Stop breadcrumbing behavior | Manifest sp

Stop breadcrumbing behavior | Manifest sp

Should I manifest a breadcrumbing specific person? Or should I manifest new and healthy love?

Your questions answered in this video:

You are one with your desires.

You are one with your desires.

Make your will like God’s will and God will make his will like your will

Our purpose here, is to be like God

Many people are seeking for their purpose, and wondering why they are here perhaps, and whatever your direction your desire is calling you,  to do it it is in the direction of your purpose. 

Ultimately, everyone’s purpose is to “be like god” that is God’s intention, we are told that we are created in the image of God, who is all powerful, and all loving, and so on,  we are not created in the image of animals who operate on a system of instinct and survival, not on a system of desire.

You are created as one with your desire, your dreams and visions for yourself,  You are also  one with your INTERPRETATION of the desire, because you become according to your own interpretations. Your assumptions about yourself.  Your purpose is always to realize your divinity, that is everyone’s purpose, Know that the animals are created with survival instincts, and you are created with desires, hopes, and dreams.

Sometimes people hear that you “shouldn’t have any desires”  by way of Buddhism, a thoroughly misunderstood concept, with the misunderstanding dating as far back as the equally misunderstood concepts of the Bible, the birth of Christianity.   This adds an interpretation of guilt for having desires, on top of already feeling separate.  Adding guilt on top of our nature, is the opposite of manifesting in a sense, because manifesting is about adding love on top of everything, including offenses. Love covers all transgressions as they say. The reason for that saying is because that is the direction of realizing our divinity. Love covers all transgressions is the path to becoming like God.

The thing is, whether you should or shouldn’t have desire is irrelevant, because we all have different things that we want, that we hope for or dream of.

You have desires.

 End of story. 

 Everyone does. 

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We have desires for a reason, and that reason is to coax ourselves back to harmonious oneness.  We were created in the image of God not in the image of animals.  Some people call the harmonious realization of oneness,  enlightenment,  but I want to steer away from that term for our purposes, because people start chasing enlightenment as if it was just an experience to have, or a drug trip, and it is not.  

How are you already one with your desire and how is it equal to your purpose here? I want you to start thinking exactly like this: 

The root of this understanding is once again, oneness, and if oneness is all, then your desire can not be separate from you. If it is, then oneness does not exist. The idea of not desiring comes from the shift from before you have, to after you have, that is all.   Example:  First you are hungry, then you eat, after you eat you are not hungry. The unstruck sound concept is this, it is after the desire (of self realization) has been met.   After fulfillment there is a momentary satisfaction.  The reason why it is momentary is of course because we quickly desire something else. If you desire a career move after you have it you will develop another desire for yet something else.  An experience, more freedom, greater joy, or love in your life and so on.  It is our path forward in life, and our way of separating ourselves from our basic biological nature.  Our desires are an anchoring point, that connects us with our conscious awareness, it is like a light that is shining through, into our hearts and minds. Think, from now on,  of your desires as simultaneously your purpose, and as one with you

Neville Goddard’s teachings is the ”light” version of  esoteric, scientific, and spiritual teachings that date back thousands of years, and this  boiled down version that he teaches omits many things,  but the essence of one consciousness is there front and center.  

“The awareness of being as God is stated hundreds of times in the New Testament. To name but a few: “I AM the shepherd, I AM the door; I AM the resurrection and the life; I AM the way; I AM the Alpha and Omega; I AM the beginning and the end”; and again, “Whom do you say that I AM?” It is not stated, “I, Jesus, is the door. I, Jesus, is the way,” not is it said, “Whom do you say that I, Jesus, am? It is clearly stated, “I AM the way.”  The awareness of being is the door through which the manifestations of life pass into the world of form. Consciousness is the resurrecting power – resurrecting that which man is conscious of being.  Man is ever out-picturing that which he is conscious of being.  This is the truth that makes man free, for man is always self-imprisoned or self-freed. If you, the reader, will give up all of your former beliefs in a God apart from yourself, and claim God as your awareness of being – as Jesus and the prophets did – you will transform your world with the realization that,  “I and my father are one.” This statement,  “I and my father are one, but my father is greater than I, “ seems very confusing  but if interpreted in the light of what we have just said concerning the identity of God, you will find it very revealing.  Consciousness, being God, is as ‘father.’ The thing that you are conscious of being is the ‘son’ bearing witness of his ‘father.’ It is like the conceiver and its conceptions. The conceiver is ever greater than his conceptions yet ever remains one with his conception. For instance, before you are conscious of being man, you are first conscious of being.  Then you become conscious of being man.  Yet you remain as conceiver, greater than your conception – man.” 

– Neville Goddard, At Your Command

In the Bible,  we are told that we are ALL SONS OF GOD, so we can know that we are on equal footing with Jesus, and here Neville explains that we are also one and the same as “the father”, that in fact, the father is our own consciousness. 

One consciousness can be expressed as I AM God.  

This means that the entirety of creation exists potentially only, in  our consciousness, and then the question becomes, what do you WANT to express as part of your own experience. If all that is, is your mind expressing your consciousness and what you are conscious of being, why don’t you just choose to be conscious of being exactly what you want?  It is true that there are a lot of experiences  out there in the world, including  that which  we don’t desire,  and so why are those experiences happening? 

Because we accept them as true. 

We don’t have to accept anything as true that we are not fully happy with. Imagine that right now there are regimes in the world that you don’t live under, like communism, or fascism. These things are real, and yet you understand that you are not obligated to participate in that experience. This sifting and sorting of experiences that we like and don’t like is part of how we approve or deny our own world of circumstances.  Our free will gives us everything that we need to have in order  to deny unwanted life experiences, but they seem so real that we fall for the illusion.  Neville Goddard says to accept only what is “lovely”, meaning, give your attention only to what you desire, and put blinders on for everything else.

There is actually no other way for us to return to “the garden of eden”, meaning to live out an experience that is purely happy, pleasurable and easy. 

This sounds wrong to people who are taught to physically go out there and fight for justice, to change the world through action,  but the fight for justice goes nowhere if  we don’t change the contents of our conscious experience, if we don’t possess the knowledge of these spiritual/scientific concepts. We produce the conscious awareness of having to fight just the same as we possess the conscious awareness of being at peace. We are the ones who have the conscious awareness of being chosen, loved, adored and the happy star of your own life, just as much as we are the ones who have the conscious awareness of not being good enough, never chosen, and not worthy. 

An assumption that there is something that we are up against manifests circumstances that we have to fight.  A personality plays a huge role in this, and an ability to resist the temptation to fix everything will help, if you have this “fix the world” or “fix other people” or fix your specific person” personality.  Begin with putin on blinders to faults, and create an assumption that everything works out perfectly without your interference.  Think instead, that everytime you let things work out on their own, it fixes itself much faster.

In one way we are just a hologram out pictured by the one consciousness, and without that one consciousness we don’t even exist. Consciousness exists always, in undiminished form, and sometimes we interpret “becoming” more aware, or achieving greater levels of consciousness as something that is a distance away from us, or some time into the future. Like, if I meditate for 5 years, THEN I might stand a chance at higher consciousness but in actuality, it is always present in unchanging measure. There is one thing, one thing only that changes, and that is how our physical senses receive the light of this projector, or say, how we pick up on the sound of this  radio tower.  It is like consciousness is blowing air into a wooden flute, and we are the notes that emerge from the holes. We are inseparable from this air, this prana, and can not exist without it. We don’t exactly “become” enlightened” we already are, but our receivers (our senses) are filtering most of the content.  We are created this way to function as three dimensional beings, but other beings are created to function entirely differently, still, they too are sustained by the exact same consiousness. The third eye has the capacity to transmit a greater amount of this consciousness, but most people use their other senses so they don’t notice this. 

The light of consciousness shines on everyone alike, but our density of form varies, so we don’t all have the ability to notice this.  A human’s ability to experience consciousness is different from a tree, or a rock, or an angel, if you believe in those, but consciousness does not change.  Either way, the way a human being can become more aware is to follow their bliss. This does not require any particular understanding, it just means to follow your joy, follow your heart. Your heart’s desire. 

To follow your joy, you cannot simultaneously follow our urges to fix everything broken. 

The reason why people who don’t even try, get things that you drive so hard for, is that everything is already ours and the harder we try, we put a block into the natural flow. Sometimes when people are “manifesting” they are just creating delays. It is better to let go entirely. The intention technique works best for people who try too hard. Just exclaim your intention, and then fully let go.

“You cannot serve two masters or opposing states of consciousness at the same time.

Taking your attention from one state and placing it upon the other, you die to the one from which you have taken it and you live and express the one with which you are united.

Man cannot see how it would be possible to express that which he desires to be by so simple a law as acquiring the consciousness of the thing desired.” -Neville Goddaadr

How do you bridge this gap of continuously falling for the illusion, to experiencing the bliss, power, love and clarity of oneness?  You actually have an unbreakable  core bond with God, with this oneness, even if you are not able to experience this oneness at this time, and that core bond reveals itself in the form of your desires. It is the light of consciousness shining through, grab on to that light, it will take you there.  The light is shining on your joy, your relief, your acceptance or whatever emotion is a little bit better than where you are at the moment, it is like road signs have been put up for you to follow.

So in summary, you do NOT have to raise your consciousness, it is already raised. You just have to move in the direction of feeling better. 

You can have a lot of material luxury or physical wealth, if you can have nothing, it has absolutely nothing to do with how the light of consciousness is expressed through you.  Your greatest joy is a rope in the darkness.  The fact that your greatest joy is your transcendence. There is no amount of negativity in you, no amount of anxiety or fear that can block out the light of consciousness, it is still penetrating to every cell, every neuron, and every fiber of your being. If we were totally open to this light immediately from the place where you are standing it might feel like an electric shock or an epileptic seizure. 

In the Bible Abraham is symbolizing the light of consciousness, and his wife Sarah symbolizes the concentration of the physical form that receives the light.The two coexist, always. 

 Years ago, I was listening to my pastor give a sermon and he told a story of the monkey and the jar trap. He illustrated what he saw that people  experienced when he was working in addiction treatment facilities, but he also explained that this is what happens when we can’t  “let go and let God”, as the saying goes. This is the story:

THE MONKEY JAR TRAP

 In Southeast Asia many years ago someone developed an ingenious method to catch monkeys alive and unharmed. The “Monkey Trap” they developed was very simple. The hunter would take a pot with a wide bottom and narrow opening and bury the pot in the ground to where the opening of the jar was just above the ground. In the jar the hunter would place a piece of fruit or nuts, and curiosity or hunger would attract the monkey to reach inside. The monkey reaches down into the narrow opening of the jar to grab hold of the treat, and as the monkey attempts to extract the treat from the jar, he finds that his fist full of food will not fit through the narrow opening! The monkey, excited and frustrated, may scream out as he continues to hold on to his food… but he will refuse to let go of it. The monkey sees the hunter approaching but instead of letting go of the food the monkey holds on tighter and tries harder to dislodge its arm and fist of food from the jar. Would you believe that sometimes people act just like those monkeys? People behave this way too, when we don’t believe that we are worthy of our desires, we hold on tightly when letting go would save us.   The freedom is already true for the monkey, but he holds onto the thing that will keep him trapped. We are the same, we hold on to what keeps us trapped in separation, all the while, freedom is right there.

Holding on tightly to our beliefs in potential loss, prevents our desires if from willingly entering our life, because the identity of the version of you that has the desire, is different from the identity of the version of you that thinks that you don’t have it so you have to chase it, or  hunt it down,  and put your foot on the neck of your desire and so on.  You don’t need to do anything, except consider it natural and normal that you should have what you now desire.  The energy of chasing or holding on is very opposite of the energy of simply  receiving or having.

You are the star of this show

You came here for the sole purpose of creating your best experience, one that pleases you to no end. You are not here to pay a debt, to suffer or to pay your karma, all of that is nonsense taught by people who misunderstand spirituality. You are here to overcome all that. Karma is nothing other than what we call subconscious programming, and overcoming our autopilot program is exactly what LOA is. Using our free will to create, rather than unconsciously creating as if on  autopilot.  

Whatever unconscious program we operate on before we learn about LOA is like a tunnel, and we have tunnel vision, we can see nothing else, but whether that tunnel is the tunnel of a villain or a hero, or the tunnel of a pacifist or a dictator is irrelevant from the perspective of oneness, because we are here to overcome false beliefs, regardless of what the false beliefs are.   

Every breath that you take is supporting the life your own body, not somebody else’s body, every beat of your heart is  just for you,  if your identity is that of a person who has to pay some mysterious debt until you are good enough and worthy it is as if you believed that your breath and your heartbeats supports somebody else’s body, like your neighbors.

You are here for your own experience, and there isn’t a single thing that you have to do to become worthy, because you already are worthy. You don’t have to pay a karmic debt for your breath to be absorbed by your lungs, or for your heart to beat. Rather, you have to overcome the tunnel vision of beliefs that keep you in a state of separation.  The idea of unworthiness is as flawed as if I told you that you have to pay before your heart will beat its next beat. 

The reason why it seems like there is something that you have to do before you get your desires is because you have taken on an identity of someone who is not worthy, or chosen, or good enough and the matching vibration is an experience that reveals that life experience of rejection. 

Tunnelvision. Whatever reality tunnel you live in, it is not truth, as one consciousness, it is an artificial reality that creates further belief in separateness. 

If you want to become one with your desire you have to decide that you are the most important person in your life, that is a given, from the fact that you are here living and breathing. By definition, nothing about you sustains the life of another, let’s say your neighbor, your kidney is not cleaning the body of your neighbor, just you. You are the one who is producing this show, nobody else. 

If you are struggling with a pervasive sense of unworthiness, think about your life and notice areas where you are chosen. If you have friends, nobody is forcing them to be your friend, if you had a boyfriend or girlfriend before, nobody forced them to be with you, they woke up every day of your relationship, and chose you again, and if you have a job, that employer chose you, nobody forced them to choose you. Find examples of where you are chosen, and feel the relief of noticing that these people and situations chose you, out of their free will. 

 Think of your breath, your breath is choosing you every moment. It chooses you, you don’t choose it. You might have got chosen by a pet, if you adopted a stray or went to the pound. You are actually chosen to have every one of your desires, and you just have to say yes to a desire.

 Like the adopted pet, you just have to say yes for you to take it home with you, or the friend.  .All your desires are just one yes away, and you don’t have to force the desire into your life, it is already yours, if you say yes.

You are created by a perfectionist, God, he did not make any mistakes when you were made, and you are a perfect match for your desired career, or for the love that you are dreaming of. Whatever it is, you are already a perfect match for your desire, and it is just you who can push it away for as long as you think that you have to wrestle it to the ground for some reason. Be still and become magnetic to  what is already meant for you.

Your desires ARE specifically yours

There is a story in the Bible of Isaac,  and of how his wife was manifested, a specific wife, not just any wife. She had to fulfill many  important requirements, and why not, we all have our own specifics that we feel are essential.  She would have to leave her own home country, and join him in his, and  more, she had to be  a distant relative of Isaac’s, this sounds weird to us, but this was to keep the Jewish lineage intact, so she had to be a relative, but distant enough that it wasn’t a problem, and so she had to be from a specific country, but couldn’t genetically be from that country, and she had to leave and live with him, so, to find the perfect wife, a highly-trusted servant was  sent  to travel all the way to the specific country, to their distant relatives, and find a wife there for Isaac.  I’m not going to read the story to you,  this chapter is the longest in the book of Genesis,  and is devoted to a description of the process of finding Isaac’s wife, a specific person. Clearly, being specific is important.  Furthermore, the request was that the servant should recognize the right person by way of divine signs. 

You can throw in anything that is right for you into your manifestation, after all, this is your life we are talking about, why would you NOT make your manifestations tailor made for you, and why would you not make the direction of your desires specifically and easily recognizable as yours when you find them?   I only wish all people were taught that this is inherently our birthright, to live as authentically as we can, and to not doubt in our hearts desire.  

Some things take a long time to manifest

It is easy to get discouraged when things take a long time, especially if you have watched a lot of videos that tell you that everything should manifest instantly or something is wrong with you. Everything has its own appointed hour, and there is no reason to get discouraged if you have manifested time delay.

The story of Joseph and his dreams and destiny  illustrate how  time delays, and the bridge of events is of no importance.

In this case Joseph had prophetic dreams at night, one example of his dreams were as follows:   

We (Him and his brothers who hated him out of jealousy) were binding sheaves of grain out in the field when suddenly my sheaf rose and stood upright, while your sheaves gathered around mine and bowed down to it.” 

 Now, for our purposes,  night dreams have the same meaning as the desires within you, namely, whatever interpretation you give it.  This  story about Joseph and his jealous brothers also explains how a “mirror maker”  functions in our life.

A mirror maker is anyone outside of us who we choose to believe in, it could be our circumstances or it could be a psychic or a religious leader, basically anything that we allow to shape our reality outside of ourselves.  In Joseph’s case it was his jealous brothers that helped to create the meanings for  Joseph.

Joseph’s brothers were crazy jealous of him, and every time Joseph told them of his dreams they got more and more jealous, since they interpreted the dreams to mean that Joseph would rule over them.  

In reality we have a choice of how to interpret and declare meaning, we have the power to declare any meaning we want both to dreams that we have at night, and to the dreams that are our hearts desire. We can accept or deny anything outside of ourselves.

The meaning-making rests in the hands of our own minds

When Joseph told them about his dream they were jealous and scared that he would rule over them as a king, they created this reality both for themselves, and for Joseph. Eventually they sold him to Egyptians who were traveling through, and then told their father that Joseph had been attacked and eaten by an animal. Eventually,  Joseph was sold again, this time to Potiphar, one of the Pharaoh’s officials, the captain of the guard.  Long story short, Potiphar’s wife tried unsuccessfully to seduce Joseph, and after false accusations were leveled at Joseph he was imprisoned.  Things just seem to get WORSE AND WORSE for Joseph. 

But, due to his ability to interpret Pharaoh’s dream he was made governor of Egypt, and he wisely rationed the country’s produce in preparation for a time of famine. In other words, the whole country did not starve to death because of him. During the famine his brothers  came to Egypt to plead with Joseph for supplies. They did not recognise him but after he was satisfied that they had changed their ways,  he revealed who he was to them, and then Joseph invited his father and brothers to come and settle in Egypt. 

Throughout this whole drama, Joseph is unfazed and completely aligned with his power, his love, and his clarity.  Everyone else is freaking out or reacting to circumstance, Joseph is the only one who is in his power. Chances are you will never face circumstances on that level of this story, but regardless, the ability to stay calm, cool and collected through a particularly dark seeming bridge of events separates the wheat from the chaff. 

How long did it take for Joseph to rule? At least a decade, maybe more. If it is your desire, it is worth it.

A couple more important points are revealed in the above story:

  1. Universe  is always at work to produce the fulfillment of your heart’s desire, your purpose, it is ALWAYS at work, even when it seems the opposite, and if you trust it even through the worst bridge of events, it comes as a pretty straight forward path, should you choose to rise above every circumstance with an attitude of gratitude. Love covers all transgressions.
  1. Even if other people seem to intend your demise, it will still work out perfectly for you, for your benefit, don’t get hung up on the details or the ill will of circumstances, it is STILL meant for your success. It might look like an evil plan, but it is leading you straight to your greatest good.
  1. God’s desire for us is identical to our own dream, because we are one consciousness, and even if we are totally unconscious or unawakened, we have access to our divinity by way of the dream we have for our life.  It is an unstoppable dream, which will be manifested by  grace, independent of circumstances, unless of course, we choose to become apathetic to our own dream. Make God’s will your will, and God will make your will his will, because it is one and the same, you are God.

I am God

This statement is part and parcel of the Law of Assumption, but it is not always so easy to grasp, and if you can’t don’t worry,  it is a process, and you don’t have to understand this for “it” to work. You might not know exactly how your microwave oven works, but you still can put cold food in there and turn the dial and get hot food to come out, and the Law works the same. It works even if you don’t understand it, and you are one with your desire even if you don’t understand how. 

 Our MINDS can’t always understand everything. We make the mistake of thinking that it can figure everything out, and that it is relevant to our manifestation, but it isn’t. Even the most brilliant mind can’t MAKE a miracle. Creation, at its most minute detail is an atomic fusion, and THIS we don’t have to do.   The mind is dual, it is a function of the biological body, and as such it is not capable of fully understanding the final piece of the puzzle anymore, say, an eye can see itself. AND  it doesn’t have to.

The ONE consciousness is the observer in you, and it is also the observer of the universe. It is THE ONE observer, in all, there is ONLY one consciousness.

“All things, when they are admitted, are made manifest by the light: for everything that is made manifest is light. [Ephesians 5:13] THE “LIGHT” is consciousness. Consciousness is one, manifesting in legions of forms or levels of consciousness.” – Neville Goddard

“Causes do not put the nature into motion, only the removal of obstacles takes place through them.” – Swami Veda Bharati

This means that there is nothing that you, yourself, can truly do, except for removing the obstacles that your mind creates. It is like preparatory work.  Once that is done, consciousness flows.  THE “LIGHT” is consciousness. Consciousness is one, manifesting in legions of forms or levels of consciousness.” as Nevlle said… Understand that it isn’t   you who have to flow the consciousness, it is already flowing, our disbelief is the obstacle, our doubts are the obstacle, our ruminating thoughts are the obstacle, our problem solving is even the obstacle. And why is that? Because there is no problem, and insisting on solving the problem puts the obstacle there. The problem was already solved. I express this as “doersip”, let go of doership.

  • Suppose that there is one.
  • One creator.
  • One consciousness.
  • And that is you.

We misjudge the divinity of all things that we think of as bad, as if some things were excluded from this law of one, and so this judgment upholds the existence of exactly everything that we judge. Remove your judgment, give a blessing and gratitude, and watch the so-called problem dissolve.

When we judge our desires as bad, or when we accept others’ judgment of us and our desires, or  we judge others’ desires as lesser than ours, or too  materialistic, or too shallow, or even evil, we uphold the manifestation of exactly that.

Blessing everything that we judge or fear is a big step for most  humans,  it seems counterintuitive, but eventually, a step that everyone will learn how to  take.   For example,  If Joseph’s brothers had not acted the way they did, then Joseph’s dream would not have come true, or it would have found a different roundabout way of fulfilling itself. Joseph continued to bless his brothers and to give gratitude throughout his decades-long drama.   When so-called evil happens to you,  do you thank the creator/God/Consciousness/Universe for advancing you towards your dream or do you curse the events, do you go into an immediate state of anxiety or anger?

Our desires are part and parcel of THE ONE CONSCIOUSNESS.

Neville Goddard talks about the realization of the Christ Within, which he calls the human imagination.   

“Jesus Christ is not a man! He is not a person, but God’s plan of redemption which must be discovered and understood. To enter this world one must wear a body of flesh and blood; yet we are told that flesh and blood cannot enter the kingdom of heaven. It takes a spiritual body to enter that kingdom and my words are spirit! If I tell you a story that many in this audience have experienced, and you accept it, you too will experience the truth that will set you free. No man can set you free. This man called Neville is simply an agent expressing truth. It is not good enough for you to just understand it. You must believe – not in Neville – but in the truth he is expressing from this platform and his books. If I lie and you believe what I say then you can’t prove it and will remain a slave. And oh, the pain that is promised to the teacher who dares to lie and mislead those who trust him. (Read it in the Book of James.)

I am telling you what I have experienced, so I can’t lie. Jesus Christ, God’s story of salvation, has been fulfilled in me. I have experienced the birth; the discovery of God 

The majority of the people of the world will not accept my story, for they want a person on the outside as their personal savior. “ – Neville Goddard

“To know yourself is the only thing that you need to manifest anything. “To attempt to change circumstances before you change your imaginal activity, is to struggle against the very nature of things. There can be no outer change until there is first an imaginal change. Everything you do, unaccompanied by an imaginal change, is but futile readjustment of surfaces.” – Neville Goddard  

The only thing that differs between us all, between our particular desires,  is really just the level of awareness, or our amount of self-understanding that we have reached.  In reality, that is the only thing that varies; Our level of conscious awareness, and to what degree we understand ourselves. 

Our imaginal activity is generated by our interpretations of our desires. If you want love, but your interpretation of this is negative, that you are not good enough right now because you are overweight for example, then you are automatically imagining that you won’t get what you desire. An inner readjustment of your interpretation is the fastest way to open up the floodgates of your desires. 

Every individual  has the capacity to see the “return of the Christ.   Can you realize your own Christ within? The path is toward your desire, and away from duality of the mind, a continuous self correction. Your mind throws in doubt, and you self correct. 

We are created in God’s image, so we are distinctly different from other species, we are  not created in the image of animals.  We are like God, and our will happens to be identical to God’s will, but initially we identify as one of the animals, that is, a biological creature, just flesh and blood.  We are created in the image of God but  before we act like God and not like an animal,  we have to learn how to  identify as divine, and not as a mere biological being.

Becoming GOD

The way we become God, is by using our free will to align our will with God’s will, (to align with our consciousness)  This is easy, but we are not taught about this,  before we hear about this this   we are more or less aligned with biology, and are driven by our animalistic desires.  We also strongly identify with our bodies and our  minds, and we believe that we can do things on our own. 

The day that we begin to dentify with the observing consciousness within, we understand that there is not one single thing that we CAN do, that all things are done by God, by THE ONE CONSCIOUSNESS, and our only accomplishments when we try to interfere is a delay in God’s work. In short, we push miracles away the more we try to do on our own. 

Every time you inhale, oxygen molecules enter your lungs, and every oxygen molecule reaches the walls of the lungs, and gets picked up by four  iron atoms in the blood vessels, and forms hemoglobin molecules.  This  is the breath, the prana, it is your life. The molecular exchange gives you life a little bit longer.  Do you think that you have to MAKE this happen?  CAN you make this happen?  Just like you can do nothing to make this happen, there is not a single thing in this universe that you can make happen, on a molecular level.   WE are not the doers, and  we are not here to be problem solvers,  we are not the molecule exchangers and we can just relax and let the next breath come.  We  can just focus on the solution, because the problems are already solved. We are here to learn how to  trust that the problems are solved and to dwell in pleasure of the fulfillment of our dreams.   You do not have to be anxious, fearful or judgemental of the oxygen uptake of your blood, and you don’t have to be anxious about the perfect wellbeing of your life.

In so many ways, all ancient scriptures, and newer ones too, try to tell us to leave our cares to God, (and feel free to give the name to God that works for you, like consciousness or the universe.)  The trouble is that we don’t let go of trying to solve our problems, so we don’t let the solution come in,   we try, but most often we don’t, not fully let go, and as long as we keep on trying God can not work his miracle.

Imagine that you are a little child and you have a desire for something, and your mother knows, because she knows you and she is going to give you what you want, because she loves you. You desire ice cream, and there is one waiting for you in the freezer. Your mom has planned all along to give you the ice cream, after you are done with your dinner, this is why she bought the ice cream in the first place, but you are trying in all your childish ways to get the ice cream, you are begging her please please please, and you are even trying to sneak to the freezer on your own, to to take it. In your childish ways you are just hampering your mothers work. She is cooking your dinner, but now she is interrupted with your constant begging, and then she has to prevent you from getting into the freezer on your own. All of your actions are simply delaying your ice cream. She was going to give you your desire all along, and you will still get it, but now it’s taking a little bit longer, all because of your actions.   God is waiting to give you everything that you came here for, but you are out there on your own, thinking that you have to get your desires by hard work, or steal it like a thief in the night.   It is yours, and it was always yours, if you can chill and let God deliver it, you will be not only fulfilled, but also comforted that you are so safe, in God’s loving care.   Imagine yourself as a little toddler who has accepted that his mothers loves him through and through, and that he can comfortably wait for the ice cream, and that he can eat his dinner, and BE SURE that ice cream comes. 

Trust. 

Trust and surrender. 

When you are finally able to put absolute blind trust in God, you will be given everything because You are one with your desires. Make your will like God’s will and God will make his will like your will.

Make your will like your mothers will and you will have the ice cream. Her will is identical to your will, because she loves you.

When you childishly have to have things in the way that you want, you delay God’s work, you delay your manifestation. He will do it in his way, and it is alway the perfect way. 

Or imagine that you are sick and you go to the doctor, but once you are there you tell the doctor what you want your cure to be

You have to choose, either you do the path your way, or you do the path God’s way. Your will is God’s will and God’s will is your will, because you are one and the same, but God’s way is the best path there.  Don’t be anxious and fearful, the only one who doesn’t know the how is you.  The ONE CONSCIOUSNESS has a perfect path already, but you  have to chose to close your eyes to your own path and TRUST AND SURRENDER.  BLINDLY.   If you are trusting in your human power, or worse, in other people, yes, you can fail and fail again, but let go, and trust, God’s path can not fail. Remember that you don’t have to finagle the molecule exchange in your lung walls, you blindly trust that it will happen.

Not a single thinker or philosopher has ever created a miracle, there is no mind that is so brilliant that it can create the grace that is equal to receiving what you are not worthy of, only God/universe  can do this.  You can try to figure things out,  and to manipulate and finagle things into place, but all you can accomplish is the cause and effect of the natural world, only God can cause Grace. This is an undeserved gift of love, and we are all undeserving, but that means nothing.   When you let yourself create your dream in your heart and mind, and  you blindly trust that the way there is already created, you can finally abandon your anxious plotting behind, and just open your eyes to the God given path as it opens up for you. Walk that path, this is a path that Neville calls the bridge of events. YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT THIS LOOKS LIKE. It can look like the wrong path to you. Walk with confidence and keep thanking God for fulfilling your desires.

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Grace

Neville talks about this undeserved gift of the fulfillment of our desires in his Grace vs Law lecture:

“[And these three parts mark the great gift], called in the Bible “grace,” an unearned, unmerited gift. No one in this world is good enough to earn it; therefore, all will get it. God actually expresses to man a mercy with which man is incapable with his conscience of ever judging himself as worthy of redeeming. No man in this world with conscience and memory could ever judge himself as merciful as God does” – Neville Goddard 

The time that you have spent judging yourself or feeling unworthy can end here and now, because you manifest regardless. If you are feeling unworthy, you can just accept that and say to yourself that manifestation is above that, and it will in no way affect anything, and that on a large scale we are all unworthy anyway.

Neville also talks about the delay that we cause when we choose to put our trust in our own abilities rather than praying, or placing our trust in being in God, or universe remembering that it delivers every time:

“Now we are told that we could delay it. That’s why I find it difficult to believe that. But still it’s scripture; the 4th chapter of the Book of Hebrews, “And the good news preached unto us was also preached unto them; but it did not benefit them, because it was not mixed with faith in the hearer.” Now tonight some of you could reject it, and that may appear on the surface to delay your call and it may—I do not know. I have no assurance that you could delay it. But it would appear that rejection on the part of one because he heard it but did not accept it because it didn’t make sense to him, therefore, he rejected it. And I tell you, those who reject it—and maybe by your rejection, you delay your call—eventually you’re going to be called. Because he’ll put you through all the paces of the world until finally you have no power to reject the story when you hear it.” – Neville Goddard

Remember the example of the mother, who always intended to give her child exactly what he wanted, he just put her through extra work before she is able to give it to him, and he did this by his own doubt that his mother was already planning on giving him ice cream. 

When you are able to say no to the illusion.  When you are able to reject your own doubt and place your trust in the ONE CONSCIOUSNESS it is like you unlock another level of a video game.  Your flow opens up, and you are immediately leveled, or  up elevated to a new consciousness level, and this light of consciousness is revealed to you in a greater way. More trust is received by you, and new desires form, now they are a little more altruistic than before, you might have started to see others as yourself, or close to it. Everytime you trust in the love of the creator, you level up. This is equal to what people call a quantum jump. But at now time are you so far removed from the light of the ONE CONSCIOUSNESS that you can not see a little tiny sparkle of light shining through in the form of a desire, a wish, a hope, or a dream.  

“Divine imagining and human imagining are not two powers at all, rather one. The valid distinction which exists between the seeming two lies not in the substance with which they operate but in the degree of intensity of the operant power itself.” – Neville Goddard

You understand this when you have shifted states at least once, and gone from one version of yourself and your world to another. The trust increases every time, and the intensity with which you dare to dream without casting doubts increases.  Creating the imaginal scene, completely free of doubts or questions of how this could possibly come to pass, without any fear of disappointment increases every time you have a success story of your own.

“Everything in the world owes its character to imagination on one of its various levels. “Objective reality”, writes Fichte, “is solely produced through imagination”. Objects seem so independent of our perception of them that we [tend]  to forget that they owe their origin to imagination.” – Neville Goddard

You are one with your desire, your dreams and your visions of yourself, and you are one with your INTERPRETATION of your desires.   Your purpose is to realize your divinity, so also your oneness with all, and we accomplish this by daring to believe in our dream.

The little kid who causes trouble before he gets his ice cream is imagining all the ways in which he can get the ice cream, he imagines if he cries and begs he might get it, he imagines if he sneaks to the freezer he’ll get it. He imagines that he has to take it or he won’t get it.  At the end of the day, he was creating out of his imagination but he also put the obstacles into place just as much as the ice cream itself.  The ice cream was his true desire, but he also imagined all the trouble he could go through to get it.  This is how we are with our GOD GIVEN desires. We imagine that we are not worthy, we imagine less than what we actually desire just because we are afraid to commit to our real desire.  

We want a career that is satisfying, fulfilling, rewarding and pays well for less hours worked, BUT instead we imagine how we can make the next buck, so rather than imagining the fulfillment of our desire we  imagine going to endless interviews, or we imagine NOT EVEN getting the interviews.  Sound familiar? And we do this for jobs we don’t even want! 

Imagination creates, but your desire is already a given.   Skip imagining the trouble.   Go straight to deliberately imagining nothing but the fulfillment of your desire, because there is not one single thing that you can do to become deserving or worthy.   Like Neville said, we are all unworthy but in God’s eyes he just loves to give to us ANYWAY.  

“Imagining the wish fulfilled brings about a union with that state, and during that union you behave in keeping with your imaginal change. This shows you that an imaginal change will result in a change of behavior.”

“However, your ordinary imaginal alterations as you pass from one state to another are not transformations because each of them is so rapidly succeeded by another in the reverse direction. But whenever one state grows so stable as to become your constant mood, your habitual attitude, then that habitual state defines your character and is a true transformation.

How do you do it? Self-abandonment! That is the secret. You must abandon yourself mentally to your wish fulfilled in your love for that state, and in so doing, live in the new state and no more in the old state.

You can’t commit yourself to what you do not love, so the secret of self-commission is faith — plus love.” – Neville Goddard

Our journey through the manifest world of desires towards  more spiritual desires is natural. Even when the Buddha left his wife and new born son to go and find enlightenment it he did so because of a desire, nothing else, no other reason. Our desires take us all the way to union with our consciousness. Without this drive we would not be born.  Everytime we release resistance, another level of consciousness is  revealed.  

Imagine better than the best you know.” – Neville Goddard

All that there is, is generated from consciousness, so if you look out into the world, or you flip through the news, and you wonder how the world can be in such a state, look no further than your own imagination.

 Isaac manifested his specific wife, and the Buddha his enlightenment, all desires are equal.

You are every word within yourself. 

We  create separation, loss and victimization within our minds, and  putting an end to this can only begin with our own self realization, and observing how our desires are made and fulfilled is part of our divine process, it is the very first paragraph of The Tao, to understand how we are one with our own creation, and how to detach from the dependence on the creation.   

The projection of our minds,  makes up the illusory world, and then we believe it to be real.  There is no out there that is separate from their own creation, it is all produced from the inside of us. Our job is to make the outside like the inside, to become like God.

Blessing brings blessings, and judgment keeps blessings away. 

You are one with the creator and the creation, the struggle is made up in our imagination. 

Still, surrendering is mysterious and many people don’t know how to actually go about this final step, and blind trust in the miracles of God is the way.    

TRUST AND SURRENDER. 

 BLINDLY.  

 If you are trusting in your human power, yes of course,  you can fail  but let go, and trust, God’s path can not fail.  

Remember that you don’t have to finagle the molecule exchange in your lung walls, you blindly trust that it will happen. 

Surrender is blindly trusting.

 No desire is exempt from this law. It is yours, there is nothing you  can do to have or to prevent it, you can only delay by your own efforts.

Let’s get real with the “Velveteen Rabbit” | Manifest True Love with a storybook | LOA

Let’s get real with the “Velveteen Rabbit” | Manifest True Love with a storybook | LOA

“Real isn’t how you are made,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.’

‘Does it hurt?’ asked the Rabbit.

‘Sometimes,’ said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. ‘When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.’

‘Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,’ he asked, ‘or bit by bit?’

‘It doesn’t happen all at once,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.”


― Margery Williams Bianco, The Velveteen Rabbit

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Manifesting deeper love by USING OPPOSITE circumstances | Specific Person |

Ignore 3D like THIS! Manifest your specific person | You put your obstacles there by yourself

Let’s get serious about this specific person LOA stuff, there are so many different ideas floating around, but everything boils down to the simple law of assumption. 

If you have been practicing a vibration of irritation, or boredom, or jealousy, or or heart ache, or anything other than love, then this is what is showing up for you, not the other way around.

It is like Wayne Dyer said, “You’ll see it when you believe it” sort of, but the truth is that you don’t even have to believe, you just have to stop practicing the vibration of disbelief! But when this is applied toward love then there is ONLY one thing that is complete love, and that is unconditional love. We don’t love that way, at least it is extremely rare, nor do we have to. But because we don’t  know how to love, we create obstacles.

We experience the opposite of love here in this physical body because this an experience of duality, and without opposites there is no duality, there is unity, oneness.  There is no way to experience life without duality so without the opposite of love there is no love it is natural.  

Life is also natural, that is, it is of the natural world, consciousness in unity and it is undivided. Oneness. But natural life builds towards unity by using duality, and this is also how you can practice devotion to one God and still gain closeness to consciousness-god-I-Am.  There are increasing steps of getting a little closer and a little closer to oneness, and understanding that the obstacles that you face are not a problem will help you manifest greater love everytime there is a problem.

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I have said before that we place our own obstacles in our own way for our own benefit, but not so that we can learn a lesson, but rather so that we get closer to ourselves. This is more true in love than most other areas, because we go into relationships absolutely unequipped for love. We are not ready for the criticism, the anger, the fights, the rejections and all these areas where we are not set up to handle love we ruin it. Everything negative is meant to be overcome with love, but we don’t know how to practice this. We truly hardly know how to choose the right partner, so it is not surprising that once we are in a relationship we destroy what was originally a wonderful romance. 

We also think that our problems are caused by the faults of the other person, but actually the faults of the other person is our manifestation and it is also our own call for ourselves to generate love from within rather than demanding it from our shadow world, or mirror world.  If you have picked a partner who is able to work through difficulties with you, great, but if you have not, then you can manifest greater love just by your own understanding of how to transcend circumstances and overcome fights. 

Circumstances are not bad, and fights are not bad. This belief that something has gone wrong just because something seems opposite is just causing unnecessary anxiety, or even panic if you ask me because this is how I  have felt in the past. Panic, because there was a fight, panic because they did something that i couldn’t predict, or that  made me feel insecure, or even jealous.  This is just an indication that we are, obviously not, practicing unconditional love yet, and why would we be, it takes a great deal of understanding of the law of assumption to even begin to understand the REASON for practicing unconditional love. If you are new to LOA it might sound like I am telling you to be a doormat, and I am not, I am showing you the path to practicing the corrected vibration.  If you experience any negativity, it is because you have practiced feeling a vibration that is its match, and so somehow, this shows up in life, and very commonly in our relationships. Congratulations because now you can see it, and now you can practice what real love feels like. Does it feel scary?  Don’t worry, this practice can’t hurt you.

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The goal in love can not be to not have any issues, if it is then you are preventing your partner from being themselves, and vice versa. So loving each other through fights is just perfect practice to becoming more loving.  

Even after you have a stabilized relationship without much fighting, you still need to continue to use the growth of the relationship to hone in on your unconditional love skill, and this is a  practice of scheduling in the planned fights and this is what keeps the spark alive.

You know how great make up sex is, well, you don’t have to have a fight or a break up to have great make up sex, but you do have to keep rising above your irritation, or your jealousy,  your criticism, your anger and so on. Remember NOTHING has gone wrong just because you hit a snag, rather, everything has gone right soo rejoice instead of laying on the couch crying! You have all the manifestational power in your life, so don’t suddenly fall for the reflection, and start believing that the reflection has the power. 

Remember again, this is not the same as being a doormat.

 To continue to deepen and strengthen your relationship with your sp, your differences can’t just go fully ignored, like all  peace, love and happiness, in fact the most spiritually evolved couples on the planet might not even be fully able to do that without suppressing their emotions. Suppressing emotions creates enormous resistance and resistance  creates excess energy that causes chaos, but scheduling in your disagreements for a specific time every week creates stability and a peaceful playing field for both people to grow. Suppressing emotions is basically just a way to gaslight yourself, and you might be prone to doing that already, a lot of people are, but don’t misunderstand the basic goal of transcending circumstances. You are not going to  do this with an ulterior motive, and you are not doing this to keep the peace, this is the exact opposite. You will actually address every problem that you perceive as a problem, but in a very different way, the way that nobody taught us. The way that generates more and more closeness, and a greater and greater capacity for real love.

Keep all fights on a schedule, and don’t indulge in spontaneous spur of the moment arguments, that leads to chaos and resentment, and when you do have your scheduled fight, it is a reasonable civil fight, and when time is up, then time is up, and you have to go back to being peacekeepers again. If you don’t do this and you try to force that immense infatuation feeling to be the only feeling that is fostered in the relationship, you will eventually have swung that pendulum as far as it can go, and it will swing back by itself, without you being prepared for it. You will see people who teach or coach this kind of love relationship, often experience some backsliding. The backsliding is fine, it is not an indication that anything has gone wrong, like I already said, everything has gone right but it is an unnecessary instability. Most people don’t want that level of instability in their relationships, so schedule your fights even if you believe that you are perfect at unconditional love, because I bet you, unless you are the Buddha, Paramahansa Yogananda or Guru Ma or someone, you are not loving as unconditionally as you think, and that is normal. That is nature’s way. 

Some people kill off their emotions and live utterly apathetic, in order to keep the peace, but this is definitely not what is meant by transcending circumstances. I think that it is an easy misconception to make, but you know in your heart if you have built a wall around it to keep it safe. The scheduled fights would help an apathetic person to come out of their safe shell again.

We are utterly unprepared for the feelings that come up in love, because we believe that it is SUPPOSED to be only love and nothing else, but now you know, it is supposed to be everything else too. If it came up, it was meant to be for you.

Some day, we will all be Buddhas, and at that point we will have learned to transcend even the worst of the worst, just like Buddha, just like Jesus, but for now, let’s focus on the smaller offenses that we are currently capable of transcending. Oh and don’t let people on the spiritual path guilt trip you into peace, love and understanding without giving space to your emotions. This is spiritual gaslighting, and that is not equal to manifesting love. 

Your vibrational alignment happens when you stop fighting within yourself, when you stop denying yourself and when you release resistance that comes from not accepting the emotions that you have. 

The magic is  to keep a balanced opposite in the world of manifestation, or it will swing back on its own. People who experience a happy relationship for life all know how to do this innately, but everyone else thinks that everything has gone wrong when you suddenly come upon a natural feeling of all the opposites of love. 

Let’s look at what some couples who were married for decades had to say about the secret ingredient, but before we get into what you should do in your relationship, let’s take a look at what people who are serial divorcers  all say not to do:

Don’t ever be with someone because someone else pressured you to. I got married the first time because I was raised Catholic and that’s what you were supposed to do. Wrong. I got married the second time because I was miserable and lonely and thought having a loving wife would fix everything for me. Also wrong. Took me three tries to figure out what should have been obvious from the beginning, the only reason you should ever be with the person you’re with is because you simply love being around them. It really is that simple.

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Photo by Shukhrat Umarov

Basically the most common reason for why someone felt that they were with the wrong person and their marriage failed was  “being with the person for the wrong reasons.”

Some of these wrong reasons included:

  1. Pressure from friends and family
  2. Feeling like a “loser” because they were single and settling for the first person that came along 
  3. Being together for image—because the relationship looked good on paper (or in photos), not because the two people actually admired each other. (shallow)
  4. Being young and naive and hopelessly in love and thinking that love would solve everything.
  5.  Being in a relationship to “fix” yourself. This desire to use the love of someone else to soothe your own emotional problems inevitably leads to codependency

So what do people say who were happily married for a long time:

You are absolutely not going to be gaga over each other every single day for the rest of your lives, and all this ‘happily ever after’ bullshit is just setting people up for failure. They go into relationships with these unrealistic expectations. Then, the instant they realize they aren’t ‘gaga’ anymore, they think the relationship is broken and over, and they need to get out. No! There will be days, or weeks, or maybe even longer, when you aren’t all mushy-gushy in-love. You’re even going to wake up some morning and think, “Ugh, you’re still here….” That’s normal! And more importantly, sticking it out is totally worth it, because  . . . in a day, or a week, or maybe even longer, you’ll look at that person and a giant wave of love will inundate you, and you’ll love them so much you think your heart can’t possibly hold it all and is going to burst. Because a love that’s alive is also constantly evolving. It expands and contracts and mellows and deepens. It’s not going to be the way it used to be, or the way it will be, and it shouldn’t be. I think if more couples understood that, they’d be less inclined to panic and rush to break up or divorce.

Your vibrational alignment happens when you stop fighting within yourself, when you stop denying yourself and when you release resistance that comes from not accepting the emotions that you have. 

Another happily married person says:

Happily Ever After doesn’t exist. Every day you wake up and decide to love your partner and your life—the good, the bad and the ugly. Some days it’s a struggle and some days you feel like the luckiest person in the world.

Most people will never experience deep and utterly  unconditional love precisely because they think that the “in love” emotions, the infatuation is the love and inevitably, that runs out, and when “it” runs out, so do they. The unconditional love that you long for is waiting for you, on the other side of the negative feelings you were taught do not belong in a relationship. How do you get there?

You schedule your fights, and that way you remove the chaos of the swing of the energy structure, or pendulum, as reality transurfing calls it. You fight on Thursdays, between 5 and 6, and the rest of the time you practice rising above.  For example, But do fight fair, no abuse and no low blows. Fight the way adults should fight, bring up your expectations of them, and hear them out on their expectations. Make your demand, and accept their demands. 

Why do you have to tell them your demands and expectations and listen to theirs? Because it teaches you both respect. One person who is succeeding at marriage says:

My husband and I have been together 15 years. I’ve thought a lot about what seems to be keeping us together, while marriages around us crumble (seriously, it’s everywhere . . . we seem to be at that age). The one word that I keep coming back to is “respect.” Of course, this means showing respect, but that is too superficial. Just showing it isn’t enough. You have to feel it deep within you. I deeply and genuinely respect [my husband] for his work ethic, his patience, his creativity, his intelligence, and his core values. From this respect comes everything else—trust, patience, perseverance (because sometimes life is really hard and you both just have to persevere). I want to hear what he has to say (even if I don’t agree with him) because I respect his opinion. I want to enable him to have some free time within our insanely busy lives because I respect how he spends his time and who he spends time with. And, really, what this mutual respect means is that we feel safe sharing our deepest, most intimate selves with each other.

How do you suppose you ever get to this level of respect if you are afraid to tell them what you want, and if you are afraid to hear them out about what they want?

Another man who has been happily married for decades says:

Respect yourself and your wife. Never talk badly to or about her. If you don’t respect your wife, you don’t respect yourself. You chose her—live up to that choice.

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Now, for everyone who have lost themselves in the circumstances, and simply can’t find the way to rise above:

Let’s recreate the first moment you fell in love, or create for the first time, if you have never fallen in love, and let’s create love at first sight.

This is the magic, but REMEMBER,  it has to keep a balanced opposite in the world of manifestation, or it will swing back on its own.

 You find excuses to be together all the time,

You finish each other’s sentences, you  feel so  safe, so grounded and secure.

You think of your sp often and you think things like “Oh, he would love this” or “I think I’ll get this for her“.

You feel like warm sunshine on bare skin, you feel like the freshness of the air is enlivening, you notice birds when they chirp, people seem so happy to you and when you see a couple holding hands you get warm inside and think of your sp,

Being in love is emboldening, and you know how to express your feelings of adoration with confidence.

Being in love feels like you want to give all of yourself to your specific person.

It feels like you’re a more whole version of yourself, not because you weren’t whole before, but because now you’ve met someone who reminds you, constantly, through their actions, words, and energy, that you are worthy of love, this is your person and you know it. 

Being  in love feels like you have a better understanding of yourself and of the world. 

You know that your specific person will guide you closer to your purpose, and  support you in your endeavors.

Being in love is  equal giving and receiving of acts of kindness, of generosity, of your very best self, you don’t hold back your respect or admiration or adoration, and you receive the same in full measure. 

Being in love is calming and satisfying it is thrilling, a little scary, and exciting.

It is unknown and  you feel  vulnerable.

You can’t wait to see the person, and they are  feeling the same thing back.

You can see that their eyes light up with joy from seeing you.

When you meet them the first time there is an instant stirring in your soul, it is an instant knowing on a  soul level, and you think to yourself, “Here he is!“, or “here she is”.

It’s fun, it’s funny, it’s sensual, it is sexual and it’s a magical, it is sweet and it is tender, and it is a  sacred connection no other soul can ignite within you.

You know that everything could go wrong, but here you are, being vulnerable and falling in love anyway. Loving in spite of it all. You are brave and take steps you wouldn’t do for anyone else.

Falling in love feels like  a bubble around you, and it protects you from the regularness of life, inside the bubble, magic takes place. 

Do bad thoughts manifest?

Do bad thoughts manifest?

I saw this question in a facebook group, and it is a perfect question because it highlights the most common misunderstandings in the law of assumption, and also, this shows why reading your own source material can help you avoid misunderstandings like this. Only learning from YouTubers and coaches can make you more confused, because the law of attraction teaches something completely different from the law of attraction. 

I recommend reading or listening to Neville Goddard a few times through.

The question, or comment, on Facebook generated hundreds of answers. The original poster liked the comments that supported her, and generally disliked the comments that held the answer. This shows how the state we’re in is like “misery loves company”. It is not only misery that loves company, but all states that we fall into like to keep company that supports its thoughts and opinions. If you are angry, you like to be supported and justified in your anger and so on. While working at a trauma healing center, I noticed that the biggest hurdle to healing is often just that, a sense  of justification of the state that the client was in, even if that was a victimized state. The state wants to perpetuate itself.

This was the question:

I think I am going to have to stop trying to manifest stuff, coz when I follow LOA teachers,  (I’m guessing law of attraction, not law of assumption) they always say that your bad thoughts will manifest too… saying not to think about bad things is EXACTLY like telling someone to not think of a pink elephant and you are stuck thinking about a pink elephant… bad thoughts plus fear of bad thoughts equals more bad thoughts “(notice that her state of needing justification for continuing the bad thoughts is asking the group to confirm that it is too hard to stop thinking bad thoughts, she is stuck in this state)

 “I feel like I can’t get out of this pit and I’m going to have to try and let my mind rest… saying that the tiniest bit of doubt screws up your manifesting, to me that means that manifesting is impossible… coz it’s impossible not to feel doubt that a thing that doesn’t exist EXISTS… I mean I’m having bad thoughts that turn into a pain symptom in my body almost instantly… so i’m just going to have to leave it all alone until I can get my mind back to normal… unless y’all have some good suggestions other than ‘don’t think that way’.. Thanks!

This state that, she wants support for, “the impossible task of not thinking bad thoughts”, is only a state, it isn’t a personality trait and it isn’t even in need of therapy. I don’t know the quality of her bad thoughts, but it sounds like anxiety. She has noticed that her bad thoughts turn into physical pain, and this is exactly what happens at the tail end of prolonged structural dissociation. The body says no. First her mind was saying no, and eventually her body said no.  This mind-body language is the communication of our physical self to our spiritual self. Her spiritual self, her core of conscious self does not agree with the negativity of her mind, it is communicating something different, but until she lives on the edge of her comfort zone, until she decides to leave the “misery loves company state”, this anxiety and physical pain will continue. 

(Treating pain syndromes like this without addressing  the state of misery, is pointless, the pain comes back in a few days. )

The law of assumption generally does not bother with over focusing on affirmations, or “not thinking bad thoughts” though, this comes from the law of attraction, a field of information that can be ripe with misinformation. This is where you hear about things like the 555 method, the 369 method or the water method, and other methods that are more or less like spell casting. The law of assumption has no overlap with the law of attraction in that regard. (Just the LOA acronym) The law of assumption is based on nondual principles. There is nothing to attract in a nondual consciousness…

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We all experience a unique world of circumstances, this includes everything from different difficulties, different qualities of relationships, and we also experience a unique set of financial health or instability, differences in health and strengths and so on. Whatever we entertain in our consciousness is like water for a seed of circumstances.

What we entertain in our state of mind is the soil, the water, the sunlight and the sustenance for our own circumstances. 

I have a way of being drawn to true crime shows for example, and when I have spent a lot of time on my inner state, on building my inner divine connection I feel averse to true crime, but as soon as I expense a little  bit of actual stress in life I feel drawn to watching true crime again, this is how the state that we are in creates our thoughts, and our desires.

Choosing a desire and pursuing it from the mindset of law of attraction can keep us in a loop like this, stuck in a state. A state that contains the whole universe of our own unique experience. This includes good and bad experiences. But all the circumstances are within the comfort zone of the state. 

When we have decided to shift state, the mind has to dare to dwell on the fulfillment and completion of the desires. Yes the desires are also sometimes generated from that old state, but it is like a lighthouse guiding you forward, on into greater states. Neville Goddard talks about  “buying the pearl”  (and selling our contradictory beliefs.) It is taken from a Bible verse, like all of Neville’s teachings:

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it.”

The pearl represents what you want, and selling everything that he has represents every last contradictory belief that you have, the reasons that you have stacked against yourself.

Neville puts it this way:

“If you think for one moment you can hold on to one little thing in the event this doesn’t work, you can’t buy the pearl. And so when I buy the pearl, I go all out and live by it. And there is no other being in this world, just this pearl, and I live by it.  This pearl is your own wonderful human Imagination.” – Neville Goddard

Let’s come back to the original posters’ concern over bad thoughts.  Does everything manifest, every tiny little thought? Yes it contributes to your overall state, and the state manifests. It isn’t like the thought goes into a 3d printer and you get an identical experience, that cannot happen because of hundreds of thousands conflicting thoughts. ALL thoughts go into the 3d printer, and what comes out is a blend of everything. Like a cake that had all the ingredients mixed together, it comes out of the oven as a cake, not as each individual ingredient that went in. 

Just like I described with my true crime addiction, so our negative thoughts are addictive, and all negative things that belong to your state, are all addictive. They are designed by yourself for yourself so that you can alert yourself to the state that you are in and the path that you can take to level up out of that state, so that you too can experience a quantum jump, a shift into a completely different reality and THAT is what you want. That is what everyone ultimately wants. An easier and more pleasant life. For that to happen we have to learn how to use our own circumstances to level up, and not use them to keep ourselves stuck in the addictive patterns of seeking more and more misery. The desire that you are manifesting is demanding a different version of you. A version that has “sold all belongings and bought the pearl”. Luckily different versions of ourselves are just states of mind, and a state has no actual power over us. You are free to leave a state behind at any moment, it is completely lifeless without you, and you won’t remember those bad thoughts that you were so attached to before. Just like I don’t remember that I want to watch true crime when I am in a completely different state, and if I try to watch it I feel that it is too dark and I dislike it. 

Now, some real talk about negative thoughts….

I manifested a lump sum of a hundred grand once, I did an imaginal scene, and I created a meditative trance-like state when I did it. It took two years for that money to actually come in, but number one, I thought MANY bad thoughts in those two years, and furthermore, I did not believe. I actually didn’t think about it again at all, but I was a very negative person in many ways back then. I often took inventory of what was bad in my life, and I liked to talk about it with my friends too. I mention this because I want to show proof that thinking bad thoughts does not stop a manifestation, it just colors the quality of your life.I have made videos already explaining that you don’t have to believe either.

Thoughts and beliefs are generated by the state that you are in, and your manifestation will come to you  in accordance with your state. So the manifestation comes, but how does it come? It comes in a way that you can believe according to your state. You don’t have to change your thoughts or your beliefs to get your manifestation, but if you want to change state, your thoughts and beliefs will change along with the state.

I didn’t doubt either because I didn’t believe it. I had two years worth of negative thoughts in between lol! I have manifested so many things with a mountain of negativity still in me,including my amazing beach apartment, in the most amazing neighborhood,  but I am very GLAD that I cleaned that up, for my own sake ha!

Listen. Let’s explain this from a nondual perspective.

All you do is manifest, there is nothing else happening, but you, here, made manifest by your consciousness, there is literally nothing but us, manifesting, so why bother being so anxious about bad thoughts? Does it matter if you thought a “bad” thought and it threw a wrench in the machinery for a second?  This is the spice of life that we are a bit addicted to. That is why we like scary movies and the thrill of fast roller coasters.  Becoming more and more zen is a gradual process, and you get to choose your own path there, and your own pace there. If you like to think negative thoughts, then yes, it contributes to your overall life experience, but they do NOT prevent your manifestations.

Everything manifests there is nothing else. What thoughts do is contribute to the state that you are in, but you can choose not to worry about them and let them go, or you can choose to think only about the pain of bad thoughts, it is a choice. All that good or bad thoughts do is  they contribute to the “cake batter” of your state, that you are mixing, the “cake” is your state.  Your state  is a manifestation of its own, the state is a parallel reality, in an endless universe of parallel realities. 

 The state is a universe of its own where you think certain thoughts and feel different feelings and experience different circumstances and people. All of life, every last thing is nothing but consciousness, from our waking sensing experiences to our sleep, it is all consciousness. Different experiences, sure, but still all experiences are just consciousness. Consciousness, plus an object, is experience. Object without consciousness equals no experience.  The objects change, but the consciousness is the same. 

Changing objects equals different experiences. No matter what the object is, it is an object in your awareness, in your consciousness, even a mountain is still in your consciousness,  the whole universe is just an object in your consciousness. Now, The mind is also an object. The brain is an object and the mind is an object, and as such it arises from your consciousness. The thoughts without consciousness equals no experience. It is YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS that is like a projector light shining on the object, which reflects onto the screen of space that is your circumstances.  Change the object (thoughts) and a different experience will project out. That is how it works. There is no other way.

In summary:

Your state manifests the thoughts, not the other way around. Your thoughts can help you shift state if you understand this.

Law of assumption means that your assumed sense of self manifests, and the law of attraction…well…. I don’t know that it is anything to even think about, I don’t.  Pretend it is like this:

Step 1. You assume

Step 2. Your assumption projects out and becomes your world

Step 3. You attract or repel whatever you have projected out.

Currently, you are living in your assumed reality, and you are playing with your own projection, and you are sorting, attracting and repelling the stuff of your own projection. 

You CAN manipulate the projection by deciding consciously what you will assume, but you can also relinquish all of your power and just go along the way everyone else does too. It doesn’t mean that you “stopped manifesting” it just means that you are not conscious of your own projection.

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In my video this week, I talk about doership, letting go, and finding the sweet spot called “flow state” or “do-nothing’ to manifest that REALLY BIG THING.

Do you think that you have to affirm more and dig in deeper to your toolbox when things aren’t going your way?

Maybe you are the persist persist persist personality….

Or have you been told that you have to believe?

Or raise your vibration?

In Taoism, manifesting or the law of assumption is known as the “do-nothing” method, and this much closer to what you have to actually do.  Nothing.

If you are still putting in a ton of effort then you might be missing this bit of understanding.

All things are already made manifest and you don’t actually have to create anything. Nothing is outside of self out there somewhere in space so you don’t have to attract anything either. Imagine that all of reality, all of time from beginning to end, is already made, and imagine that all possible versions of yourself are already in existence ready to be embodied by your consciousness. There is a version of you that is enjoying the freedom of wealth and there is a version of you who is struggling with the fear of not being able to pay the bills, and many versions in between.

If you have experienced yourself in two different stages of progress you know that you feel different before and after.  If you got a degree, then there was the you before who was studying and turning down social events so that you could stay up all night reading reference books, and there is the you who is experiencing the freedom of making more money and being able to treat your friends to dinner or a night out after. 

This is not the same as “changing” it is you being a different version of yourself, and you are free to embody any version you want regardless of circumstances and that is the essence of manifesting. There is nothing to attract and nothing to create.

The power lies within your ability to accept something as true right here and now and nothing else, and how you get there, well that is up to you. 

You can say affirmations.

Or not.

You can create a vision board.

Or not.

You can listen to subliminals and all night meditations.

Or not.

Can you accept it as true now? Then you are done, and you can go ahead and “do nothing”

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Manifesting is not a magic spell, but it is magical so don’t forget to add the magical ingredient!

Manifesting is not a magic spell but there is magic to be discovered and that magic is found in your inner connection to source, to God, to eternally expanding conscious awareness and unconditional love. Yes that is all within reach always 100% of the time, but instead of focusing on what we want, we turn our focus outward and react. This is opposite of using the magic of manifesting!

“YOUR IMAGINATION is able to do all that you ask in proportion to the degree of your attention. All progress, all fulfillment of desire depend upon the control and concentration of your attention.

Attention may be either attracted from without or directed from within.”

Attention is attracted from without when you are consciously occupied with the external impressions of the immediate present.

Your attention is directed from within when you deliberately choose what you will be preoccupied with mentally.

It is obvious that, in the objective world, your attention is not only attracted by, but is constantly directed to external impressions.

But, your control in the subjective state is almost nonexistent, for in this state, attention is usually the servant and not the master – the passenger and not the navigator – of your world.

There is an enormous difference between attention directed objectively and attention directed subjectively, and the capacity to change your future depends on the latter.

When you are able to control the movements of your attention in the subjective world, you can modify or alter your life as you please. But this control cannot be achieved if you allow your attention to be attracted constantly from without.

Concentrate on those thoughts or moods which you deliberately determine. Then those things that now restrict you will fade and drop away.

The day you achieve control of the movements of your attention in the subjective world, you are master of your fate.

You will no longer accept the dominance of outside conditions or circumstances.

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Can’t imagine the end? Segment intend instead!

You probably already know that you are supposed to go to “The End”, and imagine a scene that could only happen after you get your desired manifestation. Sometimes that end is too hard to imagine. Since you have been taught to go to the end, you still try to  push for that. But you don’t know what the end will feel like, so you feel like it’s impossible Let’s say that you have now education, and you are working at 7 – 11 or something, but you want to be CEO at Tesla, but you feel like a loser.

So…. now you can’t imagine the end, because you are busy imagining that you are a loser.

Your imagination creates, so no matter what you want or hope for, your imagination is that you perceive yourself as a loser, and this is what keeps manifesting for you. It is not that easy to shift out of that slump, and if your goal feel so far away, or it feels like such a slim chance, like being CEO of Tesla, you will continue to not be able to “generate an imagination of the end”, as long as you are also imagining that you are a loser.

OR….You might be a completely different personality, a go getter, and if you are convinced that personality wins, all day and every day, and if you believe that education means nothing, but hard work and great work ethics win over a degree, like a yuppie of the 80s, then you can EASILY generate an imagination that might VERY WELL land you the gig as CEO of Tesla. Your personality is as much a part of your imagination about yourself as anything else, and personality is changeable.

If this yuppie go-getter personality seems too far off for you, then you can use segment intending.

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(This is where people get mixed up with not wanting to mess with the middle, but segment intending is not messing with the middle. It is still just using intentions to manifest, which by the way is the simplest and quickest manifestation technique anyway. An intention generates an automatic image of the end result.)

To segment intend you simply intend the next most obvious step to take. If you can’t do THAT either, then break it down even more. Sit down and break things down into smaller and smaller and smaller goals, until you are able to imagine yourself actually doing it. Small goals are great goals!. Let’s say you start with the end goal; CEO of tesla. Now what education do you think you need? What education do you need to get accepted into? What schools could this happen at, is it online or in person? What papers do you need to gather to apply to these schools, and keep breaking the smaller steps into as many small steps as you need to, and when there are no more smaller steps to take, finally outline all the steps on a paper. 

Now each step is your next segment, so instead of going straight for imagining CEO at tesla, imagine your next intention, will it be to gather the documents that you need to go to school? Great, imagine that. You can now suddenly probably more easily imagine yourself with your suit on, looking powerful. Each intention will feel manageable now, and a natural imagination arises suddenly. Now you are no longer subconsciously imaging that you are a loser.

When you manifest, you gather momentum, and if the goal feels impossible to imagine it is like you gather up a lot of momentum for collision. If you have no clue what direction to go, a lot of momentum can easily head for a halt. If you know where to direct your momentum you will continue to imagine a smooth ride.

Momentum and intention should match. If there is a tiny segment goal and your exuberance and positive vibration is bigger you will deflate like a balloon, and in that case make the goal bigger, and better.

Adjust your end state based on your belief in your abilities, and allow for this to change from day to day. Try  to not start a battle with yourself because you can’t imagine the end, rather allow for the ease of the next segment. Can’t imagine that “really really big thing” right now? That is fine, so imagine organizing yourself towards the next segment, get back in control, and your state will instantly shift out of panic or looser state, and you will be in a state of accomplished and competent, and oh, by the way, that state is exactly what the ceo of Tesla is in!

Imagine the next most logical step.

Is the marriage too far off, and do you have bad memories of marriage? Try to segment intend, and manifest nice and safe dates where you are treated right, and imagine an end when you are courted properly. 

If you were rejected, imagine that you feel so good that you don’t really care about the rejection anymore because you got your groove back independently of a partner. Then imagine that you are pursued or courted, and asked out. Then imagine that there is a lot of romantic interest in you. It is okay to go in baby steps so that you don’t veer off the road, it is okay to go at lightning speeds too, and to manifest bigger and better but it all depends on yourself and the state that you are in.

It all depends on the momentum that you are able to gather, and it depends on how you can stay the course and not drive into a ditch. If you are going too fast and you do drive into a ditch it is totally fine, just see it as a learning experience from your Godself. Maybe you want to be able to pull this off in an “instant manifestation” kind of way and you are learning, you are segment intending your way towards that end as well!

 

If you go too big, and your manifestation feels out of reach, you will automatically start to active imaginations about possible failures and all of your shortcomings, and yes, those imaginations are instant manifestations as well. Shrink your end goal to a size that gives you confidence but challenges you. If on the other hand you decide to go bigger, better and more fantastic, if  you feel excited about the greater end goal, your momentum will get you there! Just don’t give up on yourself just because you can’t get a feel for your end state, just segment intend every step of the way, shrink the end goal to a bite sized snack, do that for as long as you need to.  There is no true end anyway, the true end is the next end that you CAN imagine, it is a false belief that it has to be only certain things like “after the job promotion”, “after you own the business”, “after you get married” etc, but the only true end is death, and surely that is not an end we need to imagine lol!

The end can be “going to get burgers together with an sp”, the end can be to “establish interest” in the first place, especially if you have been very a insecure person. The end can be monogamy if you have had a hard time with that before, and the end of marriage is too scary to think about. Go segment to segment, and do it as slow as you need to, because in the end you will have received you manifestation faster, because slow and steady wins the race, and this is like the story of the tortoise and the hare.

Segment is different from messing in the middle, in the way that messing with the middle is “problem solving” and trying to figure out the how.

You can stay in a vibrationally still place where you allow “the how” to unfold, without finagling, or you can segment intend, trying to hammer every bit into place. Manifesting is equal to doing nothing BUT intending, and then staying in that vibration of having intended and in the state of ” it is already done”. (Sometimes there is some amount of problem solving to be done, and in that case, that can be your first segment intended, but commit to actually solving the problem then. Like this: Get a paper out, draw a line down the middle, and write a yes on one side and a no on the other for the problem that you want to solve. Give yourself 5 or 10 minutes, and jot down all the pro’s and con’s and the side with the most reasons wins. DONE.

Problem solving is a skill that many people don’t have, and sure, it does make a difference in your life, and it also makes a difference in your manifesting, because if you can learn how to do this, you can return to “being in the state of the wish fulfilled”

BUT. Problem solving is not manifesting, manifesting is trusting in the mystery that fuses two atoms together to create a molecule. You want a hydrogen and two oxygens fused so that you can have a sip of water, but are you  REALLY going to go out there to fuse them before you drink water? Or do you just trust in the mystery that created water out of atoms so that you can drink?  You need the faith and stillness to manifest, not problem solving.

You need to dwell on the sabbath.

It is already done.

Drink the water. 

Play with this idea today:

How much doing actually belongs to you?

Is there even ONE SINGLE THING that you can create?

No, all you can do is  intend.

The fusing of atoms, you can not accomplish that, no matter how much you plan or worry or manipulate.

If you can’t manifest imagining your end, it is because you can’t give up your belief in your own history, and this belief will change when you learn how to live in the end of your smaller segments. You will change, and you can observe your change.  

There is a surprising amount of old-school new-thought teachers that include action steps in the manifesting methods, and I have read most of these teachings. It is safe to say that Neville Goddard stands out as the teacher who grasped the concepts, and clearly explained that manifesting is a non-action method.

Yes you will take actions because that is life, it is full of living! But manifesting is equal to living in the sabbath.

On the seventh day God rested, and that is us.

We are on the seventh day, and we are resting. So be in the sabbath. Whatever helps you give up the struggle and rest and be still, whatever helps you be in the sabbath, do that. Size your goal after your internal ability to rest in that goal. Remember the only true end is the grave so you get to decide for yourself what end you want to manifest now, if your end is to “wake up happy tomorrow” fantastic, it is a perfect end, so do that.

If your end is establishing a liveable community on the planet Mars, fantastic, it is a perfect end, life in that sabbath.

You don’t have to stay stuck in your old state, you are free to give up struggling anytime, and to be in the wish fulfilled, in the sabbath, immediately.

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Manifesting Love Takes COURAGE!

“The second quality to be called to discipleship is Andrew or courage. As the first quality, faith in oneself, is developed it automatically calls into being its brother, courage. Faith in oneself, which asks no man’s help but quietly and alone appropriates the consciousness of the quality desired and in spite of reason or the evidence of his senses to the contrary continues faithful patiently waiting in the knowledge that his unseen claim if sustained must be realized such faith develops a courage and strength of character that are beyond the wildest dreams of the undisciplined man whose faith is in things seen.

The faith of the undisciplined man cannot really be called faith. For if the armies, medicines or wisdom of man in which his faith is placed be taken from him, his faith and courage go with it. But from the disciplined one the whole world could be taken and yet he would remain faithful in the knowledge that the state of consciousness in which he abides must in due season embody itself. This courage is Peter’s brother Andrew, the disciple, who knows what it is to dare, to do and to be silent.” – Neville Goddard

Mending a relationship takes courage, saying “I am sorry” first takes courage, being the first one to reach out after a period of estrangement takes courage. All of those are action steps, and we all know, probably first hand, how difficult it can be to be the first one to extend an olive branch, but what I am going to talk about here is the courage to believe.

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Have you been burned by love?

Have you been destroyed by love, with nothing recognizable left within you?

Have you numbed out because love hurts so bad, you just can’t stand to feel anymore?

I assure you, you are not alone. I have been there, and I have peeled myself off the ground several times, and I have dared to love again.

If you are going to master manifesting love, you have to learn how to rise again, every time. You have to rise from the ashes a thousand times. 

A relationship can go through changes upon changes, you can face illness, and death can happen, and every time, you have to get up again and believe.

Believing in love is an act of rebellion these days, nothing is as popular as being an independent person, and nothing will lead you to falling for the illusion of separation as quickly as a false faith in independence. We are oneness, and our quest is for harmony, not division, and this is an act of defiance of the current cultural individualistic and egoistic approach to live on earth. Love is the only truth.  Everything else is false. And yet we keep learning and teaching the opposite!

Believe in love, and you will see for yourself how internally you will put up a fight! All of our resistance comes from within, but don’t worry, you’ll manifest resistance from without as well. 

 

As the first quality, faith in oneself, is developed it automatically calls into being its brother, courage.”

“The faith of the undisciplined man cannot really be called faith. For if the armies, medicines or wisdom of man in which his faith is placed be taken from him, his faith and courage go with it.”

Our faith disappears as soon as we have been sufficiently challenged! Our circumstances mirrored rejection, betrayal, abandonment or worse, where did our faith go then?  If you can keep your faith when everything shows you the opposite, you have developed courage. 

from the disciplined one the whole world could be taken and yet he would remain faithful in the knowledge that the state of consciousness in which he abides must in due season embody itself”

Manifesting a specific person will require you to have the courage to stabilize in your state regardless of what comes your way.

When it comes to manifesting love everyone and their mother has an opinion, but you know what matters? Your own desires. That is it, nothing else. 

Let me give you a few examples of difficult marriages, and you will see that your situation isn’t any worse.

Marriage one.  Newly married, wife finds out that husband is actually a sex addict and a serial cheater. She is a big hearted life loving hippie mama who doesn’t CARE, because she loves him, and together they do sex and love addicts anonymous. After a rocky road for a few  years, they start to level out and do better and better. Fast forward 20 years, their children are growing up, they bought ranch land, they travel, they laugh and they are happier than ever before. Happy marriages take tons of work sometimes, is  it worth it? That is up to you to decide.

Marriage two.  A piano tuner,  British, married and American woman moved to Los Angeles. They are happy and have their first child. She starts cheating, then she leaves. He still loves her and hopes that she will come back. She does, and they are happy again and have another child.  She finds another guy, agai, and leaves and this time has a baby with the other man. Things don’t work out, and the piano tuner is still in love with her, patiently waiting for her to come back yet again, this time with another man’s child in tow. She comes back. This time she stays, and they are still happily married, all children grown and they are now grandparents.

I have hundreds of stories like this, where you think that they would have buckled under the circumstances, but love covers all transgressions, so it is up to you. Is it love you are feeling or is it not? 

Love takes courage. It isn’t for the weak. In a lifetime you will go through so many ups and downs, you might have trauma, you might switch political beliefs, you might join a new religion. There are so many things that we and our partner might go through but the only thing that matters is, do you love them?

If the answer is yes, then there will be times when you have to call on the mental faculty represented by Andrew the disciple (the discipline of courage) Faith in the tough times. Anyone can have faith when things are looking up, how hard is that? But it takes courage to believe when everything has gone wrong.

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Can I change my specific person to be faithful to me? Viewer Question

Manifestations happen ALL THE TIME.

This is an answer to a viewer question:

I found out that my sp wants to be with others in intimate way for a living, can I manifest him not wanting to do this for a living and just be with me?”

Manifestations are happening all the time, right now.

Now, and now, and now.

And also now.

Everything, and I mean literally everything is a manifestation, constantly, and it never stops. This means that everything that we entertain in our minds is on the conveyor belt RIGHT NOW, soon it will show up, somehow, someway, but when it does we are always bewildered! How did I manifest THAT? I didn’t want that, I never THOUGHT that I wanted THAT?  So why did it show up?

Not only is everything a manifestation (It is made manifest, so it MUST be a manifestation, and you are tho operant power so it isn’t somebody else’s manifestation) everything manifests instantly.

Now. And Now. And now.

Our perception is SMALL, and that is why we don’t get it. If we widen and broaden our perspective, and reverse engineer our life, we can see that everything manifests literally.

Our current circumstances have the possibility to drastically change instantly, IF we drastically change our thoughts, so you can observe the instant manifestation in real time. The only reason we think it takes a certain amount of time, is because we don’t drastically change our thoughts!

Try it!

Try the LULLABY METHOD, just as an experiment. Keep saying Thank you! Over and over again for two hours, and see what happens. This is my “ladder experiment”. You will prove to yourself that manifesting is real, and your doubts will cease.

When we see the outside circumstances, we are focused on a mirage.  We want that projection, but since it is a mirage, it runs away and disappears. There is NO manifesting that is happening “out there” and your specific person is not doing anything to you, you are projecting.

If you can stop projecting your current small view on the specific person, that is your own idea of them that you are projecting out, and if you can change your thoughts about them, expand your view of them, you will have an instant change.

You would have to stop being reactive to what you believe ‘they’ are doing, this is what we meant by not reacting to circumstance. This of it instead as reacting to a mirage in the desert. It is YOUR OWN DISTORTED VIEW. The amount of time it takes to change someone is the amount of time that it takes for you to erase your current perception of them, and replace it with a positive expanded view. And by the way. THIS is love! Being able to give someone the gift of seeing them for who they truly are, that is love. If you want to continue your idea of “they did this, and they are bad, they are cheating” and “They just have to change in all of these ways and then I will love them”, that is NOT love. We think that a “tit for tat exchange of favors” is love, because that is what we have been taught, but no, consistently maintaining an expanded view point of someone, without reacting to unwanted behavior, that is love.

I have changed people dramatically, from narcissist to amazing and generous, and so can you. 

Imagine if you raised your children with the same narrow viewpoint that you offer your specific person? Some people do, and those children end up in therapy, because why? Because THEY DIDN’T FEEL LOVED! That is all the proof that you need to know, that that style of love is never experienced as love.  If you want your love to be received as love by the mirage, you have to dig in a little deeper into your heart, and pull out a bigger and better view of our specific person, keep that view, even when they are showing you something else. This is how you create the change that you want.

If you want them to be committed to you, then see only that. If you want them to be faithful, then experience them as only that.

If they are not, you have perceived that BEFORE the rejection or cheating happened. It is always that way because that is universal law.

If you don’t change your mind about them they will not change.

You have already been manifesting the whole entire time, now you just need to do it deliberately and consciously. You have to manifest a whole new and completely different version of them. Most people try to “manifest the exact same version” and that ends up in a back and forth, how and cold behavior.  That ends up as breaking up and getting back together over and over again, you have decided to change your mind completely about them, and then the behavior will stop!

Dr Anna Bäck

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