You know there is no faking when manifesting, because there is only your consciousness that is in operation, and you can never fake out your own consciousness.
You were once in a needy and desperate state, but from here on out you will understand how to shift into an empowered state where you no longer have to experience this pain.
Learning how to love from now on is going to be about giving space, trusting, respecting boundaries, welcoming loving gestures with real appreciation.
This is how you manifest love. Real love.