Claim what is yours with the will to have. The intention is the power, and it has to be neutral and free of resistance, not unlike going to the grocery store and picking out items. It is a simple choice and an intent. Imagine if you went to the store for groceries, and when there, you started to  think that you have to ‘have a strong desire” to buy oranges, and that you had to persist in your affirmations…  This is how many approach manifesting. 

Getting stuck in this useless energy wasting resistance mode, drop importance and approach it like a more mundane activity.  Don’t be afraid that it won’t come, have a different plan laid out in case it doesn’t work so that you are not plagued with fear, that creates even more resistance. Make peace with potential failure, and then go ahead and act in the way that most naturally follows next. DO NOT WAIT, you need to take some type of action, towards something, otherwise you create EVEN MORE resistance. Don’t take “false” action, that is don’t manipulate or finagle the outcome, rather take any natural action based on your current moment. 

Dwelling in the state of the wish fulfilled, is the same as the sort of indifferent state of having basically anything that you currently have, in other words, there is no desire there. Think of something that you now have that you previously desired, and how you rarely if ever even give it any thought at all.

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Remove a third party | Law of Assumption | Neville Goddard

The third party.

Because the third party is you pushed out it will help you manifest your specific person! 

It sounds crazy, but this is actually a good thing, because a third party is just like triggers, that help you figure out where the wound is so that you can heal, so do ALL unwanted circumstances help you correct the inner projection, your beliefs about yourself, once and for all. If you haven’t watched my video on how to use negative circumstances to level up your manifesting, it will explain why bad things are actually good things in disguise if you understand how to use it to quantum jump.

The way to manifest love is to focus your imagination on how happy you are together, this means that  there is no thought at all of another person, and no jealousy or insecurity and of course the way to remove a third party is by completely ignoring them.  Maybe you have already imagined your happy end, and instead here you are with a third party, and you definitely didn’t want this. However, This is the path that you had to take to reach your end, and that is why it is a good thing.

Just like all unwanted circumstances, the third party is NOT the problem, you don’t have to do anything at all about the third party. It is a creation from yourself, by yourself, FOR your own benefit. So that is good news. 

You can’t get to where you want to be unless you discover and correct your beliefs about yourself, or your beliefs about relationships in general, or about your specific person, and this is the natural path that you had to take. This is a great time to shift to a better version of yourself, and this is a leveling up process that is necessary to embody for all manifesting, regardless of what it is or how long you have been doing this. Using negative circumstances in your favor is everything!

Ultimately, you will find yourself in a relationship where you don’t even remember anything about a third party, and your assumption should be there now, and that means that you have to not care about anything that is taking place right now, because ultimately, you won’t even remember it. 

(When I met my husband he was dating several other women, but I didn’t think about it. I didn’t care, I just accepted what he said and a week later he dumped them all).  I was not at all concerned, I didn’t care what he was doing when I wasn’t around, and he shaped himself up on his own accord.  When you don’t care about something it is SO EASY  to manifest because it is easy to let go. Letting go is when the manifestation can begin to materialize.  But because you think that everything has gone wrong when you end up broken up, and with a third party,  you care excessively, you are in pain, and you do everything BUT let go, and you certainly care.

We live in an assumed reality, so you created this third party by your assumptions, and now going forward you will avoid the creation of competition. There is no competition because there is only you, you are in competition with yourself, which is silly.  Your true nature is divine, and your divine nature is everything, oneness.  The identity you have assumed is not set in stone, it is changeable and it is meant to change, to grow, to level up, and to harmonize with your whole creation. You might think that it is too hard to just accept that this is your creation, and to create a completely different version of yourself that does not create third parties but think of how many times you have changed already in your life. You changed from child to adult and went through a whole teenage awkward phase in between, and yet here you are completely different from the child you once were.  I’m not saying that you are going to change, you are divine, remember, so you are perfect the way you are, but you are going to harmonize more with your inner self, and with your projection, which is YOUR creation. 

Choosing to embody the state of already being in a stable and harmonious relationship, means a complete and total disregard for a third apart, they don’t matter, so don’t think about them. If you want to create a reality where this is true, you have to embody it now. Choose your end result at a point where you are completely happy and at peace, don’t chose an end where they have to apologize and beg on their knees to get you back, (now that might happen, but this is not the outcome), and it does not embody the end state of stable, happy and harmonious love so that is not a guaranteed part of your manifestation. The parallel reality that you end up in is not a full manifestation of what you desire, if you only focus on an apology, because you are still in the same mentality, the same state of mind, the same parallel reality. The reality where you don’t have competition doesn’t remember anything about a break up or a third party that is painful or upsetting.  Don’t get stuck on an apology.

The reality where you don’t look back on reality where you feel anger or resentment is farther into the future, and you feel stability and  harmony, you feel how lucky you are to be with him, and how he feels lucky to be with you.

There is no thought of anything negative in the past, somehow that all got solved to your satisfaction, otherwise you wouldn’t be so happy together.

This is exactly how all manifesting works, and there is no other way.

It is a lot easier to manifest a cup of coffee, or small things. It is easier to manifest just about anything that you don’t strongly feel anything one way or another about, because there isn’t a bunch of beliefs or a negative story backing up all the reasons for why you shouldn’t have it. You don’t feel that someone prettier will get to that coffee first.

This is where the crux is for you and the third party, you have a belief that there is some reason why it is better for YOUR love to end up with the third party instead. Is it better if the person after you in line at starbucks ends up with your cup of coffee as well?  No. 

This situation is nothing but a golden opportunity to clean up and correct your beliefs around competition, and about your worth. Maybe there are cultural beliefs that you have subscribed to, there are many cultures that believe that romance is a struggle, or that pining and suffering in silence is a sign of how much you love someone, and many other weird ideas. There are cultures where men have to be macho or they will be rejected, cultures where women have to be modest or they are “too much’ Cultures where women have to look super young and be socially famous or they are not desirable. All of these cultural beliefs are false and if you have fallen into believing that you will not be desired because you fall short in your one culture’s nonsensical beliefs, then clean that up now.  We don’t know that this is weird until we examine it and decide to leave that behind by embodying a new state. Imagine the cup of coffee cup, if you made such weird and complex beliefs about your morning coffee! LET IT GO. YOU are perfect the way you are.

The fact that you have created a third party is perfect because you can now realize that whatever you are feeling about that,  is exactly the backstory belief that created them. 

Nothing else created them. You did, with your beliefs.

 Maybe you came from a family that went through cheating, maybe your dad left your mom for someone else and made you feel uncared for, unsafe, or a lack of stability, or maybe you feel like love leaves you sad and heartbroken. This is a perfect time to clean this up. None of these back stories are true, and none of them should continue forward with you. 

You are safe, you create, you can create stability. You create and project all of reality from within. You can create something different. Your specific person can be recreated from within as a very sweet and tender loving person who only has eyes for you.

Some people are only drawn to players, and unavailable people.  This doesn’t mean anything about you or your personality, and it doesn’t mean anything about the specific person (player) either, it is just caused by your past input, or programmed beliefs about yourself. If we use a coffee analogy again, it is like saying that if you always drink coffee that is too weak up until now because you never tasted a strong cup of coffee, that it means that you are a failure or that you aren’t good enough to have strong coffee, you just decide that you will have strong coffee from now on. It doesn’t matter at all if you have a weak cup of coffee in front of you right now. Before you didn’t know better but now you do. You were made aware and now your rules for the kind of coffee you want has changed. Before you believed that there was competition, or that all men were players, or that relationships end in cheating, or that romantic love hurts. You can’t manifest a different love as long as you haven’t corrected that state. The version of you that believes that love is harmonious and stable, loving and continuously renewed sensually exists at the same time as that other version of you. Remember my husband who had several girlfriends when we met? That changed so fast. There is no such thing as a player, they only exist as long as insecure people think that that is all they deserve. By the way, I was a player too once, so I know exactly how this state works. Don’t fall for someone else’s version of reality, just know your worth, and everyone else will too.

Now, perhaps for the first time in your life, you can believe that romantic love is sweet, stable and harmonious, and  that marriages are happy,  and are for happily ever after, and that anyone who was a player falls in love with you and wants to change their ways when they meet you. This is Neville Goddard’s EIYPO concept, and this is how you use this awareness the right way. This begins with self, and most people go about this the wrong way and instead focus too much on the other person, and try to change them. There is no need to even try, because if you are the type of person who men always fall in love with they change on their own, if you are the person who a player leaves all their current lovers for then they make the change on their own. This is the right order of operations so to speak.

You want to be the most beautiful woman they have ever laid eyes on, or you want them to listen to you attentively, to want to want you, to long for you when they are away, and to desire to send you longing and desiring texts all day long, you want them to not be able to keep their hands off you, and to wine and dine you, or you want them to respect you and admire you, or to want to get down on one knee. This person is created within you, and is sustained, nurtured and maintained within you too. Build your person from the inside, but most of all imagine how you feel with this version. What do you talk about, how do you react if you see them react to another woman’s status. You have to be the person who doesn’t even notice. 

There is no problem solving in this, you don’t have to rehash the old back story, remember that this only happened so that you could STOP rehashing the back story. That was your own manifestation caused by exactly that backstory that you keep telling. The more you tell it the longer you keep manifesting it. There is no competition, there is only you. That situation is just yourself pushed out. 

When I was a kid one of my brothers would always be in a competition with me, it didn; matter what we were doing it was always a competition, if we were eating breakfast he would have a race who would eat faster, and i was not competing. I ate slow, and I ignored him. He was in a competition with himself, and that is exactly what you are if you have created a life that has third parties, in a competition with yourself, and nobody else is even competing. YOu are frustrated, and you never win. Just be like me as a child and eat your breakfast slowly and ignore them. Ignore the third party.

The other thing that you guys do that you have to STOP, is stop using the term third party. This is the first thing that I noticed in LOA groups, is that you guys have created your own negative manifesting language. Labels should only be used to your benefit, so either you don’t mention the third party, or you call them an ex, but drop the label, because labeling manifests. If you call yourself a wife or husband, then that manifests as well, so choose your labels wisely, and forget about all the negative relationship terms that you have learned in life so far, you don’t need them anymore, only use positive labels. 

As you guys might know I have a history working in trauma healing, and one technique of many that I have used to lessen the emotional effects of a flashback is to turn the triggering “scenes” or the flashback into black and white, and to push it into the distance until it disappears. If you have images in your mind that bother you, you can use this imagery technique, so make the third party turn into black and white, and see them disappear into the distance, further and farther away until they are a little dot on the horizon,  and then disappear. By the way this works for all triggering memories. After it is gone you can replace it with a better image, maybe an image of you and your love after you have been reunited for a while, in an embrace, loving, comfortable, so happy, laughing at banter, or kissing, and make that image vivid in color, bring it closer to yourself and merge it with your heart This rewires the brain to not go to its usual pathways ot negative memories or negative thoughts. Brain rewiring is known as neuroplasticity, it means that the usual activities of the brain have a comfortable groove, a path that it always takes out of habit, and if you want your brain to do something new, something more wholesome, you have to force the new pathway into place. This is useful for everyone who manifests losing competitions regularly. 

Imagine you are the only bright shining sun in the universe, there is only one, only you everything revolves around you and your sustenance. Goodness is simply revolving around you because you are such a bright light.

When it comes to doership, you simply must give it up.  

Recreating your self image, and letting go is the ONLY thing that rests on your physical shoulders, everything else is done FOR you. Accept this as fact. There is nothing to do but to start receiving, and to stop repelling, and you repel by trying to go after them, by trying to take them and energetically force them to be with you, but remember the end state, where you are harmoniously and stable together because both of you love to be together?  

Every single ex always comes back, but if you don’t know how to receive love that comes toward you, you will end up in the same boat again, with another break up and insecurities and a third party. 

 It is NORMAL to be this  version of you, it is not manipulation, and it is not a game and it doesn’t matter if you are no contact. This is a lifestyle change, and one that will create incredibly happy stable and harmonious relationships from now on. You won’t have to go through these constant upheavals anymore, you get to relax and feel like a normal human being who doesn’t read posts like this!

Because the third party is you pushed out it will help you manifest your specific person!
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Manifesting is not a magic spell, but it is magical so don’t forget to add the magical ingredient!

Manifesting is not a magic spell but there is magic to be discovered and that magic is found in your inner connection to source, to God, to eternally expanding conscious awareness and unconditional love. Yes that is all within reach always 100% of the time, but instead of focusing on what we want, we turn our focus outward and react. This is opposite of using the magic of manifesting!

“YOUR IMAGINATION is able to do all that you ask in proportion to the degree of your attention. All progress, all fulfillment of desire depend upon the control and concentration of your attention.

Attention may be either attracted from without or directed from within.”

Attention is attracted from without when you are consciously occupied with the external impressions of the immediate present.

Your attention is directed from within when you deliberately choose what you will be preoccupied with mentally.

It is obvious that, in the objective world, your attention is not only attracted by, but is constantly directed to external impressions.

But, your control in the subjective state is almost nonexistent, for in this state, attention is usually the servant and not the master – the passenger and not the navigator – of your world.

There is an enormous difference between attention directed objectively and attention directed subjectively, and the capacity to change your future depends on the latter.

When you are able to control the movements of your attention in the subjective world, you can modify or alter your life as you please. But this control cannot be achieved if you allow your attention to be attracted constantly from without.

Concentrate on those thoughts or moods which you deliberately determine. Then those things that now restrict you will fade and drop away.

The day you achieve control of the movements of your attention in the subjective world, you are master of your fate.

You will no longer accept the dominance of outside conditions or circumstances.

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The Midas touch & manifesting

I still see a lot of people asking questions that tell me that they don’t understand the law, so, I thought I would make a post of the main things that have nothing to do with LOA!

There is NO God or Universe outside of you

There is nothing outside of your consciousness that is granting or preventing things from you. As the operant power, YOU are the CAUSE 100%. What you believe to be true, good, bad, or neutral will be true to you. Period. This whole reality is in a sense made by your own imagination, that is, there could be an infinite amount of different circumstances in your life but only the ones that are consistent with what is in your mind actually show up. Physical reality changes only when you change your beliefs and it has nothing to do with being awarded anything by the universe, or attracting good vibes, or God punishing you.

There is actually NO ONE no one judging you, not God but also no other people even if you experience them as judgmental…

I know that as humans we were raised to see and believe things according to the accepted worldview but it is false, and this is the time to break free from the old world view.

The law is impartial, it does not judge anymore than gravity judges you.  HOWEVER, if you judge others you may also feel judged… You are of course free to believe whatever you want and you are free to judge but remember that if you judge others for wanting their desires… well… Judgment might come back to you, but it depends on your own beliefs! Either way, no one else was judging you, but rather, you created this judgment out of your judgmental state and it has nothing to do with God.

It was just your own state, and that is something you can change.

The law never  judges, gravity never judges, and it rains on the just and the unjust, and the only way that you are judged is if you create a state of judgmental beliefs.

The bible is NOT literal

The Bible, and other metaphorical texts are NOT literal. The Law is based more closely on the Bible of the old testament and most closely aligns with kabbalah, all religious teachings are nonsense if you try to apply them literally. If you do, you will become a neurotic mess. The best way to learn more accurate meanings of the Bible is by reading Neville Goddard and I have created audiobooks of most of his teachings so you can find that on this blog. 

When I teach about manifesting a specific person the only place that you need to find agreement with is within your own heart, and there is no literal answer about this in the Bible because, again, the Bible, is not literal and when the Bible talks about marriage it is an allegory . Some people  refer to the Bible and declare it wrong to manifest a specific person, but again, the leap you have to make is to understand that NOTHING in the Bible is literal and everything is an allegory for an important aspect that you need understand in order to manifest your life in a way that pleases you and everyone that you love.  When the Bible talks about a husband and a wife, (For example: That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh from Genesis 2)   It is actually talking about the conscious and rational mind represented by the husband  and the subconscious mind which is represented by the wife.  Understand that every single time that the Bible talks about marriage it is actually referring  to the merging of your rational mind, with which you decide the direction you want to go in life, and the  subconscious mind which is the impartial engine that drives it home.

They work together in a husband and wife sort of team. The “wife” has to be submissive to the “husband”, and I hope that for the first time this weird sexist nonsense makes sense to you! The subconscious mind has to submit to the conscious mind with which we have decided what we want, because that is what the subconscious mind does, it submits, and the only problem is that you have not controlled your conscious mind until now.

Now you know why that is so important. The conscious mind has to be like a husband that decides the direction the household goes in and the subconscious mind in the submissive way of a wife, always goes to work according to what she is told.

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Techniques DON’T manifest!

Maybe I bring this up every blog , but it is consistently misunderstood anyway, so here it goes again: Techniques are GREAT and I love using some to set my mind straight, but there is no magical power in the technique. It is not a magic spell, it is a placebo. Use it to your advantage.  YOU manifest with your intention, and that is basically it, it is like wearing the magic pants that always have money in the pockets, just keep putting your hand in the pocket and pull out more money. When you intend, just imagine that you are pulling more money out and the supply is limitless.  Some techniques may work for some people some of the time and they don’t work for others but don’t worry about that, just put your hand in your limitless pocket, and pull out more magic, by intending.  

The collective consciousness , universe, and astrological events only affects you think so, and until you wake up to your God state

After you find out about these teachings it is time to let go of old beliefs like this one. Now that you are free to decide to go your own way. As the God of your reality, anything that is happening, be it war, pandemics or civil unrest, is not relevant to you, in the sense that you are personally affected by anything, because  you have left the comforts of the nest of the collective. Now you are aligning with a different harmony, and that is the harmony of your own heart. Whatever the collective consciousness does or doesn’t do is irrelevant to YOUR own personal consciousness and experience. The circumstances of the world that are created by the collective consciousness are always bad, more or less, and will always continue to be so, until everyone of us makes LOA the most important thing. Most people don’t know that they create their reality out of the continents of their minds so yes, they contribute to the collective, and yes, they draw negativity back to themselves from the collective, and they move harmoniously with every event be it good or bad, but you have to learn how to rise above that! You will lead by example.  Other people are alway subject to being in victim mode but from now on you will not. 

 EIYPO Everyone is yourself  pushed out is NOT equal to thinking that other people  are puppets!

 EIYPO Everyone is yourself  pushed out is NOT equal to thinking that other people  are puppets! Or that they don’t exist, or that you are going to try to  control anyone. EIYPO is real and unavoidable though. You can not escape it anymore than you can escape gravity . You can learn what it really means and then use your wits to make something good with that information.

No matter what you believe, gravity pulls you down to earth, and no matter what you believe  people around you are yourself pushed out. No matter what you believe, people around you will reflect parts of your consciousness back to you. No matter what you believe, when you are experiencing the personalities of others, you are experiencing an aspect of yourself that you are unconscious to. If you understand this you can use the image that they show you to understand the contents of your mind and make corrections within yourself, and this has NOTHING to do with manipulating anyone or controlling them.   We always influence other people by our consciousness, even people we will never meet.  We influence them by our beliefs about ourselves and of course about them, and  about the world in general.  Whether you know it or not,  whether you understand it or not, whether you like it or not, and whether you want it or not, people around you are YOURSELF pushed out. Same as gravity.

Circumstances DON’T matter

And in the same vein, Circumstances DON’T matter. This is just a continuation of the last point. Everything is yourself pushed out, so you made these circumstances, similar to a human body that drinks water and eats food will excrete it. Sure it’s gross, nobody likes poop, but you made it, be done with it, flush it down, move on. If you stay and freak out about the circumstances it is basically like taking the toxins you just excreted and reabsorbing it, and then complaining about it. Just stop ingesting yesterday’s news and you’ll be fine. Your circumstances are your own manifestation. If you don’t like them, flush them down and don’t give it another thought. Instead, imagine your next meal, the 5 star cuisine that is what you are looking forward to right now.

No circumstance has the slightest meaning or relevance.  Dwell only in the wish fulfilled, and no matter what your circumstances are they will go away.  Faith the size of a mustard seed moves mountains. You have the Midas touch, everything you touch turns to gold, remember that. There is no need to ask someone from circumstance (everyone is yourself pushed) out to tell you what will happen with your own self created circumstances like: psychics, tarot readers or  astrologers. You created it, stop ingesting that excreted byproduct now, and focus on the fulfilled desire now. You create, and you can do better if you don’t like what came out. You manifest everything around you 100% of the time already, whether you like it or not, 

The problem is that before you realize that  you  manifest your reality every day, you manifested from your fears, insecurities, doubts and negative beliefs, just as much as from your desires. As a matter of fact if you had been doubting that you can manifest, just look at how well you manifested things that you didn’t want out of those insecurite, then congratulate yourself for being so good at manifesting. Put the golden pants on, and pull  out some more cash, some more good things, some more fun, more of the stuff that you would rather see. Remind yourself that you created that because you used to believe those things, but now you don’t, and from now on you will make no judgment on circumstance, just an observation, and nothing else.

For example if you manifested ghosting, just remind yourself that you created out of a belief that ghosting happens to you, and now you have a different belief, that you get attention and respect, and from now on, if someone doesn’t answer a text, it means nothing because in your reality nobody ghosts you. The meaning is gone and now you are free from that old circumstance, it is flushed down, and your next yummy meals is waiting. In your new world, since people don’t ghost you, they no longer will. So … won’t happen in one second, but move on if it happens again. It means nothing since  circumstances have no meaning. You are the meaning, and you can assign any meaning you want or you can just drop it, leave it, and move on, with no meaning at all. You can start this by managing your inner conversations, and when you bump into an old circumstance you have already practiced it inside of you, and soon you’ll get the hang of it. If they ghost you again, you have practiced the inner conversation where you don’t even notice that.

You won’t fall for the illusion again, and you’ll remain calm and confident.

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When it Comes To Scripting and Manifesting Techniques in General, the STATE is the only thing that matter.

If you like scripting then go for it, but don’t use scripting to try to hammer something into place.

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Can’t imagine the end? Segment intend instead!

You probably already know that you are supposed to go to “The End”, and imagine a scene that could only happen after you get your desired manifestation. Sometimes that end is too hard to imagine. Since you have been taught to go to the end, you still try to  push for that. But you don’t know what the end will feel like, so you feel like it’s impossible Let’s say that you have now education, and you are working at 7 – 11 or something, but you want to be CEO at Tesla, but you feel like a loser.

So…. now you can’t imagine the end, because you are busy imagining that you are a loser.

Your imagination creates, so no matter what you want or hope for, your imagination is that you perceive yourself as a loser, and this is what keeps manifesting for you. It is not that easy to shift out of that slump, and if your goal feel so far away, or it feels like such a slim chance, like being CEO of Tesla, you will continue to not be able to “generate an imagination of the end”, as long as you are also imagining that you are a loser.

OR….You might be a completely different personality, a go getter, and if you are convinced that personality wins, all day and every day, and if you believe that education means nothing, but hard work and great work ethics win over a degree, like a yuppie of the 80s, then you can EASILY generate an imagination that might VERY WELL land you the gig as CEO of Tesla. Your personality is as much a part of your imagination about yourself as anything else, and personality is changeable.

If this yuppie go-getter personality seems too far off for you, then you can use segment intending.

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(This is where people get mixed up with not wanting to mess with the middle, but segment intending is not messing with the middle. It is still just using intentions to manifest, which by the way is the simplest and quickest manifestation technique anyway. An intention generates an automatic image of the end result.)

To segment intend you simply intend the next most obvious step to take. If you can’t do THAT either, then break it down even more. Sit down and break things down into smaller and smaller and smaller goals, until you are able to imagine yourself actually doing it. Small goals are great goals!. Let’s say you start with the end goal; CEO of tesla. Now what education do you think you need? What education do you need to get accepted into? What schools could this happen at, is it online or in person? What papers do you need to gather to apply to these schools, and keep breaking the smaller steps into as many small steps as you need to, and when there are no more smaller steps to take, finally outline all the steps on a paper. 

Now each step is your next segment, so instead of going straight for imagining CEO at tesla, imagine your next intention, will it be to gather the documents that you need to go to school? Great, imagine that. You can now suddenly probably more easily imagine yourself with your suit on, looking powerful. Each intention will feel manageable now, and a natural imagination arises suddenly. Now you are no longer subconsciously imaging that you are a loser.

When you manifest, you gather momentum, and if the goal feels impossible to imagine it is like you gather up a lot of momentum for collision. If you have no clue what direction to go, a lot of momentum can easily head for a halt. If you know where to direct your momentum you will continue to imagine a smooth ride.

Momentum and intention should match. If there is a tiny segment goal and your exuberance and positive vibration is bigger you will deflate like a balloon, and in that case make the goal bigger, and better.

Adjust your end state based on your belief in your abilities, and allow for this to change from day to day. Try  to not start a battle with yourself because you can’t imagine the end, rather allow for the ease of the next segment. Can’t imagine that “really really big thing” right now? That is fine, so imagine organizing yourself towards the next segment, get back in control, and your state will instantly shift out of panic or looser state, and you will be in a state of accomplished and competent, and oh, by the way, that state is exactly what the ceo of Tesla is in!

Imagine the next most logical step.

Is the marriage too far off, and do you have bad memories of marriage? Try to segment intend, and manifest nice and safe dates where you are treated right, and imagine an end when you are courted properly. 

If you were rejected, imagine that you feel so good that you don’t really care about the rejection anymore because you got your groove back independently of a partner. Then imagine that you are pursued or courted, and asked out. Then imagine that there is a lot of romantic interest in you. It is okay to go in baby steps so that you don’t veer off the road, it is okay to go at lightning speeds too, and to manifest bigger and better but it all depends on yourself and the state that you are in.

It all depends on the momentum that you are able to gather, and it depends on how you can stay the course and not drive into a ditch. If you are going too fast and you do drive into a ditch it is totally fine, just see it as a learning experience from your Godself. Maybe you want to be able to pull this off in an “instant manifestation” kind of way and you are learning, you are segment intending your way towards that end as well!


If you go too big, and your manifestation feels out of reach, you will automatically start to active imaginations about possible failures and all of your shortcomings, and yes, those imaginations are instant manifestations as well. Shrink your end goal to a size that gives you confidence but challenges you. If on the other hand you decide to go bigger, better and more fantastic, if  you feel excited about the greater end goal, your momentum will get you there! Just don’t give up on yourself just because you can’t get a feel for your end state, just segment intend every step of the way, shrink the end goal to a bite sized snack, do that for as long as you need to.  There is no true end anyway, the true end is the next end that you CAN imagine, it is a false belief that it has to be only certain things like “after the job promotion”, “after you own the business”, “after you get married” etc, but the only true end is death, and surely that is not an end we need to imagine lol!

The end can be “going to get burgers together with an sp”, the end can be to “establish interest” in the first place, especially if you have been very a insecure person. The end can be monogamy if you have had a hard time with that before, and the end of marriage is too scary to think about. Go segment to segment, and do it as slow as you need to, because in the end you will have received you manifestation faster, because slow and steady wins the race, and this is like the story of the tortoise and the hare.

Segment is different from messing in the middle, in the way that messing with the middle is “problem solving” and trying to figure out the how.

You can stay in a vibrationally still place where you allow “the how” to unfold, without finagling, or you can segment intend, trying to hammer every bit into place. Manifesting is equal to doing nothing BUT intending, and then staying in that vibration of having intended and in the state of ” it is already done”. (Sometimes there is some amount of problem solving to be done, and in that case, that can be your first segment intended, but commit to actually solving the problem then. Like this: Get a paper out, draw a line down the middle, and write a yes on one side and a no on the other for the problem that you want to solve. Give yourself 5 or 10 minutes, and jot down all the pro’s and con’s and the side with the most reasons wins. DONE.

Problem solving is a skill that many people don’t have, and sure, it does make a difference in your life, and it also makes a difference in your manifesting, because if you can learn how to do this, you can return to “being in the state of the wish fulfilled”

BUT. Problem solving is not manifesting, manifesting is trusting in the mystery that fuses two atoms together to create a molecule. You want a hydrogen and two oxygens fused so that you can have a sip of water, but are you  REALLY going to go out there to fuse them before you drink water? Or do you just trust in the mystery that created water out of atoms so that you can drink?  You need the faith and stillness to manifest, not problem solving.

You need to dwell on the sabbath.

It is already done.

Drink the water. 

Play with this idea today:

How much doing actually belongs to you?

Is there even ONE SINGLE THING that you can create?

No, all you can do is  intend.

The fusing of atoms, you can not accomplish that, no matter how much you plan or worry or manipulate.

If you can’t manifest imagining your end, it is because you can’t give up your belief in your own history, and this belief will change when you learn how to live in the end of your smaller segments. You will change, and you can observe your change.  

There is a surprising amount of old-school new-thought teachers that include action steps in the manifesting methods, and I have read most of these teachings. It is safe to say that Neville Goddard stands out as the teacher who grasped the concepts, and clearly explained that manifesting is a non-action method.

Yes you will take actions because that is life, it is full of living! But manifesting is equal to living in the sabbath.

On the seventh day God rested, and that is us.

We are on the seventh day, and we are resting. So be in the sabbath. Whatever helps you give up the struggle and rest and be still, whatever helps you be in the sabbath, do that. Size your goal after your internal ability to rest in that goal. Remember the only true end is the grave so you get to decide for yourself what end you want to manifest now, if your end is to “wake up happy tomorrow” fantastic, it is a perfect end, so do that.

If your end is establishing a liveable community on the planet Mars, fantastic, it is a perfect end, life in that sabbath.

You don’t have to stay stuck in your old state, you are free to give up struggling anytime, and to be in the wish fulfilled, in the sabbath, immediately.

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